Get The Loser Out of You

In our daily challenges, we of course will be facing a number of obstacles in various aspects. How could we look at challenges and get those loser out of us? Whether you lovechallenges , but those are always influences you end up with the loser. The loser is likely "virus" surrounding us, infected and influences us. It's really worst once you've get infected. Some critical issues might be happened where you can expect something that beyond your control. And it's makes totally difference, if you can escape from those losers.

No doubt, our friends among us must be are loser but not at all. Certainly, whether they are or not we do not want them to be loser. Just assume that when you have gathering with them, they're usually give you various negative perspectives which you actually speechless. The main reason you respect your friends. They might be chosen to be loser. Are you in their group? One important thing where you can do is we can try to advice them do not always putting negative minded in yourself. We try not ever do that. You whether choose to mingle with them or you can choose to escape, it's your own choices. I am just thinking that how you evaluate those are winners and losers? Winners do get away from those losers. No one wanted to be loser.

Some people said, "don't ever to get involved in "minor" matters unless you can sure you can win. Pretty awesome, it's truth if you can build such powerful confidence on yourself whatever tasks and responsibility assigned. What am I trying to stress here, please don't underestimated opponents just next to you, you may be not alert, though, we must always prepare to battle against your challenges. Be prepared before the rainy day even though itapply in finance planning, it could be wrong anytime. Just think out of the box and trying to work something expect than you aimed. With this behaviors, you managed whatsoever opponents or loser out of you. You are in control, you must manage your emotional against those negative influences.

"Well, first, you try to get something out of it. Sometimes there is an opening to get a good thing or two out of a bad package. Get that and brag about it. Work hard. Don't pull the rug out from those are helping you, and thank them over and over again And keep cool. Don't whine. And do not get personal with those who beat you. Don't give them the satisfaction." Do you understand that how it gonna works?

Going Back to Our Fundamentals

Everyone of us maybe expected more than we have planned. It's commonly truth where each of us has different expectation on what we have aimed in earlier. Though, we have thought that shall we going back to our fundamentals of every single achievement that we have done. Our foundations are much important rather than we thoughts that we are smart in certain areas where other people do not possess with this kind of strengths. I still remembered that when I have a goal to improve my communication, I persist and perseverance. Every toughest challenges never ever break me down. I looked at the challenges maybe not as hard as I thoughts. If pretty good if we have challenging, we know where we have done good, which evaluate every single setbacks how to overcome it and maintained the peak performances.

For example, I have been criticism by my ex-respected lecturers during face-to-face conversation. He strongly meant my English should be improved, if not the way where I communicate with him, he got headaches. Pretty upset, right? If you were me, how did you react that time with small group of people where their mind thoughts you're weak. I believed my foundations were weak. I should start with my foundation and fundamentals are important before you end up yourself do not understand how to start. I began with communication, whatever people I have seen, met and I used to communicate with them in English.

A good or poor doesn't pull me down caused I have aimed to be improved and proven them are wrong. It's truly tougher on what the beginning many people did not accept when talked with them in English. I have many choices to polish up my languages, I often met those lecturers are speaking in English, as the result, I met my respected mentor, Mr. Bryan Lo. He did encourage me to speak with him, write to him, and involved in numerous activities to improving my language. At the end, I still received some negative feedback by surrounding people of mine. But I only posses with this attitude, the fundamental is to make more practises until you make perfect.

Furthermore, I have went to corporate stages very fast, even I expected and then the result out of my expectation. But old people often said, "the faster you go up, the faster you will fall down." Due to my fundamentals still not strong enough, I worked beyond my management capabilities. It's really embarrassed me those action and worst behaviors implemented. I knew every fundamental movement is essential to bring yourself next stages. Why I did not realized in earlier stage? it caused me until I have end up by some worst mistakes I had have done. Last but not least, the world is changing rapidly as out of our expectation, though, the fundamentals are essential for us to obtain better achievement, instead of applying the wrong strategy caused us to start with bottom stages again.

Prediction is very difficult, especially if it's all the Future!

Look at the current development in our country, we usually find certain changes from day-to-day instead changes in daytime or overnight. It definitely some changes can be done in a day, such as your attitudes, behaviors and characters. What I am addressing here that we able to make our life's more interesting where to explore one things beyond our capability, before it makes our lives so boring.

And of course, changes is difficult but you don change it , you will be losing the track and unable to core with current market development. I believe everyone of us alert the climate changes nowadays, it fast moving and heading to journey where we should change it before we will at the end tend to be old folks whom lacking information, lack of skills as well as improvement. It pretty upset some of them among our networking, you can observed that they are moving faster rather than someone does remained the same foot.

The most awareness you have, the faster movement you can ahead on the new journey and new discovery. You may not understand me what you should change? Let's go deep into the topic in which you have stressed today. Prediction is something where you have foresee something will be happened, the upcoming new trends and new improvement. Everything are changing so fast. Let's take it good example, the corporate ladders like those top management people, they are improving in terms of corporate communication, interpersonal skills, new knowledge and so forth.

Why they alert of these? Well, you may seem number of top ladder white collars will be taking numerous of courses to enhance their capabilities, they also even never underestimate. Successful people never ever feared to change. They predict something will be going to change, they assume better than they yet not awake from their comfort zone itself. Furthermore, they forecast themselves in near future, the corporation maybe required those are skillful & knowledgeable to adopt the economy growth which changing onwards with internal and external sources enforcement to be improving yourself.

It's truth, prediction is much difficult, what you guessed the prediction is tend will be happening in near future, would be worthwhile to change your current position rather than those are sleeping cats never improved themselves, staying in comfort zone and feared of changed. I urge you that the questions in your mind right now, what and where should I change and improve, it doesn't matter what are you, who are you, now you just thinking of we change for future, good preparation is for future adoption, if we plan to fail, you indeed fail to plan. War is begins, if you stop to learn, you'll stop to grow.

Celebration Party

I believe myself do not joining any party since it was couple of months ago. If you're thinking whether I love this type of occasion, i would say myself cordially to join the event with joyous one. Would not you instead of me? I think someone maybe not interested that to joining this kind of event caused of the atmosphere where you find not comfortable.

Indeed, among my small group of colleagues do not intend involved themselves with these event. With certain extent, the characters of human being totally vary on the pattern of behaviors. everyone could be thoughts differently when they are invited to attend this kind of events. Party basically is as simple as we think, no difficult to plan for gorgeous party, it just process of arranging how makes the party can be make our memory everlasting. The simple ways to make one gorgeous party as follows:

1. Prepare a list of guest of honors
In order to wasting our time to think of who should be invited, we must prepare a list of invitation names for separately categorised every single of group people. That's why the reason of the party must be have VVIP,VIP and etc.

2. Party Decorations
Lot of decoration must in place where to make that particularly place more fabulous and exciting. An atmosphere where it able to create excellent impression, it will be worth to sacrifice your sources and energy. Time is most concern for everyone when having party. We must allocate some portions of expenses to prepare the in-house party.

3. Invitation cards
To express your deeper appreciation to attending your party's, your express words would be important tools to impress our sincere to invite them to come over your memorable party. With such powerful invitation words, "you are cordially invited to make the occasion to joyous one." You're thinking it sounds complicated, indeed it strongly important to create 1st impression for your guest that you're really sincere to invite them to your joyous party.

4. Budget allocation
Some hidden costs may be incurred where you have planned in earlier stage. Due to some courses, you must thoughts what's the bottom line expenses you can spend, the budget which you allocate under your control, you must in control every expenses. You must spend within your budgets. All officially receipts expenses must file in place where you can calculating full details and creates the work sheet to be use in upcoming event.

HOME....

How to definite such term in your own dictionary? In fact, it will have billions of difference definition in our thoughts. In my mind, I defined it as the place where I can found comfortable, warm, stressful reduced and happiness. Without home, I only find my life is not worth living and boring life.

Like such definition, "Home is the one place in all this world where hearts are sure of each other. It is the place of confidence. It is the place where we tear off that mask of guarded and suspicious coldness which the world forces us to wear in self-defense, and where we pour out the unreserved communications of full and confiding hearts. It is the spot where expressions of tenderness gush out without any sensation of awkwardness and without any dread of ridicule."~Frederick W. Robertson

"One's home is like a delicious piece of pie you order in a restaurant on a country road one cozy evening - the best piece of pie you have ever eaten in your life - and can never find again. After you leave home, you may find yourself feeling homesick, even if you have a new home that has nicer wallpaper and a more efficient dishwasher than the home in which you grew up. ~Lemony Snicket

As you read through those are experts often have their difference point of views. How about you? I'm thinking how should I look at home as place where can allow us to find our happiness and joyful as well as cheerful. When I was aged 10, I recalled some wonderful events had been underwent. I can recalled the exactly where the happiness can be found again. I am indeed trying thoughts some greatest experiences I had been gone through. Until now, have no idea at all. What this occurred to me? Would be possible you were the same situation as me? Try your level of best never ever demotivate yourself, you should proud of yourself to grow with full of healthy and happiness. A person who also addressed, "there is nothing staying at home for real comfort." Questions in your mind now, is it the only place I can find my comfort zone? Hopefully it's not totally ruined your mind when you also have similar feeling with me instead.

Have you how long did you go back to home monthly? The above on what you have indicated it doesn't matter you should understand the definition, the most important is all about your thoughts in your inner heart.