Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Remove the "You" from Failure

Just thinking of yourself you are a regular person - like you & me. We can be achieved to become winner instead of average is that we should refuse to let failure get the better of him. No matter how many times you fail, it doesn't have to make you a failure.

If you've been thinking of yourself as s failure, you can break yourself out of that negative thinking pattern. Look at an area of your life where you have repeatedly failed, and do the following:
  • Examine your expectation for that are. Write them down. Are they realistic? Do you expect to do everything perfectly? Do you expect to succeed on the first try? How many mistakes should you expect to make before you succeed? Adjust your expectations.
  • Find new ways to do your work. Brainstorm at least twenty new approaches, and then try at least half of them.
  • Focus on your strengths. How can you use your best skills and personal strengths to maximize your effort?
  • Vow to bounce back. No matter how many times you fall down, pcik yourself up and keep going.

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