Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Are You Admitting Your Mistakes?

People who never ever admit their mistakes, I strongly to tell you right now, "You're actually being done the biggest mistakes in your life." The most importantly, we can't learn everything in daily living. It's indeed also never happen it. You can proceed with your initiatives to learn those things in which you are not learned before, you may then to learn it from various channels to search for additional new things where you lack of it.

I could be advise you that the mistakes which you have done, incidentally you've have learned somethings never know before. It's consider you have added your knowledge without paying much efforts but the reality is you have done it without anyone taught you. But you have to admit your mistakes. Nobody can escape away their mistakes. When it has caused, the problems should not be disappear as fast as you think, it still deeply to search where it gone wrongly and how to overcome it.

I have a best friend often feels fear to make mistakes, I ask her what the main reasons. She told me that she feared to face someone needed to report her mistakes although the mistakes might be done by someone she knew. She won't be admit her mistakes without certain strong reasons. She probably self-egotism to high. She's nothing wrong with it, she just realised that if she done her jobs completely perfect, she will stay away any mistakes causing her. I have questions in my mind whether the thoughts what she thinking of either correct or not, it does not evaluate as right or wrong. She posses her own characteristics to protect herself. Does she sound not admit her mistakes? I still questioned in my mind.

Let's myself give another good examples. I have been lots of mistakes, sometimes people realized it but certain of time they are not telling where have you done wrongly. A colleague's of mine, he eventually will tell me where did i do wrongly, which areas should i correct it and etc. I initially told myself, this job basically should not done by me, why should i admit it? My thoughts totally is wrong. As we know, we're working in corporation where teamwork must be absorb, you are not working alone. What's consequences would be affect in your jobs if admitting your mistakes? I look at bigger pictures, it's nothing to be gone wrong although you have admitted, additionally, you can overcome all the setbacks and mistakes in the right ways, at right time and extremely at the right cost. The tasks are sometimes can be involved huge capitals or funding to absorb, but it because of your mistakes, the whole operation from beginning until the end can't proceed smoothly and efficiency.

Another kind of person will be blame everyone else when the mistakes have been occurred. They never ever look at other people feeling. They just look at themselves. And of course, you after that done the mistakes, all are basically recognised you that the mistakes you done. Think positively when your thoughts that it's none of their business. The more news you have blasting over, I must admit it instead of telling the difference stories to escape it. You must face it, face the people you know. Dare to admit your mistakes.

Don't Giving on Yourself

What's the bravo comments from my personal mentor. It's true that some people know me that i have my personal mentor neither he or she rich yet or not, they are eventually possess successful thoughts in their life. I noted that he actually not so rich, though, he's consider an intelligent person in terms of financial literally, marketing knowledge and so forth. Some people also realised that they have their own personal mentor in their mind, who are they?

Basically, I can say " you are your personal mentor." How to describe that we can be own mentor, no matter how the tougher situation you having now, you can lead the problems and overcome it. Don't ever giving up on yourself that you blame yourself do not have good mentor. One of the financial literally expert, Robert Kiyosaki, who has 2 mentor in his life's which are RICH DAD & POOR DAD. Rich dad says, "If you stop working today, an asset puts money in your pocket and a liability takes money from your pocket. Too often people call liabilities assets. It's important to know the difference between the two. Probably his poor dad's look at different point of views and vice verse against the rich dad. Therefore, we should become ourself as Rich Dad. And of course, when you thoughts that everyone of us requires good mentor tend to lead in better result, why not go for it. Action is everything. Action is real life of success. Action always starts with AMBITIOUS.

The more challenges and setback you faced, I should tell you right now, "Congratulation to you. Glad to hear you have encounter numerous of problems to bring you to next level in your successful life. When you face a problems in a day, you have learned one new things in your life. As leader expert often said, you tend to know nothing for everyday. You then may thinking that you will going to learn somethings without the push by people next to you. We posses good characters indeed able to develop our certain of skills and experiences. Don't give up without trying till the end. Yes, you're right that certain people always give up when they have facing lots of difficulties in their living, don't ever think of problems where already rose, we should think about the solution. Work as problem solver. Don't ever focus in the same problems.



Think Yourself to Success

People who set big goals and follow their dreams are called successful when they reach their goals. To the individual pursuing a dream or working to accomplish a big goal, they see success staring them back in the mirror, whether they reach their dreams or spend a lifetime trying. Everyone has his or her definition of success and happiness. It could be a high-paying job, a promotion, a fancy car, or achieving work-life balance. Unfortunately, not everyone has big plans for the future. I see it everywhere I go--people in their twenties, thirties, forties; people of all ages just drifting through life disillusioned, and wondering why success has passed them by. Success doesn’t just happen. The common denominator of successful people is that they dream big and then translate those dreams into attainable goals.

Vision alone does not yield greatness. To be successful requires honing the habit of thinking like a winner throughout the journey from nothingness to prominence. In his classic book Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill explains how attaining wealth in any amount you desire happens as a result of your will power. Norman Vincent Peale’s all-time bestseller The Power of Positive Thinking is founded on the principle that positive results start with positive thoughts. Shad Helmstetter and Wayne Dyer are few of the many other well known authors who have also written best-selling books on the power of the mind. Some call it self-talk, others call it positive thinking or intention, and still others use terminology like visualization or manifestation. Call it anything you like, it all means the same thing--success starts in the mind.

What works harder and longer than you do? Your mind does. While you are awake it is consciously buzzing away with thoughts and ideas and while you sleep your subconscious continues to produce thought after thought. What’s your mind working on while you are in the shower, commuting to work, or sitting in a meeting with a client? The words and pictures you feed your mind carve the path to achieving big goals. Almost every Olympic athlete can testify to a time when they visualized themselves winning the Gold or when they told themselves they would set a world record and they did.

Champions are regular people who confidently tell themselves day and night--through their thoughts and mental images--that they can and will reach their goals. As Napoleon Hill says, “What you can conceive, and believe, you can achieve.” Conceiving big things and believing they are possible is the dividing line between the mediocrity of the masses and greatness of champions.

The bigger the goal and the wilder the dream, the more resistance there will be on the journey. Have you ever had someone tell you that you lack the education, money, experience, connections, or [fill in the blank] that is required to reach your goal? This is one of the primary reasons people do not step outside their comfort zone and pursue their dreams--they aren’t thinking like a champion does, their mind cannot withstand the resistance. Champions are determined to reach their goals and their mind is conditioned to see obstacles as well as opportunities on the journey.

Champions are not born, they are not made, and they can be hard to find in any business. Keep an eye out for them, they come in all ages, genders, shapes and sizes, but between their ears they all have something in common--they think like champions.

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Thursday, November 5, 2009

Think Like a Champion - Focus on the Top and You'll Get There

For what is the best choice, for each individual, is the highest it is possible for him to achieve.-- Aristotle

Some champions are born and some champions are made. A champion may be someone who shows marked superiority, someone who always places first in competition. A champion can also be someone who comes out on top, overcoming obstacles and beating the odds. We’ve all seen Olympic champions on television. What comes to mind when I watch these amazing athletes perform at their personal best is the amount of training they have endured, the sacrifices they’ve made, and the focus they had to have to get where they are. Endurance, self-sacrifice, and determination are the qualities of a true champion.

They also wanted to achieve something special. Ordinary wouldn’t be enough for someone who has the mindset of a champion. Champions think big. Champions work toward big goals. Champions are focused. Champions are disciplined. Champions think like champions. As Jack Dempsey said, “A champion is someone who gets up when he can’t.”

Think like a champion.

When I’m having an especially tough day, I often think it’s like a race and I’d better have the endurance to reach the finish line. Somehow the endurance carries me through because I want to win. Billie Jean King said “Champions take responsibility. When the ball is coming over the net, you can be sure I want the ball.” I understand what she was talking about because I’m the same way. I want to play ball.

I have a box at the U.S. Open. Every year I love to watch those champions go at it. You can learn a lot from watching the pros, whether you’re interested in sports, the arts, or whatever. One thing they all have in common is the same mindset--they want to win, they want to be the best, not the runner-up: the best. That’s a very important quality. I’ve seen very talented people fail because deep down they were afraid of winning...they did not think like a champion. Winning comes with responsibility. Champions rise to that responsibility. Search yourself carefully to make sure you’re ready and capable. If you’re not, do something about it. It’s an important element of success.

Most of you know that I’m a golfer, and I own four amazing golf courses in the United States. I’ve always said that golf is a brain game, which it is, but it is a demanding sport technically and it's a game of finesse. You cannot play golf halfheartedly and expect to get anywhere with your game. You have to concentrate and you have to have patience. As the legendary golfer Bobby Jones said, “It is nothing new or original to say that golf is played one stroke at a time. But it took me many years to realize it.” We win in our daily lives by being careful with every day, by having a champion’s view of each moment.

When you think like a champion you prepare yourself for success.

Let’s go back to that quote by Aristotle. That is self scrutiny at its highest. It really is the best choice to go for the highest achievement possible. Why set your goals too low? Did you ever hear a child saying they want to be nothing when they grow up? They are full of dreams and plans and rarely are they mediocre aspirations. They want to be presidents, doctors, astronauts, scientists, and so on. They’re on the right track and have the right mindset. If you need to, bring yourself back to when you had high achievement as a goal. Not everyone can be the world champion at something, but you can strive to be the best you can be. That’s the first step, and a daily responsibility.

Champions go the extra mile. We all know when we’ve done just enough and when we’ve really exerted ourselves. Make an effort to exert yourself--every day. Don’t fail because you never allowed yourself to get started! Don’t avoid success because you think the responsibility might be too much. Just focus and get going! You’d be surprised at what intelligent effort can produce. Alexander Graham Bell said something that I have always remembered: “Concentrate all your thoughts upon the work at hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought to a focus.” Pay attention to these things and you will be on your way to thinking like a champion--and becoming one.

Do intention to stop writing

Some people may be asked why did you suddenly stop writing, what makes you gonna to give up your own personal goals? I have no idea why should I have to give up. In the meantime, I was doing another stupid, idiot and unnecessarily mistakes which created numerous unhappiness among my family members. I know in myself should not do that instead. I, though understand that it is a mistake what I can't repeat again to make my wife worried about me. I can't really go deeply to share my failure story to you.

As well as the day where I have seen inspired to start my personal put up to writing, some people suspected these writing naturally it's not from my pen. I have curious why they are not trusted a man who dare to write and make things happened in his life's. Hence, you can really go for it. To obtain better result, it doesn't require your must succeed in certain areas then you intend to discover that. What i strongly suggest you is try to make more failure, you then realised that you have variety knowledge which you never ever had. A giant tycoons always begin with single steps. This is what I am trying to tell that things can be happen, if you believe in yourself.

Do remember your dreams always monitor by yourself, no one can take away or instruct you must follow their steps. It's useless or else you just dream where no action. You're totally failure. I do imagine one day I can be become a tycoon who can be contributing to various societies, help those entrepreneurs are keen to become successful or doing more celebrity works. All are require certain amount of money. I believe now certain famous and well known tycoons are doing what they thoughts real meaningful to them. They do expect no return. It because they have understand that some people are unlucky to enjoying such gorgeous successful journey. They have tried, but end up they are failure. Some people even always think big, they dream big and they tend to achieve huge result and make huge money. What's cares about you how much money you want to earn?

To gain million dollars, it can't be happen in one day or overnight. If you think there is chances like that, why everyone work next to you, they are still working on day time and stay st home in day night. It's extremely simple. We are all earn for living. You and I must work to survive. We are all need money to survive. Money does not work for us. You think positively ways where all the efforts you plant, it must be turn up to be your dream. It just questioned about the timing where you aiming. So therefore, I believe we need plan forward, we can't fail to plan, plan to become failure. You should begins whatsoever your thoughts have in your minds to make it happening. "DO IT NOW, YOU WON'T REGRET OF WHAT YOU HAVE DONE."