"Women Hold Up Half The Sky"

I just recently read an article, which attracted my intention to put up my post here. Traditionally, we think most women lack of certain skills, knowledge's and intelligent. We indeed are getting wrong perception on them. Time is moving, and of course women will also be developed more skillful and knowledgeable. it's could be out of your expectation. You just open your eyes and look at those are women are working in workforce, certain of them may hold up to the top ladder in corporation.

As leader experts said,Chinese communist leader Mao Zedong once remarked that “women hold up half the sky”. Whether it was an ancient proverb or his own quotation, having women in the workforce has certainly brought about a host of benefits.

The survey has proven that yet in Malaysia, only 37% of the 10.8million workforce is women. The remaining balance will occupy by the men which 77% of the available of roles. Therefore, we shouldn't expect the numbers as shown it will not be going up, it may going up in upcoming day especially in the corporate ladders. As often said, "Never ever estimated anyone else next to you."

"Why, when you have two hands, you only use one?" as professional OL addressed in this articles. They as women, they are not trying to compete with the men, it's not about being as best as men. They are just recognizing fro their own strengths and capabilities. Apart from that, women are hold the higher education rather than men. This is caused them to understand the men world always in high ladder, this is one of the way to stay in same level with men. Hence so far, I also understand that there are number of social communities to widen their networking, develop their skills, share their resources and representing themselves to government of their point of views. In workforce, it occurred gender bias basically where women always reluctant speak for themselves and achievements. Like such pattern, they used not to create norms among the social norms nor are they encouraging other women to succeed. It's difficult their efforts speak from themselves, they must able to create the intention for men to understand they are not weak likely last time.

Women measure success differently from men, “Success to men, generally speaking, is about making profits and beating your opponents. Women tend to measure success by fulfilling passions and benefiting all around them,” despite that, corporate culture must recognise female traits as a strength and not a disadvantage simply because it differs from male traits.

Fear Factor of Entrepreneurs

In recent climate change, there are lot of potential young entrepreneurs to start off their own business to invest more opportunity in their lives. And no doubt, to create a new business idea, it may cost your time and energy to figure out whether it could be possible to venture and approach investors to look at this ideas positively. It is not simple as you think if you out yourself into their shoes. Therefore, I can foresee they have facing a number of obstacles to block their own dream in order to them to heading forward to the destiny as they desired. Have you ever thought of what are the best strategy to overcome your nightmare and make your ideas successful in business? I may dropped my few solution to lead away your biggest nightmare.

1. Fear of rejection
When you thought certain brilliant and gorgeous ideas, did you fear to share with anyone else? What actual obstacles can ever stopped your dreams? it could be few main reason, but the main one is your fear of rejection. Some people will say your ideas can't ever worked it. Many good rejection examples can shared with you, "it's gonna to cost very high, profit margin is too low, consumers may not accepted new changes, it too much money to start off, the risk too high and so forth." And it's truth that it gonna to stop your movement. You start to think negatively, you feared. You should not stop because it is small roadblocks but it can breakthrough.

Solution: Be remember, kick your butt now and tell the world, you're dare to challenge and go against the grain to see the opportunities. Yet you must struggle until to strive your jackpots.

2. Fear of losing your time
Being successful entrepreneur never worked with anyone else. You work for yourself. You are the one to determine whether you wanted to work 24/7 a day nor 366 days ahead(work extra 1 day created differences). You will definitely have no spare time with your family and your holidays. You need to sacrifice most of time to make your business succeed. Whenever you have started new business, you will be concentrating the business strategies, how do you can step forward to next level to gain market advantages. Solution: No sacrifice, no result will pay out. You make it happen, if you think your business stable and good enough, you are wrong.

Solution: You must alert all time, balance with your working time and leisure time and ultimately to understand on what your competitors doing and implement whatsoever marketing strategy to capture more market share. Some expert said" Life is short, set aside of fear."

3. Fear of being all alone
You will guide without bosses. No one will tell how to do and how to start. You alone to work and solve every single problems when you've facing. You make your own decision. You perhaps may decided wrong decision, you have worked no framework. The worst scenario you may spend more time to figure out the problems and solve it over. Self- independent can strengthen your minds and decision making. Work alone apparently can be the best where you able to monitor every tasks you know which is main priority and which is not.

Solution: Work out a sheet of daily tasks, which able to allocate your tasks naturally and smartly. You save much time and allocating the tasks based on the deadlines as you set. No matter important nor unimportant, you must diversify your priority and specific measurable goals help you to feel good on your achievements.

Admitting Your Stupid Mistakes

Just recalled some mistakes which you have done, did you realized that it was your mistakes where it basically did not accepted by someone you ever loved? You might be ask yourself, did you honest enough to someone you really loved? What if you have not, what are the main reasons caused you have not tell the truths? I can expected some questions in your mind now. Tell the truths may or may not easy but it as hard as you think of. To admit mistakes, it is not as easy as you just speak to anyone else. I feel some feared when you have done mistakes, it's not evaluate small or big, it just such your pattern being honestly. I feared indeed. I really pissed off.

I don't know how should I start to tell your beloved person. I certainly have done some mistakes will cause myself suffering daily where you even have trouble to keep yourself moving forward. I also understand that it might be caused your beloved suffering as well. You sometimes might not seen and feel how such ridiculous mistakes can caused someone next to you. It created uncomfortable zone, it will. You may thinking how to convince her/him listen to you, the most important part you ask for forgiveness. What you expect, the result may vary. You can even expect the worst scenarios what happening soon, you breathless. Apart from that, you may sucked in thinking of what is the best solution after admitted your mistakes.

Therefore, you may lost focused. You can't even stayed on track. The worst situation I can foresee may it caused them heart breaking. I can dared not do that actually but indeed you have done it. It can considers you're too self-fish. You don't care how they feel when you intially started to do it, after it happened, you will totally feel regret. What am I in this situation now. I can't manage my feeling now. You know why? I couldn't really stressed what type of regret feeling now. But now, it strongly hurt. Not only you, it is caused surrounding people. I regret, is it too late? I wish it is not.

In a RUSH

Rush things happened when time is moving. And of course it is totally hard, we can adjust rush things all the time, things may be easily to handle but the deadline is not allowed you to do so. How do you monitor all the rush things happening in once time? I wish myself can handle it, though, I honest to tell you I can but with certain condition allowed.

For instance, I recently do assisting my colleagues when they are out of country to visit our valued customers. It's really sucked in the rushing tasks where I couldn't be adopted as fast as possible. It looks simple but the mountain of works right in front of, you may rush without thinking how things can be done well. You just remained focus on your tasks, neither important nor not, I must complete before the deadline. It's killing you without strong reasons. Rush things can make you do certain mistakes which you do not realised. After a second, you found something has been missing. If you just put yourself into my shoe, I truly hope you can feel what did I feel.

When I think positively, things must be done on time, rush things must done well, no mistakes allowed. Would you be think that you are superhero or whatever? I praised myself no gift. I only can understand my sacrifice is worthwhile when I have completed all tasks with no silly mistakes at all. I know I can do it no matter how rush the tasks given, you just work with relaxing minded and keep track on your responsibility. Some people often said, "Pressure is created by yourself." I do agree with this statement, no pressure how to develop yourself and sharpen your minded. It's pretty awesome. I love this feel after rushed things have been covered up.

An good experience which I have never had that one time I was also assigned to assist my respective superior who away for country 3 weeks. It was tougher period, I made lots mistakes until involved other colleagues in this particular stupid mistakes. I had properly lost my tracks where I can't handle number of things in same time. Hence, I had wasted lots of resources which it was not necessarily and shouldn't happened. I learned from my mistakes. It's all about time management and stress management. I was telling myself after review by my respective superior, "I MUST STAYED FOCUSED" on whatever rushed things to play deep attention to finish it. Try to overcome each tasks, one-by-one to monitor closely. Although it was painful experiences, I used to adapt in short period of time, I understand "SETBACK IS NOT FAILURE."

This applies to all of us, let's not be quick in everything we do. We have to pause for a while to be able to observe and analyze or maybe even read between the lines. Take into consideration all the things that matter and set aside all that don't. Prior to things end up, we have to set our priorities which it is important and not.

Simple Ways to Relax At Work When Stress Strive

We all indeed will be facing much pressure in workplae everyday. We sometimes have done our jobs but our management does not appreciated especially bosses too demanding, unhappy customer, frustration buyers, colleagues desperated, the deadline is due and etc. It could be lots of unhappy cases happened to you in the past or recent, we however should know to overcome it and maintain the best performances. Neither we face stress nor enjoy our works, we do know that how to relax our mind and physically to obtain well healthy work environment for ourself. Here are some tips can relax your minds when hitting by stress:

-Think positive! A negative mentality will only induce a state of tension and frustration. Try to think of work in positive terms. And not to load the negative energy, avoid sources of negativism that could influence you. No matter how positive feel at the beginning of the day some people will manage to have a strong impact on your mind and spirit. Try to ignore them. You have the right, and power, to be happy at work.

-Get involved! You have to detach from what happens at work. Try to be all the time aware of what is happening in the company, obtain information about your department, projects that are in progress, office colleagues, superiors and others employees.

-Stay focused! Whenever you have assigned to complete some tasks which youthink your capability can be finished according to deadline given, you must stay focus on what you have committed. You don't get wrong that Im not stress your should avoid other tasks although both tasks have been given at the same time. You may know how to allocate your precise time and energy whether it does allow to work both tasks together.

The Biggest Roadblocks to Success in Life is SELF_DOUBT

Have you ever doubt on your capability and strengths on the tasks have been given? I note that some of you might came across this kind of circumstances where you have put much efforts to obtain your best to have done the task successfully, though, you have at the end no one else appreciated your hard work. It is not matter of work hard as you can, it could be all about how smart you have work.

Whenever you think you have doubt on your capability, it is not regards on what you have done, you only must understand how to improve your best to make things happened. And of course, it is hard when you have fallen, you can't bounce back, you will ever recognised that person who has expected you have not work as hard as you can. Self doubt, however, is virtually not a solution to solve your problems when have failure somethings which you have personally stressed you have done ever your best. Or else, you will keep moving down deeply. You should understand that I couldn't do the best, you can forced yourself to do it one step further, work extra one more day and so forth.

Doubtful pattern only makes to be failure. You couldn't on your track faster when you have realized. Otherwise, those are with courage and good behaviors always treats their problems as challenges, they won't allow other people take away their dreams. As some experts said, "the biggest roadblock to success is self doubt, when you can breakthrough, the journey to success just right behind of you." We internally created the roadblocks, it is because of the failures in your mind. It is because of you dare not to failure. If you dare to failure, you deserve to success. You have doubt because you have feared. You feared to pain, when you think of pain, you quit. You will try to get as far as possible, you choose to safe route and walking other ways.

Persistence & Self-determination

Throughout this 2 weeks, I have been stopped for writing almost more than 10 days. I really wanted to update my post, however my recent tasks do not allow me to spend time for blogging. I actually tighten up with heavy tasks where my respective colleagues have been away 2 weeks for business trip in China. That's reason I can't update my post. Right here, I feel glad can takes about 15 minutes to post my 1st article in this week.

Many people often say if you need to achieve your dreams or goals, you must have persistence behavior to make your dreams come true. Persistence is an essential for journey to success. How do you look at persistence? Some people stressed that we can work hard and putting all effort, the lucky will come right behind but persistent does not required. There is no right or wrong, it is just whether good or bad. Sound familiar to you? I urged you that maintaining and creating a positive mindset is one of the important attributes that has contributed to every successful person. I alert that when you need to success, persistent is one of the ultimate way reaching your goals. Self determination could be play significant role as well. Everyone has different living styles, but self-determination comes in place. There is no doubt among our group of friends might be have negative attitudes, it cannot be avoided. It's just matter of your thoughts how you view your perspective in your life's.

"No gain, no pain" as quoted. have you heard this quote before? I wish you do. The reason why someone can achieved their dreams is all caused by their hard work and effort. Without these 2 essential attitudes, it could not fulfill of their dreams. I wish you should encourage yourself to putting as much as effort you can, to obtain your successful lives. I personally am guiding myself
dedication, focus, persistent, positive attitude, self-determination throughout any and all circumstances and curve balls life throws at us.

My 1st 100 Posts

Happy birthday to me! Happy birthday to me! Happy birthday to me! Happy birthday to me....

Extremely incredible. Look at the journey where I have posted all my articles in my blog's, it's pretty amazing my courage to start blogging non-stop from the beginning until now. If you ask me what else can makes you to blogging and never start writing? I have an answer in my mind indeed, it's just about your persistence and committed to your goals.

I manage to post my 1st 100 posts by today. I should reward myself a small token appreciation successfully to write my blog's until 100 posts. I initially do not expect such incredible result when i begin to post up my 1st ever blog. At that time, I was only setting a goals to encourage myself unless 1 post a day. Sometimes, I indeed write more than one. It could be my passionate to push me move forward. Hence, the beginning when I begun started to post my 1st blog, I expected it was difficult to me. I, however it was not as hard as to post your blog by a day. I got a fear at first. Fear is a challenge to me. I know my writing's not as good as others. Moreover, I have came from poor and small village boy's who never undergone the intensive grammar writing skills. I'm very poor in writing an English. I feel no ashamed. I know if i keep on writing, I foresee maybe one day can become a writer. (used to my ambitious last time)

When I was 20s, I learned no about the grammar. I has improved my writing during my studies in university. I learned with someone really passionate taught me how to improve my writing as well as communication in professional ways. There have numerous of options to improve, I chosen one which comfortable it. I started to write in short, simple and concise paragraphs. I made more practises since I knew my writing was weak. What I discover that I have learned countless words, it's really priceless. And then I have realized that the more practise you are, the more improvement you have.

I tell myself everyday, I must learn something which I have ever learned before. It's the way to encourage myself never stop learning. Remember that my mentor's often told me that, if you stop learning, you stop growing. It's really inspired me to learn at least one new thing everyday. "If you just improve 1% for a day, can you imagine what if for a year, you almost improve more 365%. Rather than those are always saying that I wanted to improve but no action. Action is a journey to success. Without begins with single move, you learn nothing at all. At the end, those are enthusiasm to learn more, they are move faster than those are putting off their action aside.

Keep Your Momentum Going

How does someone can keeps their momentum going? Sales Personnel's, for example are always strive to be their best all the time. They achieve what they desire to do. They know what they want and do it right most of time. I met few of top achievers in the same industry, I able to differentiate which one can keep their able going which one not, the main reasons are focused on what how they are react and behavior. I observed one out of four top achiever sales personnel's, she act as victory. She always desires to be the top of the best every month. How does she core with heavy pressure. Gorgeous! What can you expect she able to become top achievers likely top shinning star's consecutive obtain no.1 sales personnel down the road 6 months. How did she do it? You can't give the answer as well as myself.

Look at the journey which she has gone through, she's staying focus what she is doing is right, always do it. She keeps her momentum going. As I aware that her achievements until the day of she leave for better advancement, it is still top of the top list. No one else can overtake her achievements. She makes the miracles for herself. She was just 22 that time. It's was happened last 2 years back. It's truly unusual. I did observe she knew everything what she is doing. She even dare to accept her bosses challenges to breakthrough what other people can obtain it. She almost abnormal sales personnel that I have ever seen. She might be treats the risk as part of a game in her life, no matter how big and small challenges, she's open for new ideas to be victory.

Back to our story, in your current situation no matter which industry you are in, how do you keep you momentum going? Likewise, if you're white-collar professional worker's, any happening after you have underwent various of challenges in your career paths? It's truly makes sense. Everyone does. Just recalled I was being awarded as the best of On-brand manager during I was in finance industry. All of my success stories which have been written by me, it certainly shared over many branches. I also managed to build excellent example for entire department itself. On the other word, most people have recognized your efforts how to create the momentum to make something happened. It's truly satisfied on what I have done.

As Author Rich Dad & Poor Dad, Robert kiyosaki often said, "Work Hard and your Luck comes to you." You are indeed working hard but do you be recognized by any people? It could be or couldn't be, you can make it happen. When you have putting everytime your hard work rather than others, in one day you will definitely be appreciated and be rewarded. It's caused by your luck. All your luck comes over to you non-stop until you are realized you are worth to working extra harder than anyone else's. Despite that, he also often said, "BE SMART" how to use what you got. You can implement lots of successful tools to beat against your competitors. You should understand your own strengths, what are advantages you have which others do not. Just also remember always do not go beyond your capability. Let's the people know you have capable to work every tasks well and excellent.

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Winners Never Ever Quit , A Quitter Never Win !

What if someone pinpointed your mistakes in front of big group, didn't you quit? To me, I do not. That actually helps me to improve it. Not many people realized that when you cameacross this mistakes in your life's you should know how to excel it in the future. I love criticism. The more the people criticism you, the more lesson you'll get it. This is a part of our lives. We should accept it. If you think the people shouldn't highlighted your mistakes, it is because of you afraid failure. It seems you don't believe your did mistakes. It's all about self-egotism. It could be your have doubt on your ability, negative thought is trying to kill your ambitious, goals, dreams and get started to make it big in your life's.

Some expert leaders often said, "Winners never ever quit, a quitter never win." It is truths. If you believe in yourself or not, you are right. Nobody can say you are wrong. In order to become a winner, you should not ever quit before you obtain achievement. Be passion on what you are doing. No matter what you are doing, you should do it until the end. A winner’s always hanging out with successful people. Do not ever flat out with losers. You desire to success and destroy the self-doubts and getting rid unwanted negative thoughts. If you can just surround yourself with successful and positive people, your life will change so much. Your thinking will be much more positive which will lead you to taking more action and making things happen in your business.

Winners know where they are going. They set the goals. They know their direction exactly where they are heading too. They often keep track and write down their goals and dreams to accomplish in their life. Winners excel in their life without goals. If you quit, you can't accomplish anything in your life. At the end of day, you're loser. Winner treats failure is the part of success journey. They are doers. Loser is a dreamer. They start action without any excuses. Even though, it is small action, do it faster. You keep thinking you should do it tomorrow, you putting it off and you may even never do anything.