Stop Blaming

A article that I have reading a moment ago, it is sounds good but it also bad as well. Have you experienced among your friend that keep blaming that people how bad it is, the person how idiot it is, indeed this financial master said," Always remember that the word of blame comes from the words Be Lame." When you blame some one of your problems, you give the power of the problems to the person your blame. By being lame, you volunteer yourself to be victim. You are the lame victim, they have power to control you.

To difficult explain in details, the overall is being blame some one else, you are finger point to yourself to be lame victim. You being allow yourself to be volunteer as lame victim. I look at these different point of views. How it is? Let me explain my own perception at blaming some else is indirectly you are telling yourself, some one else should take full responsibility on that they have done and chose in their. NOT THEMSELVES. Why people always react like that? it's commonly to know this behavior generally is human behavior in this world.

They will go through this journey even though they have confidence to tell other people, "They're not". It sounds impossible. On the other hand, making people wrong does not make you right, and do diminishes your personal power. The master said, why not immediately to tell yourself, "It is my fault. I must take responsibility." No one can point finger to others, it is their fault. You're completely wrong if you do that frequently. If you ask me now, do you blame others before? And of course, i will tell you, "YES, I DID." I'm always do that when it begins blaming. I guessed that was during my younger stage.

Indeed, when I feel start blaming, i have a powerful illustration in my mind and heart, why should i blame them? Perhaps it was my angers. I really frustrated as what being done by others to me. I then calm down myself and tell the statement, "the more you blaming, the more problems shall be raised. The less pressure of mine, the less blaming I could." Is it sound logical? It is my reaction when I begins my blaming. Some leader experts said, "Take a deep, deep breath. We can breath positively and negatively to give impact to your emotion. It just a simple action, but not many people do it. I tell you honestly it is works. It does helps lot of people to reduce their anger when you have blaming. Often most people hate making mistakes, yet making mistakes is often how we learn. And often when we are angry, that means we have done a mistake that a wise and valuable lesson is available without paying single of cents for personal growth.

The most important, if we simply blame others or ourselves for our mistakes, rather than take responsibility and strive to learn from others, we fail to find the gem of imbedded in the mistakes. The way to overcome this problem in our daily living, if we able to open up our mind, the GEM surely will be appear, the better is even may change your life.