Nowadays, many people have worked as what they paid for it. Apparently they do not work extra miles. Why nowadays all people change a lot? They will only say one thing, what the employer pays me, I contribute what I have paid for. Give & Take. Do less work. Do less mistakes. This happen often when many of us always think of what the employer can gives us and we don't ever concern what should we contribute to employer. Is it so commonly where happen in your company? Yes, it is. I observed some of my former co-workers in last employment, they never stayed late and leaving sharp after the work time. It doesn't mean they have not finished their work, they are efficient people where all stuffs can be done within a work day.
I stressed in earlier, it's sound likely negative. However, on the other hands, you do less will get some value inputs and ideas. Here is...
- Do Less Thinking - and pay more attention to your heart.
- Do Less Acquiring - and pay more attention to what you already have.
- Do Less Complaining- and pay more attention to giving.
- Do Less Controlling - and pay more attention to letting go.
- Do Less Criticizing - and pay more attention to complementing.
- Do Less Arguing - and pay more attention to forgiveness.
- Do Less Running Around - and pay more attention to stillness.
- Do Less Talking - and pay more attention to silence.
I am trying to share with you that do less in what you suppose to do. Those are unnecessarily not encouraged at all. Please bear in mind, your small action will totally affect your evaluation. Do not ever rush. Be calm and stay cool. You can even do less but in terms of you thoughts would
be much difference than the work. I would not focus on the work tasks, I will focus more on your behavior and belief against your negative thoughts. You just pay more attention on what you have, who you are, which is right and where to obtain it. You go ahead beyond your capability, it is not encouraged too. You find nowhere to adopt it. You should learn how to self-control on emotionally and psychical to understand things never ever occur in overnight.
The good things to be blogger are able to diversify your personal ideas neither brilliant or nor, it extremely amazing when you are continuously writing and posting often. I am, indeed posting my blog daily. I can't stop to write. I recalled that day I was created, I was starting to write non-stop is main reasons are to improving my writing skills and develop my interpersonal skills.
Knowledge is a power. I wanted more than that. I know I can succeed in one day, it's my passion to do it. I believe do it right. I sometime feel so happy when someone is saying how can you write so good. I love that entire word, "good". In my mind, I'm keep on saying that I have improvement actually. As mentor often said, "Practise, practise and practise." I should tell you know, writing a blog is not as difficult as you think. I don't mean all things can be perfect because of your passion. Passion, though is a journey to step one forward to reach succeed.
Along the way, I find lots of happiness especially a number of people have been given good comments on my blog. It's really give me huge satisfaction. It's truly awesome on what I am doing now. It's pretty amazing for me. I sometimes also do not believe what I really do it, I just tell myself this,"If you're willing to try, it doesn't matter how tough it is as long as you have try your best ever."
Blog about what your passionate about - I can only say some bloggers are knowledgeable and professional, they are really bravo when they are understand their ideas must share with all over the world. Whether it's right or wrong, let's people to comments their point of views.
Make sure you post frequently - can you believe some professional experts said," Blogging is about happiness." You start with blog whatever you think can make you more happier and satisfaction, I strongly you just go ahead. Also ensure you have a clear ideas on what you're blogging about. Blogs do better when you focus it.
Develop you own uniqueness - Every blogger has their uniqueness especially their thoughts, their behavior. They alert what make people interested to view their blog. Do you know what is your unique? Create special and brilliant topic once in awhile. Change makes difference.
Do research - Find out certain blogs as you can think they are different than others. Instead of creating your own one, your should conduct research often. It brings your lots of great ideas. Never under estimate their blogs. As mentioned in earlier topics, don't do it for money. We must find our interest on what topics can label their attention.
Do more marketing search - The more ideas you have, the more creativity in your mind. Some successful bloggers are selling through their blog, although the profit turnover is slightly lower, the return is where you can't find when you are letting the money works for you.
Sound pretty strange to you, when you have read this title, aren't you? I notice some of you understand but not everyone of you. I did hear about "Burn out your energy!", "Burn out your strength!" This was what I had have ever hear before. How do we burn out our fear? In my point of view, I do understand that every single of challenges or setbacks, we should not escape away, we should breakthrough, regardless how difficult of the challenges and failure, we need re-bound again.
Take few good examples how do we burn out our fear:
Public speaking - many of us may be not try to speak in front of huge group, we now should find an opportunity to walk up the stage to giving a speech. This is to ensure us to burn out our fear.
Arise your opinion - During any general meeting regardless in corporation, in social meeting and so forth, try to voice out your personal view to impress others where you'll bring a number of valuable inputs to the people who you never ever meet or talk to them. Burn out your fear!
Indicate creative strategy - When you indicate new strategies if possible can be applied to enhance current strategy which it rarely work out. It may caused only 2 option which advantages & disadvantages. It doesn't mean useless. Always think positive when you have brilliant ideas to bring out. Burn out your Fear!
As above highlighted only certain value inputs from my personally gained experiences, I strongly welcome any gorgeous comments from your opinion.
- Continue Reward Good News & Performance.
- Show Appreciation by using a token of gift, closing the office earlier at the weekdays/weekends.
- Relaxing the rules a little to allow everyone to enjoy high profile of event such as Thomas Cup.
- intention:- simply acknowledging YOUR TEAM'S sacrifice will often be enough.
- A simple THANK YOU goes a long way to increasing engagement.
- FEEDBACK is fundamental in everyday for employer-employee relations.
- Employee needs to be aware of how they are doing and also what they can do to improve.
- intention:- this can be achieved through setting goals together. Have exciting or relevant rewards on offer which are attainable.
- For new recruiters, send a welcome packs with the soft benefits to their daily duties and responsibilities.
- Smart employers must start motivating them before they are actually starting to be performed.
- Treat YOUR TEAM life the grown-ups they are. Teach them how to be work independent and effectively.
- Communication is important tool although is an old matter.
- Be Honest & Open at all times to raise their responds or stress when facing plenty of rejection daily.
- Engagement & Involvement.
- intention:- involve everyone by asking for suggestions and help to overcome any obstacles.
If you pay peanuts, you will get monkey. On the other way, you pay carrots, you'll get rabbit. Don't you think this is what happen often in our life? There are numbers of articles to explain what is the peanuts mean about, to me, I would be saying can be meant the peanuts such as an efforts instead of monetary. Yes of course, it did many people they often said, "Peanuts is all about the sum of money." It is realistic in the corporate world. The more you pay peanuts, they will be happy to get the monkey. Some might be not agreed.
The fact is to different type of people, they of course have different point of views. I can stressed that if you create a fresh and dynamic ideas and suggestion, you may require to pay peanuts before in the end you will get the monkey. The more efforts you put, the excellent result you will receive. This is so called "this earth never has free-lunch provided unless you build your own efforts."
In work, you are assigned to monitor the whole entire work flow in your current employment as head of department, how would you to embark fresh managerial system to bring up to next level?Don't you believe must pay carrots to get the rabbit to strengthen the whole company work flow system? I can foresee you will pay for it. If you think that you deserve to get the monkey before the end of day, you must work as harder as you can. It is because you expected to get the "WIN-win" situation, you must ensure the feedback is must to change your people minded, thoughts and reaction as well as their supportive attitudes.
It could be tougher but you just think not as hard as you think. It can be happened as long as your people thoughts somethings new able to enhance their value perception, their interpersonal skills and managerial skills, they tend to change their mind instead of criticism, disapproval your manner of great behavior. As the old often saying goes "if you pay peanuts you get monkey, or people who aren’t trained, aren’t professional and just muck around having tea parties all day."
As individually, we desire to change our living standard and decide to make changes, you should always understand well about the quote as old saying. Without the efforts(the peanuts) you put, I can't imagine what the result you will obtain. It's likely you don't know somethings which ever benefit to you, you surely will find more various kind of resources to help you understand the value of this lesson.
As some expert leader often said, "the first impression only can last within 30 seconds." Don't you agree？ I strongly agreed that this statement and hope you either. Successful people in their life always carried a pattern of mutually beneficial interpersonal relationship. And of course, your communication and the image you present creates the first impression - often the lasting impression- the people you meet.
As I has stated in last few articles, "You have 3 minutes to sell me your idea." I believe you definitely have doubt how to make it? What are the effective strategies? Should i plan before my proposal My opinion is no strategy provided. Your image is sells your products and services. Apart from that, the communication is crucial how you deliver to your potential buyer through the professional image and communication. Your first impression can ever lasting to your audience, it's just approximately within 30 seconds. Less than a minute. Hence, the greatest way to sell yourself is the first 3 sentences how you give impact to your listener. Ironically, networking is one of the way to promote yourself through variety of social meeting, group gathering and etc.
With rapid technological growth today, every people always say they are busy. I have no time to listen to you. Some are said, "Im not interested at all." It is common rejection when you are trying to sell your ideas. How does good image can provide huge impacts? Professional appearance is counts. The good image, in fact you are the person who believe in yourself and confidence all the time. As many professional mentor often urged, those are people who want to advance in their career always have to dress to what you want, not eventually current position. Despite that, your professional image will serve you well when promotions, lateral moves, choice assignments and departmental visibility are available. In order to winning in this current competitive edge, I strongly suggest that we should be projecting the best images we can to serve ourself well in the workplace.
You have been tried countless times to succeed in your career, what is the status of the outcome in your career paths? It's talk easily though we observe surrounding of our friends can always walk their talk, it's probably none of them. Just recalled back that some failure experiences you have gone through, how countless times have tried until you have stopped? Ten tries, one hundred tries, ten thousand tries or countless times?
It sounds so weird to you, as well as me also. I can called myself is an ambitious person. I always act like entrepreneur from time to time. Being ambitious entrepreneur, I can foresee every setback is a challenge to me. Bad things happen to good people. It is a reason our life is happens upside down. It depends on our thoughts how to look at bad things in different ways.
Some people think if the tasks or any works beyond their responsibility and capacity, they usually end up with failure. They are not even to try how difficult it is. It is totally wrong perception. When we treat the setbacks as our failure, and then you have decided to give up, it confirms you decided to fail.
Please don't get me wrong. I address it is just all about my personal experiences. Success is not measured by how high we go up in life but by how many times we bounce back when we fall down. It is this bounce back ability that determines success.
Do you trust your destiny can be obtained in one day? Do you ever expect to stay in luxury, brilliant property with trillion of dollars? I before start with my perception, at the same time, i will be giving my own perspective in my own destiny. I fell great when I can observed surrounding my great friends able achieved it especially they believe it, their destiny comes true! Everyone of us is expect something in return in near future, do you trust your fate? I believe it, although I can't see any huge achievements in my current lives. I expect something in return all of the efforts which always build my journey no matter how difficult in your life, I look at my fate is lesson of learning to grow. That lesson on what you always command your lives. This is much more likely the beginning of journey how you plan to achieve, you ever dream big.
A friend of mine, she said it is "home". The destiny can be describes in our life where we are now staying with one of the happiness of family. On the other way, some people convey their message in differently especially they are underwent a number of obstacles, setbacks and failure. My mentor often said, "You determine your fate. No one can able to take away your destiny." Apart from that, we should think big in terms of the dreams we always dream for, expect more than on what you beginning you have set in your dreams list. Destiny always use links with a relationship between you and thoughts. My thoughts usually appear in my mind say, "what is my destiny when I reached my 40's?" This is what I am recently doing and planning to achieve huge achievement when reached that age. Can you help me to obtain my dreams? I want lots of ideas to ensure it is works, I though am not required you to be my mentor,but at the point of time, I appreciate your supports and ideas contributed.
When you awake in this fresh morning and prepare to leave your home for work, suddenly you have forgotten to tae something important behind,what is you reaction that time? Meanwhile, it had been repeated mistakes more than twice, I don't think it's right. Some leader expert often said, "The more mistakes you have made, the more wisdom you will obtain." I do agree with the statements, however there are depends on what are the mistakes you have made.
At the same time, what will significantly do learn from mistakes, you'll eventually heading path of success lives. Some leader urged that if you have understand your shortcomings, you should find better options to reduce mistakes repeating. The mistake is something we can work out and overcome it. It is not as hard as we think. Mistakes are good lesson for everyone of us. There can be referred as good mentor in our lives. I believe with this strong statement, "you have made mistakes rather than those are not even had before."
When you at first made one mistakes, you are learning a new things, if mistakes repeated again, you'll understand how to improve it and never ever repeat it. That helps to assure that the problem or mistake won't be repeated. By learning from mistakes we can move forward in the paths of success.
Here you are:-
Ask yourself these three simple questions now.
1. What things do you love to do?
2. What had you done in the past you felt really good about yourself in life?
3. What strengthen your energy?
Fifteen ways to resolve conflicts:
1. Seek to understand the problem
2. Listen to each other – take turns to speak
3. Listen to the other person’s point of view
4. Calm down first – manage your emotions
5. Clearly and calmly state your opinion
6. Be honest about your feelings
7. Always put yourself in the other persons' shoes
8. Walk Your Talk
9. Seek a win environment
10. Seek mentor's advices
11. If people offer their wisdom as you go through life, accept it gratefully
12. You can learn much from those who have went through before you
13. Never be afraid or hesitant to step off the accepted path
14. Go ahead in your own direction if your heart tells you that it’s the right way for you
15. Always believe that you will ultimately succeed at whatever you do, and never forget the value of persistence, discipline, and determination
It is your life and only you can take charge of your own path. You need to discover what you truly want from life, and sometimes this is hard to determine! Start by finding out what makes you happy and what you love doing.
