Thursday, May 2, 2013

Competition Nobody Except Yourself


When I read this article with powerful inspiration to myself. The main reason that it really meant to you after recalled back in my career life. It can say the journey is waved and tough. It's because I am not self-fish and egoism caused me made a lots of mistakes. Not only that the mistakes have brought lots of troublesome to my family and also my beloved wife. Worth it to do that? I extremely regretful because I am supposed not to continue it mainly it will only causing you  to stop moving forward, on the other hand, you defeated by yourself. 

Problems, setbacks, mistakes and losses all are part of our life. Believe it or not, it is meant to all of us. When you able to break through, the doors is always open for those are ready to next level. Life is often ups and downs. When you are succeed, there are successful reason on your behind. Who's knows that? The only man knew is you. No one is being defected caused by someone whom friends, relatives or business partners. It all about YOU. If you failed it, you fail yourself. You compete yourself indirectly because the biggest enemy is YOU. We must understand "It only takes one person to change your life, the answer is YOU. No one is competing each other, it is because no one is care about you. You are the one taking care of yourself. Every single success story must require lots of efforts, hard work, accountability and trust. 

The first one is lots of efforts. There is no free lunch in this earth. Have you ever heard that Bill gates can be so successful without any efforts? Unbelievable.  The rich is always richer due to their thoughts and creativity often thinking out-of-the box. No one is providing any guideline to be succeed, it is reason they mind about their business. Just ignore all unnecessarily distraction outside to focus on how to improve themselves to maintain their performance in the industry. Either you are awaited to be failed or choose to success doors upon attempted number of failed and challenges along the journey of success. How you can outdo yourself among your competitor in this time?The only matter is you care about your own matter.

 The matter is managed help to move a head to level of happiness when you are putting efforts than others to compete against your competitor. I still remember that my ex-boss told me, "Don't give too much pressure to yourself. It is FUN Target. No matter how serious it is, it is still figures show everything in your job. On less you boss is very kind-hearted person and down-to-earth which so called low profile. There is no right or wrong. In the matter of your perspective on how to view on this perspective. 

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

MVP: A Strategy of Your Own

I absolutely agree there would be number of MVP in your career path especially well-known and huge organization during yearly employees recognition. Have you ever thought that you will one of them? Why not ask yourself throughout the journey in your career have you ever been recognized as MVE (Most Valuable Employee)? I frankly to say I have not but "if something hasn't happened for you, it doesn't mean it's never going to happen. I would only say it might mean that You're Not Ready for it Yet." When time is comes, you would have chances to grab this opportunity. All of us must go through umpteen of challenges and failure before you will be sparkling and make people to remember you what would you biggest achievement. Would you give up easily? Please leave my blog if you say "YES"... I can say "being defected is a temporarily conditions. Giving up what makes it permanent." Did you see anyone failure and giving up easily is one of the successful example. We know it is IMPOSSIBLE.  Make any sense? Coming back in the past of your career journey, hasn't it gone through smoothly or indirectly it has went through tough life. 

I encourage you to make peace  with your past, otherwise it will keep showing up in your present. Would it look good for you? The past performance is not guarantee for future result. Sound agree? I treat it as my life lesson where these could be bring you to next level when you are ready for it all new challenges and opportunity right in front of you. I could not really address where is your great opportunity right in front, the only encouragement that I have advise is you seek for it, stay away for comfort zone, break it through all obstacles, care about your business, care about yourself and you are not strong enough if you are taking care anything in you in life. 

A good example in NBA award is stand for "Most Valuable Player", or else, in the competitive edge is basically stand for "Most Valuable Professional". Indeed, how many of your colleagues did award as MVP (Most valuable professional)? I guess your have an answer. In this competitive edge, we are desperately to be awarded as MVP in your corporation, it's not as simple as you mentioned. 

To be recognized as MVP, Kobe Bryant for instance he has been awarded as MVP in National Basketball Association (NBA). Some said, "He deserves for it." Why and what actual reasons he deserve it? I will share with you further. The main reasons are his behaviors and characteristics. He's down to earth to address this statement, "We have to work harder, we have failings that we need to address and we have not reached our potential or personal goals." Is it very impressive? He able to led a team to persist their dreams to obtain best result. He dedications to excellence and winning.

Do you have such excellence morals to enhance you value added? To be great MVP, you must hold strong enthusiasm to communicate with your teams constantly. Despite that, you should also take care your own emotionally & physically to obtain the best result.

Friday, April 26, 2013

Do Less


Nowadays, many people have worked as what they paid for it. Apparently they do not work extra miles. Why nowadays all people change a lot? They will only say one thing, what the employer pays me, I contribute what I have paid for. Give & Take. Do less work. Do less mistakes. This happen often when many of us always think of what the employer can gives us and we don't ever concern what should we contribute to employer. Is it so commonly where happen in your company? Yes, it is. I observed some of my former co-workers in last employment, they never stayed late and leaving sharp after the work time. It doesn't mean they have not finished their work, they are efficient people where all stuffs can be done within a work day.

I stressed in earlier, it's sound likely negative. However, on the other hands, you do less will get some value inputs and ideas. Here is...
  • Do Less Thinking - and pay more attention to your heart.
  • Do Less Acquiring - and pay more attention to what you already have.
  • Do Less Complaining- and pay more attention to giving.
  • Do Less Controlling - and pay more attention to letting go.
  • Do Less Criticizing - and pay more attention to complementing.
  • Do Less Arguing - and pay more attention to forgiveness.
  • Do Less Running Around - and pay more attention to stillness.
  • Do Less Talking - and pay more attention to silence.
I am trying to share with you that do less in what you suppose to do. Those are unnecessarily not encouraged at all. Please bear in mind, your small action will totally affect your evaluation. Do not ever rush. Be calm and stay cool. You can even do less but in terms of you thoughts would

be much difference than the work. I would not focus on the work tasks, I will focus more on your behavior and belief against your negative thoughts. You just pay more attention on what you have, who you are, which is right and where to obtain it. You go ahead beyond your capability, it is not encouraged too. You find nowhere to adopt it. You should learn how to self-control on emotionally and psychical to understand things never ever occur in overnight.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

5 Tips for Blogging Your Way To Success


The good things to be blogger are able to diversify your personal ideas neither brilliant or nor, it extremely amazing when you are continuously writing and posting often. I am, indeed posting my blog daily. I can't stop to write. I recalled that day I was created, I was starting to write non-stop is main reasons are to improving my writing skills and develop my interpersonal skills.

Knowledge is a power. I wanted more than that. I know I can succeed in one day, it's my passion to do it. I believe do it right. I sometime feel so happy when someone is saying how can you write so good. I love that entire word, "good". In my mind, I'm keep on saying that I have improvement actually. As mentor often said, "Practise, practise and practise." I should tell you know, writing a blog is not as difficult as you think. I don't mean all things can be perfect because of your passion. Passion, though is a journey to step one forward to reach succeed.

Along the way, I find lots of happiness especially a number of people have been given good comments on my blog. It's really give me huge satisfaction. It's truly awesome on what I am doing now. It's pretty amazing for me. I sometimes also do not believe what I really do it, I just tell myself this,"If you're willing to try, it doesn't matter how tough it is as long as you have try your best ever."

Blog about what your passionate about - I can only say some bloggers are knowledgeable and professional, they are really bravo when they are understand their ideas must share with all over the world. Whether it's right or wrong, let's people to comments their point of views.

Make sure you post frequently - can you believe some professional experts said," Blogging is about happiness." You start with blog whatever you think can make you more happier and satisfaction, I strongly you just go ahead. Also ensure you have a clear ideas on what you're blogging about. Blogs do better when you focus it.

Develop you own uniqueness - Every blogger has their uniqueness especially their thoughts, their behavior. They alert what make people interested to view their blog. Do you know what is your unique? Create special and brilliant topic once in awhile. Change makes difference.

Do research - Find out certain blogs as you can think they are different than others. Instead of creating your own one, your should conduct research often. It brings your lots of great ideas. Never under estimate their blogs. As mentioned in earlier topics, don't do it for money. We must find our interest on what topics can label their attention.

Do more marketing search - The more ideas you have, the more creativity in your mind. Some successful bloggers are selling through their blog, although the profit turnover is slightly lower, the return is where you can't find when you are letting the money works for you.

Burn Out The Fear

Sound pretty strange to you, when you have read this title, aren't you? I notice some of you understand but not everyone of you. I did hear about "Burn out your energy!", "Burn out your strength!" This was what I had have ever hear before. How do we burn out our fear? In my point of view, I do understand that every single of challenges or setbacks, we should not escape away, we should breakthrough, regardless how difficult of the challenges and failure, we need re-bound again.


Take few good examples how do we burn out our fear:

Public speaking - many of us may be not try to speak in front of huge group, we now should find an opportunity to walk up the stage to giving a speech. This is to ensure us to burn out our fear.

Arise your opinion - During any general meeting regardless in corporation, in social meeting and so forth, try to voice out your personal view to impress others where you'll bring a number of valuable inputs to the people who you never ever meet or talk to them. Burn out your fear!

Indicate creative strategy - When you indicate new strategies if possible can be applied to enhance current strategy which it rarely work out. It may caused only 2 option which advantages & disadvantages. It doesn't mean useless. Always think positive when you have brilliant ideas to bring out. Burn out your Fear!

As above highlighted only certain value inputs from my personally gained experiences, I strongly welcome any gorgeous comments from your opinion.