New Year, New Life, New Challenges in 2013.

What is your new year wish and resolution in 2013? I have no idea whether it is good or bad about the change, however it is time to be change for new life and new challenges in 2013. Why some people have fear to change? I have met my ex-boss today, I have felt his thought are firm and confidence. The way he's talking indirectly providing you valuable information how to be better person in life where to maintain at no pressure, no further commitment in life. I felt made a right decision at this time. I knew myself is ready for new challenge. You may go through in  tough time although I will be facing numbers of obstacles in my next career path. I only know that when there is an opportunity is open the door for you, but you refused to change, so you will not become someone will achieve a wealth life in your dream. Wait & see attitude can stop you to move forward because the atmosphere is too comfort for you. 

Honestly, he was my personal guru for my 1st job after graduate from university. I did not tell him about this, I hope he really can feel it. I have recalled what he had taught me in the past, the lesson was " Don't ever think too much, Just Do it." When times come, you'll know how powerful is. Was it work for me? I have just applied to what i will be going to do next. Yes, it is worked for me. How to break the fear when you wanna to change? I believe it is the way how you think of with positive mental and mind-set. As I said above, "Don't ever think too much, Just Do it." Are you a god whom can see what is the next happen to you? No, it is not at all. So, how you can strive for the best at this time? I have shared my fear with my wife indeed. But the things can't change overnight until you are putting yourself in the position and view carefully where you do realize that the actual circumstances whether are what you thought of.  So, again "Don't think too much, Just Do it." I have to accept what is the next for new task, because I am not willing to give up until I have promised myself and my wife, I must change & I must work harder to achieve better living for my family. If i give up right now, who would be the most disappointed? It is ME. I disappointed myself. The biggest enemy in our life is You. You are the one stops to move on. 

Do you ever tell yourself I will let go when one thing is consider good opportunity? The 100% answer is NO. Whatever there are bad rumors outside about the opportunity, I believe when you stand it, accept it, take it as new challenges, the wall you may break through it to achieve better person behind the wall. 

A Strongers Do Survive, A Cowards DO NOT!

I posted my comment to my mentor blog for this month new topic. It's pretty awesome. I believe some of you might heard this statement but some of you might not. The fantastic topic calls, "366 days marketing" which more related current competitive edges on what the company to fight and beat against their competitors. What he is trying to address here, the company's do survive with marketing-daily instead of marketing-oriented. You must work extra one more day to win the battle. Not only works in 365 days, you must work more than that until you are the winner's in the battle. A strongers do survive, however a cowards only end up with the loser.

As Henry Ford often said, "whether you choose to do it, or you choose not, you're always right."The meaning here is whatever you do and you are not, we are not going to evaluate you're wrong. Remember this, "You're always right for what being reasons too." You determine which one is right and which one is not. More so, if you think you have numbers of great, creative and unique ideas to start off the new businesses all over the world, you can though to convince the people to start venture in your new business. You choose not to sell your ideas, it may cause someone does stole you ideas, you can choose to wait at the right time. Yes, you deserve it. Nobody able to take away your unique ideas.

With strong marketing ideas, a strong marketers would be not miss the business opportunities to penetrate it even faster than ever. They used to understand the Confucius said "A journey of 1,000 miles must begin with a single move." If you think the idea is extremely works, persist it and makes your dream comes true. If you determine your fate. To be successful entrepreneur, you must carry with such behavior, Do Dare To Try whatever a gold opportunity is right in front of you. Success is never ever comes to you. You must perseverance, you must persist it. Do realise all the dreams what we have now, we can't make it happen in overnight. Do begin you single step to achieve your gaols. "A Strongers Do Survive, A Cowards DO NOT!" And of course, when you are stepping your ever first step, those toxic people always discourage you to begin your first step. You usually will rise numerous obstacles to make your afraid, scare being coward, you must stay away from them. Please do not mingle all this kind of bad-influencers and cowards.

Learn, Teach Or Give

"Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach him to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime."

You Actualy thinkYou Can't, Indeed You Can!

You must always thought you can't do it. I do believe to those successful entrepreneurs who always taking high risk to discover certain those things where they think it possible can be happens, though, it must go through billion of tougher stages to obtain the result in which they have plant off. It's definitely simple implement when in fact the reality they have to breakthrough the challenges. Life's full of obstacles.

Let's go through a very good example in my life. I have attended a fabulous and memorable wedding with my brother's wedding lunch years ago.I guessed my sister-in-law and him finally have been officially staying together towards their new life in living. They actually have been gathered closed to 10 years. They seen knew each other during studies in university. Both are actively in joining all kind of activities, they have strong networking as well, no doubt. One things was surprised that their characteristic are the same, why I said so?  They have arguments umpteen times, I have doubt on this 2 person in one day whether they can stayed together after they have married. The answer is YES! The old people often say the more argument they have, the hardest they will separate again. This mean they are understanding each other too well.

I thoughts initially they can't stick each other. You believe it or not, their arguments end up to know each other better and understanding, ever tough end up sometimes they are unhappy each other, but the most funny and importantly, they rarely blame each others. They're awesome couple where I have never been seen. Arguments turn to happiness. They make it finally. It was just fabulous memorable in their new life's. don't always judge the book by its cover.

Don't always determine things in which can't do it, indeed I think if possible that you do more better than you and me if any chances coming across into their lives. What I can look at every challenges in my life, I have 2 words for myself. It's possible. It's possible for eveything no matter how constraint of the case in your hands now, it basically the opportunities or solutions are right behind the problems, even tough you may realized it, most importantly you must view every problems positively, positive thoughts for your challenges, it can giving you more spiritual and inspiring in your next undertaking, this times you failure, it doesn't seem shall be failure next time. I honestly to tell you right now, all influences are effected by you THOUGHTS! If your thoughts are constantly positively, your next other point of views are monitor by yourself. You may lead the ways. No one can replace you or else vice verse.

Leadership

What is a leadership to you? Few people I knew are saying a leader who can lead with respect and honest. On the other hand, few people are saying a leader must be also a good manager. Wow, it is really subjective. A leader expert, Roberto kiyosaki said leadership is all about two things: honest & respect. Neither easy to be, that's why there are few good leaders. A leader to me can be describe a person who carried a positive attitude when encountering hard times for instance the exiting group of subordinate had been counter-offered by competitors and they left the place in overnight. What's gonna to do next? Are you willing to give up? Why do so? Are you willing to defeat by such circumstance where your people left in overnight? 

I strongly believe they ARE NOT. When a leader has stepped to top ladder position, would you think they are willing to give up? And of course, I'm yet to that level. Let's put myself into their shoe. An excellent leader will take this challenge to prove all they are wrong. They're wrong because they thought this leader will just left the position and look for better opportunity. If I were him in the past when I was still young, I surely will kick my ownk ass from this company. But I have seen went through number of failure and challenges, I believe will not give up until failure is an event and it is not a person. I trust this leader will have the same thought with me. Let's bring it on, thir more challenges you will encounter, the door of success eventually is welcoming you. Yes or no, not sure yet because this leader must be breakthrough the obstacles that he will be facing. This mean this leader is willing to accept the challenges and willing not give up, so the result at the end of the day, he could not FAIL. This definitely is not a battle where one person fighting in the war, they sure have a group of people still loyal and support him until the things have been changed and it obsolutely changes make a huge difference. This is so called the mind-set. 

Next, a leader to me can says someone is a person who leading a group of people to right way. The right ways mean to achieve short and long terms organization objectives. The way they think of, it is one thing beyond a leader control. Good or bad, right or wrong, it is still depending how they look at the scenario neither positive or negative. Positive mind set often produce a good result, or vice versa. So these group of people spirit can be spirit and soul for the organization. The leader mind set whale to lead them to the better track and better performance without monitoring or supervising frequently. 

As our famous book writer and motivator, Mr. Roberto Kiyosaki says honest and respect. I love the term RESPECT. When a leader recpect everyone in organization, what would be the atmosphere in workplace? I expect a leader as a good example to all of them. They are respecting each in the organization with no training provided. I have seen some good leaders are respect among their people working with them. Not also that, they are respect themselves. If someone is know how to respect themselves, basically they are a good leader.