The more rejection, the more you learn

When you face the rejection, do you feel upset for all the effort what you have done? Not really. I extremely believe that everyone of us insist different point of view when some of them maybe think rejection is one of learning path, some of them maybe think rejection is a good lesson. Different people, of course consist of difference ideas and comments.

I should consider myself, a person who never ever escape away from the rejection. I love rejection. I love criticism. I understand that every lesson which I learn, there is no way to improve except you must admit your mistakes and using 3 letter words, "I am sorry." Most of time I always do that and never ever deny my mistakes. In uncertain time, you maybe are thinking you are right, indeed you are wrong. When you fight back, there is still remains no change.

I have been criticism and being rejected by my lecturer during my university life. I was shocked. Nobody understand what I felt that time. It was like your confidence scroll down, and again and deeply, no bounce back, no confidence at all. Did i give up? I can tell you now, I never and ever. I told myself, I must improve, I must admit my mistakes, I want to proof him that I am difference person. After 1 year, I was doing my group presentation, he was like so impressed. He looked unbelievable. What's the biggest achievement I have ever done. I know I am not the best, but I can tell you, "I am the right person who you're looking for."

Things not worth doing are not worth doing well

Before we have stepping forward, we need to identify things done it correctly and worth doing well. On the other hand, we ensure once we move back and able can view bigger pictures. It is make sure the important things are not pushed out of the way by urgent needs of the moment.

In addition, we can evaluate everything what it is important or not. For instance, when you think of the things are important to you, you must spend time to do it. And then the things are worth doing. There is a way to check everyday by asking, " Have I done what is really important today?"

Sound pretty interesting? Perhaps each of you have your own idea. It is so called we must understand our priority,our important tasks and responsibilities. If you are aware from day to day, you won't pushed out the way by urgent needs of the moment.

I still remember my guru's taught me one thing, " Prioritize your things, never ever do things are not worth doing." In this lesson, I only learned after realized I have repeated the mistakes. I almost spend everyday to understand that how to prioritize your things.

The happiest things happen in my life

I today find a very interesting things happen in my life. I don't have this kind of feeling since long time ago. This is what makes me very happy today.

I was told by my mum last night on the news for pursuing the post graduate programmes under private institutions can be applying loan from certain of financial institutions. They have allocate portion for the students to encourage them to pursue post-graduate programme. I am quite surprise because of my dreams almost had been come true, If I do really persist. I know I can make it without any distraction. I don't expect the setbacks can turn to failure. I want to breakthrough to my life.

I have long time do not feel so excited when I have planned for a couple years ago. I now have an opportunity right on my way to move forward. I believe if I decided, a lot of pressure and stress will come over to me. It is my expectation. I know if I am stop moving, learning and experiencing, I will feel my life totally not worthwhile at all. I don't want it. Marketing Consultant Bryan lo says " The best to learn, it is not to think, you think JUST DO IT."

Remove the "You" from Failure

Just thinking of yourself you are a regular person - like you & me. We can be achieved to become winner instead of average is that we should refuse to let failure get the better of him. No matter how many times you fail, it doesn't have to make you a failure.

If you've been thinking of yourself as s failure, you can break yourself out of that negative thinking pattern. Look at an area of your life where you have repeatedly failed, and do the following:

• Examine your expectation for that are. Write them down. Are they realistic? Do you expect to do everything perfectly? Do you expect to succeed on the first try? How many mistakes should you expect to make before you succeed? Adjust your expectations.
  

• Find new ways to do your work. Brainstorm at least twenty new approaches, and then try at least half of them.

• Focus on your strengths. How can you use your best skills and personal strengths to maximize your effort?

• Vow to bounce back. No matter how many times you fall down, pcik yourself up and keep going.
  

None of us as smart as all of us...

Basically I understand the statement, "If only a person to work something out from the mind, what if more than a person?" Is it confused you? I am trying to indicate that when you need to brainstorm, why not work in group instead of a person only. None of us as smart as all of us.

I would be prefer to work in group, I hate to work alone. I will out of my mind, get stucked. What I address here, I like an atmosphereto group for brainstorming, upteen of ideas will be work out. In other words, the more ideas we work out, the more value inputs you can't ever ignore it. Neither there is good or bad idea, it considers the best to grow your knowledge & your participation. As I say, none of us as smart as all of us.

I do not think I am smart. I guess that never ever people do stress they are smart. Lifelong Learning is never to the end, unless you have stop learning. When you have participate in brainstorming frequently, a lot inputs will help you to understand the bigger pictures. A better understanding and increase efficicencies to reduce any inconsistently occurred.