Put Yourself Into Other People Shoes

A ex bosses of mine have taught me very good lesson, it could be priceless. "Think of people before think of yourself." What a quote for me on that day lesson. The real thing is you won't expect anything in return after you have put yourself into other people shoes. I have a good team around 11 players working with last time, I was only age 26 years responsible to lead the team to achieve management sales target. I have used all my efforts and time to develop from nothing until achieve result.

You must want to know how should I make use my capable skill to create extraordinary result. Let's me share my small achievement. I initially totally fresh and new when I assigned to become a group of small team without any experiences in real competitive corporation. I used to lead during my studies time but indeed it only can help me for personal skill and nothing extra you can expect. After 3 months later, my result was poor and bad. In other words, I didn't achieve management target.

From day to day, I must know what I have done right instead of thinking what I have done wrong. I was not realized until my boss came to me and have a short meeting session taught me what you need to do now, it's to ensure you must "put yourself into your staff shoes." I guessed initially will be scolded by him but the expectation was wrong. He's willing to guide me out. He's not asking for achieve your sales. He made me almost sweat my body.

After that day, I learned a lesson. I changed to use difference approaches to ensure they have listened and willing to work for me. It's work. I was going with each of them, listen to them and take care of them. However, I did expect nothing. What I want to address here, when you have realised something you never take good care or become good listener, you can go anyway, on the other hand, you also stay behind the track.

What Are The Secret of Success?

First of all, the definition of the word can be very broad. For some people, success is all about money. For others, it is about happiness and doing what they love as well as achieving their goals. There are certain traits or characteristics that you absolutely need in order to make these things happen for YOU. Develop these traits, and you can almost guarantee yourself success down the road!
WHAT ARE THESE TRAITS?
1. Faith. You have to have faith in yourself and that you will be able to accomplish whatever it is that you want to. And you also have to have faith if you want others to get behind you as well.
2. Persistence. Don't give up at the first signs that things may not be working out for you. Many times it will seem that way even when you are on the right track. Keep moving forward towards what you want.
3. Desire. A dream without desire is really nothing more than a wish. And if you do not have the desire to make your dreams become your reality, they probably won't!
Develop these traits and keep working towards the success that you want. It can happen, although it rarely happens overnight. You have to work at it and persist no matter what may happen!

New Year, New Life, New Challenges in 2013.

What is your new year wish and resolution in 2013? I have no idea whether it is good or bad about the change, however it is time to be change for new life and new challenges in 2013. Why some people have fear to change? I have met my ex-boss today, I have felt his thought are firm and confidence. The way he's talking indirectly providing you valuable information how to be better person in life where to maintain at no pressure, no further commitment in life. I felt made a right decision at this time. I knew myself is ready for new challenge. You may go through in  tough time although I will be facing numbers of obstacles in my next career path. I only know that when there is an opportunity is open the door for you, but you refused to change, so you will not become someone will achieve a wealth life in your dream. Wait & see attitude can stop you to move forward because the atmosphere is too comfort for you. 

Honestly, he was my personal guru for my 1st job after graduate from university. I did not tell him about this, I hope he really can feel it. I have recalled what he had taught me in the past, the lesson was " Don't ever think too much, Just Do it." When times come, you'll know how powerful is. Was it work for me? I have just applied to what i will be going to do next. Yes, it is worked for me. How to break the fear when you wanna to change? I believe it is the way how you think of with positive mental and mind-set. As I said above, "Don't ever think too much, Just Do it." Are you a god whom can see what is the next happen to you? No, it is not at all. So, how you can strive for the best at this time? I have shared my fear with my wife indeed. But the things can't change overnight until you are putting yourself in the position and view carefully where you do realize that the actual circumstances whether are what you thought of.  So, again "Don't think too much, Just Do it." I have to accept what is the next for new task, because I am not willing to give up until I have promised myself and my wife, I must change & I must work harder to achieve better living for my family. If i give up right now, who would be the most disappointed? It is ME. I disappointed myself. The biggest enemy in our life is You. You are the one stops to move on. 

Do you ever tell yourself I will let go when one thing is consider good opportunity? The 100% answer is NO. Whatever there are bad rumors outside about the opportunity, I believe when you stand it, accept it, take it as new challenges, the wall you may break through it to achieve better person behind the wall. 

A Strongers Do Survive, A Cowards DO NOT!

I posted my comment to my mentor blog for this month new topic. It's pretty awesome. I believe some of you might heard this statement but some of you might not. The fantastic topic calls, "366 days marketing" which more related current competitive edges on what the company to fight and beat against their competitors. What he is trying to address here, the company's do survive with marketing-daily instead of marketing-oriented. You must work extra one more day to win the battle. Not only works in 365 days, you must work more than that until you are the winner's in the battle. A strongers do survive, however a cowards only end up with the loser.

As Henry Ford often said, "whether you choose to do it, or you choose not, you're always right."The meaning here is whatever you do and you are not, we are not going to evaluate you're wrong. Remember this, "You're always right for what being reasons too." You determine which one is right and which one is not. More so, if you think you have numbers of great, creative and unique ideas to start off the new businesses all over the world, you can though to convince the people to start venture in your new business. You choose not to sell your ideas, it may cause someone does stole you ideas, you can choose to wait at the right time. Yes, you deserve it. Nobody able to take away your unique ideas.

With strong marketing ideas, a strong marketers would be not miss the business opportunities to penetrate it even faster than ever. They used to understand the Confucius said "A journey of 1,000 miles must begin with a single move." If you think the idea is extremely works, persist it and makes your dream comes true. If you determine your fate. To be successful entrepreneur, you must carry with such behavior, Do Dare To Try whatever a gold opportunity is right in front of you. Success is never ever comes to you. You must perseverance, you must persist it. Do realise all the dreams what we have now, we can't make it happen in overnight. Do begin you single step to achieve your gaols. "A Strongers Do Survive, A Cowards DO NOT!" And of course, when you are stepping your ever first step, those toxic people always discourage you to begin your first step. You usually will rise numerous obstacles to make your afraid, scare being coward, you must stay away from them. Please do not mingle all this kind of bad-influencers and cowards.

Learn, Teach Or Give

"Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach him to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime."