Sunday, March 17, 2013

Dare to Pursue Your Dreams

The difference between my rich & poor mentor is where they have illustrate different meaning of pursuing our dreams. My rich mentor often says, "Just go ahead, if you think it is right, why you have so much concerns." On the other hand, my poor mentor will says," Little boy, you must understand the risk of pursing dreams is not consider as easy as you think, you have to think deeply, twice before you have to take action."

According to difference perspectives, they both have difference matters of pursing our dreams. If you think the dream is important to you, you must dare to pursue your dreams. If you let people take away your dreams, your life doesn't meaning anything to you. Because of fear and failure, they are always the setback for us to blocked our dreams. Don't ever let the setback turn into failure to you. I think when there is an opportunity comes to you, either you don't see it and let it go, at the of the day, you realized that the dreams has been blow over into the sky!

Additionally, my rich mentor often says, you should become an entrepreneur in order to achieve your millionaire dreams. There is no free lunch in the earth. Every footsteps you must think a step in advance rather than moving the same footstep as everyone around is doing the same. When you work with people, you're trying very hard to save as much as you can. You maybe living under your means. Struggling living, earning hard, and life neutral. I asked my rich mentor, what should I do to pursue my dreams and achieving living with above my means. He told me clearly, you must learn how to sell. Sell maybe is a vulgar words. I guess "sell" could be no one like the words. No everyone can sell with good result.

You believe your thoughts, your should dare to achieve your dreams no matter how difficult is! You can earn your respect, praise and never ever give up.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Focus On Solution, Not The Problem

I had encountered very bad situation before, it caused me wanted to give up in my life. However, at that time I only focused on what have done wrongly and do not concentrate on the solutions. When the problem is happened, it meant that was happened, nowhere to improve unless we should think of the solution. I would strongly to advice if you meet some setbacks , refusing to give up and also we should ensure think-out-of-box on what best solution we can implementing where it may be your best strategy.
 
And of course, we often are facing a number of problem in one day, basically it is common and give you more challenges. Many people look at the problem negatively, they will consider problem always break their emotional down, giving up and never ever absorb what actual problem happens to them. Some people will think the only way we can overcome the problem is to pray with our inner heart in order to overcome all the problems. If I were you, I do not do that at first. The reality is the bigger problem your have, the bigger lesson in your life, try do not ever escape the problem before it solved. We should become problem solving instead of become a coward.

I usually do not trust the problem can not be overcome, it's matter of thoughts in our mind. Thus , I used to solve difference type of problems happened to me, shall I giving up? I don't indeed. I knew I could prove them wrong by giving stubborn, being tenacious , and giving in or giving up. I will definitely become a stronger person very quickly during the time. I should bounce up and somethings are more important rather than this problems.

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

How to elaborate M.I.S.T.A.K.E.S

Leadership expert Peter Drucker says,"The better a man is, the more mistakes he will make, for the more new things he will try. I would never promote to a top-level job a man who was not making mistakes...otherwise he is sure to be mediocre." Mistakes really do pave the road to achievement.

The well famous leadership expert John Maxwell created an acronym of MISTAKES in perspective. Mistakes are..

Messages that give us feedback about life.
Interruptions that should cause us to reflect and think.
Signposts that direct us to the right path.
Tests that push is toward greater maturity.
Awakenings that keeps us in the game mentally.
Keys that we can use to unlock the next door of opportunity.
Explorations that let us journey where we've never been before.
Statements about our development and progress.

You after read this meaningful explanation, I guess no one is never done the mistakes before. I did a lot of big mistakes last time, I realized that every single mistakes which I did, it should gave me a great lesson to myself and i should realised this is what I should not repeat again. Always keep reminder to myself where i kept a lesson file in my memory in order for me to move forward when I am facing any obstacles in upcoming day. Anyway, I should appreciate all the mistakes which I have done.

Monday, March 11, 2013

Think Out of The Box :P

How to be special & unique? I should do something different as where others don't do it. The moment when I have decided to write this blog, I always ask myself such ways, "What are the purposes of writing this blog?", "Why to do it so?" It is non-profit and wasting your time. Old saying goes, time is precious. Aren't you serious utilize your capacity to maximum your capability? I believe you have hear this quote often, think out of the box. Don't ever limit yourself. The sky is limit.  
Here some are the technique I incorporate to allow me generate brilliant ideas. 

1. Think of yourself
Always think differently wherever you are in. Feel free to come out with your own conclusion about ideas, process, strategy, achieve the best in the world. Let's the people value of your present. This is when you are ready to be done it differently. Always visualize yourself at the top. 

2. Questions Everything
Sometime I ask myself how to become the top in recent position? How am i do it uniquely?Other people don't willing to do it, can't i? For instance, a good example of when you are taking with 2 years boy, is he often ask why? why?why like that? why? Get the picture. It surely out of their curiosity, that's why they are continuing ask some questions. Ask why something is done in a specific way with brilliant plans. Always plan in advance and go extra mile. 

3. Everything is a part of solution to something
Am you believe that when yourself given excuses I can't complete it in short period of time? Actual facts is you are not willing to do it. An out of the box thinker, however, sees pieces to different puzzles. When one thing is could not work, how about 2nd try? Failed again, how about 3rd hit? Failed again. Try to think 10 different ways to obtain better result. Don't break the blocks with similar tools, try others to break through it. One thing must remember, Don't be discouraged if you can't think of ten for each. The simple facts that you try is the entire purpose for the exercise. "You do it or you don't, you are always right.

To Be continue....

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Ordinary People Meets Extraordinary People

In your mind, you'll think that how to evaluate between ordinary people with extraordinary people. Don't get me wrong, I just give one good example. The ordinary people who usually are neutral person, no high expectation in their current living, always thoughts setback is their failure, never ever discover the risk, and the most important that they are work for living. At the end of the day, they make sure their pay check is credited to cover all expenses. On the other hand, an extraordinary people who considers dare to take high risk to discover something they think it is worth, to show someone must value their present, treat failure as their great motivator, expect more than they have now, and always searching for golden opportunities to be successful person. I believe that the explanation will be giving more bigger pictures.

I don't mean that the extraordinary people should be either richest person or the millionaire and billionaires. I am trying to stress that their thoughts maybe one step ahead, old saying goes "Prepare an umbrella before raining day"where the ordinary is having neutral thoughts. Thus so far, what are the different between ordinary and extraordinary people? An ordinary people can say they have a great ordinary dad, they learn from their dad through traditionally financial education and perspective of career paths. Ordinary dad advises their children during their school time must study hard when graduated must be get one stable job. He does not encourages to discover for start off the business. Extraordinary dad often said, during school time, they taught you with basic and general education, you must always think out of the box. Setback is not failure, you must make more mistakes to learn the lesson until you can be succeed. Never giving up when you had yet only encountered a few times of failure. Impossible means " I'M POSSIBLE.", rich tycoon quoted.