As some expert leader often said, "the first impression only can last within 30 seconds." Don't you agree？ I strongly agreed that this statement and hope you either. Successful people in their life always carried a pattern of mutually beneficial interpersonal relationship. And of course, your communication and the image you present creates the first impression - often the lasting impression- the people you meet.
As I has stated in last few articles, "You have 3 minutes to sell me your idea." I believe you definitely have doubt how to make it? What are the effective strategies? Should i plan before my proposal My opinion is no strategy provided. Your image is sells your products and services. Apart from that, the communication is crucial how you deliver to your potential buyer through the professional image and communication. Your first impression can ever lasting to your audience, it's just approximately within 30 seconds. Less than a minute. Hence, the greatest way to sell yourself is the first 3 sentences how you give impact to your listener. Ironically, networking is one of the way to promote yourself through variety of social meeting, group gathering and etc.
With rapid technological growth today, every people always say they are busy. I have no time to listen to you. Some are said, "Im not interested at all." It is common rejection when you are trying to sell your ideas. How does good image can provide huge impacts? Professional appearance is counts. The good image, in fact you are the person who believe in yourself and confidence all the time. As many professional mentor often urged, those are people who want to advance in their career always have to dress to what you want, not eventually current position. Despite that, your professional image will serve you well when promotions, lateral moves, choice assignments and departmental visibility are available. In order to winning in this current competitive edge, I strongly suggest that we should be projecting the best images we can to serve ourself well in the workplace.
You have been tried countless times to succeed in your career, what is the status of the outcome in your career paths? It's talk easily though we observe surrounding of our friends can always walk their talk, it's probably none of them. Just recalled back that some failure experiences you have gone through, how countless times have tried until you have stopped? Ten tries, one hundred tries, ten thousand tries or countless times?
It sounds so weird to you, as well as me also. I can called myself is an ambitious person. I always act like entrepreneur from time to time. Being ambitious entrepreneur, I can foresee every setback is a challenge to me. Bad things happen to good people. It is a reason our life is happens upside down. It depends on our thoughts how to look at bad things in different ways.
Some people think if the tasks or any works beyond their responsibility and capacity, they usually end up with failure. They are not even to try how difficult it is. It is totally wrong perception. When we treat the setbacks as our failure, and then you have decided to give up, it confirms you decided to fail.
Please don't get me wrong. I address it is just all about my personal experiences. Success is not measured by how high we go up in life but by how many times we bounce back when we fall down. It is this bounce back ability that determines success.
Do you trust your destiny can be obtained in one day? Do you ever expect to stay in luxury, brilliant property with trillion of dollars? I before start with my perception, at the same time, i will be giving my own perspective in my own destiny. I fell great when I can observed surrounding my great friends able achieved it especially they believe it, their destiny comes true! Everyone of us is expect something in return in near future, do you trust your fate? I believe it, although I can't see any huge achievements in my current lives. I expect something in return all of the efforts which always build my journey no matter how difficult in your life, I look at my fate is lesson of learning to grow. That lesson on what you always command your lives. This is much more likely the beginning of journey how you plan to achieve, you ever dream big.
A friend of mine, she said it is "home". The destiny can be describes in our life where we are now staying with one of the happiness of family. On the other way, some people convey their message in differently especially they are underwent a number of obstacles, setbacks and failure. My mentor often said, "You determine your fate. No one can able to take away your destiny." Apart from that, we should think big in terms of the dreams we always dream for, expect more than on what you beginning you have set in your dreams list. Destiny always use links with a relationship between you and thoughts. My thoughts usually appear in my mind say, "what is my destiny when I reached my 40's?" This is what I am recently doing and planning to achieve huge achievement when reached that age. Can you help me to obtain my dreams? I want lots of ideas to ensure it is works, I though am not required you to be my mentor,but at the point of time, I appreciate your supports and ideas contributed.
When you awake in this fresh morning and prepare to leave your home for work, suddenly you have forgotten to tae something important behind,what is you reaction that time? Meanwhile, it had been repeated mistakes more than twice, I don't think it's right. Some leader expert often said, "The more mistakes you have made, the more wisdom you will obtain." I do agree with the statements, however there are depends on what are the mistakes you have made.
At the same time, what will significantly do learn from mistakes, you'll eventually heading path of success lives. Some leader urged that if you have understand your shortcomings, you should find better options to reduce mistakes repeating. The mistake is something we can work out and overcome it. It is not as hard as we think. Mistakes are good lesson for everyone of us. There can be referred as good mentor in our lives. I believe with this strong statement, "you have made mistakes rather than those are not even had before."
When you at first made one mistakes, you are learning a new things, if mistakes repeated again, you'll understand how to improve it and never ever repeat it. That helps to assure that the problem or mistake won't be repeated. By learning from mistakes we can move forward in the paths of success.
Here you are:-
Ask yourself these three simple questions now.
1. What things do you love to do?
2. What had you done in the past you felt really good about yourself in life?
3. What strengthen your energy?
Fifteen ways to resolve conflicts:
1. Seek to understand the problem
2. Listen to each other – take turns to speak
3. Listen to the other person’s point of view
4. Calm down first – manage your emotions
5. Clearly and calmly state your opinion
6. Be honest about your feelings
7. Always put yourself in the other persons' shoes
8. Walk Your Talk
9. Seek a win environment
10. Seek mentor's advices
11. If people offer their wisdom as you go through life, accept it gratefully
12. You can learn much from those who have went through before you
13. Never be afraid or hesitant to step off the accepted path
14. Go ahead in your own direction if your heart tells you that it’s the right way for you
15. Always believe that you will ultimately succeed at whatever you do, and never forget the value of persistence, discipline, and determination
It is your life and only you can take charge of your own path. You need to discover what you truly want from life, and sometimes this is hard to determine! Start by finding out what makes you happy and what you love doing.
