Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Are You Admitting Your Mistakes?

People who never ever admit their mistakes, I strongly to tell you right now, "You're actually being done the biggest mistakes in your life." The most importantly, we can't learn everything in daily living. It's indeed also never happen it. You can proceed with your initiatives to learn those things in which you are not learned before, you may then to learn it from various channels to search for additional new things where you lack of it.

I could be advise you that the mistakes which you have done, incidentally you've have learned somethings never know before. It's consider you have added your knowledge without paying much efforts but the reality is you have done it without anyone taught you. But you have to admit your mistakes. Nobody can escape away their mistakes. When it has caused, the problems should not be disappear as fast as you think, it still deeply to search where it gone wrongly and how to overcome it.

I have a best friend often feels fear to make mistakes, I ask her what the main reasons. She told me that she feared to face someone needed to report her mistakes although the mistakes might be done by someone she knew. She won't be admit her mistakes without certain strong reasons. She probably self-egotism to high. She's nothing wrong with it, she just realised that if she done her jobs completely perfect, she will stay away any mistakes causing her. I have questions in my mind whether the thoughts what she thinking of either correct or not, it does not evaluate as right or wrong. She posses her own characteristics to protect herself. Does she sound not admit her mistakes? I still questioned in my mind.

Let's myself give another good examples. I have been lots of mistakes, sometimes people realized it but certain of time they are not telling where have you done wrongly. A colleague's of mine, he eventually will tell me where did i do wrongly, which areas should i correct it and etc. I initially told myself, this job basically should not done by me, why should i admit it? My thoughts totally is wrong. As we know, we're working in corporation where teamwork must be absorb, you are not working alone. What's consequences would be affect in your jobs if admitting your mistakes? I look at bigger pictures, it's nothing to be gone wrong although you have admitted, additionally, you can overcome all the setbacks and mistakes in the right ways, at right time and extremely at the right cost. The tasks are sometimes can be involved huge capitals or funding to absorb, but it because of your mistakes, the whole operation from beginning until the end can't proceed smoothly and efficiency.

Another kind of person will be blame everyone else when the mistakes have been occurred. They never ever look at other people feeling. They just look at themselves. And of course, you after that done the mistakes, all are basically recognised you that the mistakes you done. Think positively when your thoughts that it's none of their business. The more news you have blasting over, I must admit it instead of telling the difference stories to escape it. You must face it, face the people you know. Dare to admit your mistakes.

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