Admitting Your Stupid Mistakes

Just recalled some mistakes which you have done, did you realized that it was your mistakes where it basically did not accepted by someone you ever loved? You might be ask yourself, did you honest enough to someone you really loved? What if you have not, what are the main reasons caused you have not tell the truths? I can expected some questions in your mind now. Tell the truths may or may not easy but it as hard as you think of. To admit mistakes, it is not as easy as you just speak to anyone else. I feel some feared when you have done mistakes, it's not evaluate small or big, it just such your pattern being honestly. I feared indeed. I really pissed off.

I don't know how should I start to tell your beloved person. I certainly have done some mistakes will cause myself suffering daily where you even have trouble to keep yourself moving forward. I also understand that it might be caused your beloved suffering as well. You sometimes might not seen and feel how such ridiculous mistakes can caused someone next to you. It created uncomfortable zone, it will. You may thinking how to convince her/him listen to you, the most important part you ask for forgiveness. What you expect, the result may vary. You can even expect the worst scenarios what happening soon, you breathless. Apart from that, you may sucked in thinking of what is the best solution after admitted your mistakes.

Therefore, you may lost focused. You can't even stayed on track. The worst situation I can foresee may it caused them heart breaking. I can dared not do that actually but indeed you have done it. It can considers you're too self-fish. You don't care how they feel when you intially started to do it, after it happened, you will totally feel regret. What am I in this situation now. I can't manage my feeling now. You know why? I couldn't really stressed what type of regret feeling now. But now, it strongly hurt. Not only you, it is caused surrounding people. I regret, is it too late? I wish it is not.

In a RUSH

Rush things happened when time is moving. And of course it is totally hard, we can adjust rush things all the time, things may be easily to handle but the deadline is not allowed you to do so. How do you monitor all the rush things happening in once time? I wish myself can handle it, though, I honest to tell you I can but with certain condition allowed.

For instance, I recently do assisting my colleagues when they are out of country to visit our valued customers. It's really sucked in the rushing tasks where I couldn't be adopted as fast as possible. It looks simple but the mountain of works right in front of, you may rush without thinking how things can be done well. You just remained focus on your tasks, neither important nor not, I must complete before the deadline. It's killing you without strong reasons. Rush things can make you do certain mistakes which you do not realised. After a second, you found something has been missing. If you just put yourself into my shoe, I truly hope you can feel what did I feel.

When I think positively, things must be done on time, rush things must done well, no mistakes allowed. Would you be think that you are superhero or whatever? I praised myself no gift. I only can understand my sacrifice is worthwhile when I have completed all tasks with no silly mistakes at all. I know I can do it no matter how rush the tasks given, you just work with relaxing minded and keep track on your responsibility. Some people often said, "Pressure is created by yourself." I do agree with this statement, no pressure how to develop yourself and sharpen your minded. It's pretty awesome. I love this feel after rushed things have been covered up.

An good experience which I have never had that one time I was also assigned to assist my respective superior who away for country 3 weeks. It was tougher period, I made lots mistakes until involved other colleagues in this particular stupid mistakes. I had properly lost my tracks where I can't handle number of things in same time. Hence, I had wasted lots of resources which it was not necessarily and shouldn't happened. I learned from my mistakes. It's all about time management and stress management. I was telling myself after review by my respective superior, "I MUST STAYED FOCUSED" on whatever rushed things to play deep attention to finish it. Try to overcome each tasks, one-by-one to monitor closely. Although it was painful experiences, I used to adapt in short period of time, I understand "SETBACK IS NOT FAILURE."

This applies to all of us, let's not be quick in everything we do. We have to pause for a while to be able to observe and analyze or maybe even read between the lines. Take into consideration all the things that matter and set aside all that don't. Prior to things end up, we have to set our priorities which it is important and not.

Simple Ways to Relax At Work When Stress Strive

We all indeed will be facing much pressure in workplae everyday. We sometimes have done our jobs but our management does not appreciated especially bosses too demanding, unhappy customer, frustration buyers, colleagues desperated, the deadline is due and etc. It could be lots of unhappy cases happened to you in the past or recent, we however should know to overcome it and maintain the best performances. Neither we face stress nor enjoy our works, we do know that how to relax our mind and physically to obtain well healthy work environment for ourself. Here are some tips can relax your minds when hitting by stress:

-Think positive! A negative mentality will only induce a state of tension and frustration. Try to think of work in positive terms. And not to load the negative energy, avoid sources of negativism that could influence you. No matter how positive feel at the beginning of the day some people will manage to have a strong impact on your mind and spirit. Try to ignore them. You have the right, and power, to be happy at work.

-Get involved! You have to detach from what happens at work. Try to be all the time aware of what is happening in the company, obtain information about your department, projects that are in progress, office colleagues, superiors and others employees.

-Stay focused! Whenever you have assigned to complete some tasks which youthink your capability can be finished according to deadline given, you must stay focus on what you have committed. You don't get wrong that Im not stress your should avoid other tasks although both tasks have been given at the same time. You may know how to allocate your precise time and energy whether it does allow to work both tasks together.

The Biggest Roadblocks to Success in Life is SELF_DOUBT

Have you ever doubt on your capability and strengths on the tasks have been given? I note that some of you might came across this kind of circumstances where you have put much efforts to obtain your best to have done the task successfully, though, you have at the end no one else appreciated your hard work. It is not matter of work hard as you can, it could be all about how smart you have work.

Whenever you think you have doubt on your capability, it is not regards on what you have done, you only must understand how to improve your best to make things happened. And of course, it is hard when you have fallen, you can't bounce back, you will ever recognised that person who has expected you have not work as hard as you can. Self doubt, however, is virtually not a solution to solve your problems when have failure somethings which you have personally stressed you have done ever your best. Or else, you will keep moving down deeply. You should understand that I couldn't do the best, you can forced yourself to do it one step further, work extra one more day and so forth.

Doubtful pattern only makes to be failure. You couldn't on your track faster when you have realized. Otherwise, those are with courage and good behaviors always treats their problems as challenges, they won't allow other people take away their dreams. As some experts said, "the biggest roadblock to success is self doubt, when you can breakthrough, the journey to success just right behind of you." We internally created the roadblocks, it is because of the failures in your mind. It is because of you dare not to failure. If you dare to failure, you deserve to success. You have doubt because you have feared. You feared to pain, when you think of pain, you quit. You will try to get as far as possible, you choose to safe route and walking other ways.

Persistence & Self-determination

Throughout this 2 weeks, I have been stopped for writing almost more than 10 days. I really wanted to update my post, however my recent tasks do not allow me to spend time for blogging. I actually tighten up with heavy tasks where my respective colleagues have been away 2 weeks for business trip in China. That's reason I can't update my post. Right here, I feel glad can takes about 15 minutes to post my 1st article in this week.

Many people often say if you need to achieve your dreams or goals, you must have persistence behavior to make your dreams come true. Persistence is an essential for journey to success. How do you look at persistence? Some people stressed that we can work hard and putting all effort, the lucky will come right behind but persistent does not required. There is no right or wrong, it is just whether good or bad. Sound familiar to you? I urged you that maintaining and creating a positive mindset is one of the important attributes that has contributed to every successful person. I alert that when you need to success, persistent is one of the ultimate way reaching your goals. Self determination could be play significant role as well. Everyone has different living styles, but self-determination comes in place. There is no doubt among our group of friends might be have negative attitudes, it cannot be avoided. It's just matter of your thoughts how you view your perspective in your life's.

"No gain, no pain" as quoted. have you heard this quote before? I wish you do. The reason why someone can achieved their dreams is all caused by their hard work and effort. Without these 2 essential attitudes, it could not fulfill of their dreams. I wish you should encourage yourself to putting as much as effort you can, to obtain your successful lives. I personally am guiding myself
dedication, focus, persistent, positive attitude, self-determination throughout any and all circumstances and curve balls life throws at us.