Everyone can make a difference. But Change doesn't happen overnight!

Change can be make you difference. Do you believe or not? How many of you always change when you are thinking it is my time to change before we are stepping on the same feet itself. We always dislike people to criticism us, look down on us and so forth. We have self-esteem. I am that kind of person who always love people to criticism , I used to hate it but love it every time they are encouraging me to change. Change doesn't happen overnight. I understood so well. Those change takes time.

When you are able to change, you can see the greatest differences which you have. Furthermore, you may not be realized after you have bravely done something new. For instance, I have been seen on of friend, she rarely to dealing with other stranger whom she doesn't know. She could be considers stay alive with alone herself. She never ever to mingle with big group of people such as social function, ballroom night and etc. However, there was a day I met her, you are not even recognized who she is, it's basically the impression has been changed from the day when I knew her. It's was only 2 years ago. She is quiet outstanding in terms of the entire dressing, good communication and on top of that character is talkative and humorous. She's changed. Totally out of my mind, I guessed.

Think forward before you are staying in the same track without any improvement and changes.

Character is higher than intellect... A great soul will be strong to live, as well as to think. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Dare to Pursue Your Dreams

The difference between my rich & poor mentor is where they have illustrate different meaning of pursuing our dreams. My rich mentor often says, "Just go ahead, if you think it is right, why you have so much concerns." On the other hand, my poor mentor will says," Little boy, you must understand the risk of pursing dreams is not consider as easy as you think, you have to think deeply, twice before you have to take action."

According to difference perspectives, they both have difference matters of pursing our dreams. If you think the dream is important to you, you must dare to pursue your dreams. If you let people take away your dreams, your life doesn't meaning anything to you. Because of fear and failure, they are always the setback for us to blocked our dreams. Don't ever let the setback turn into failure to you. I think when there is an opportunity comes to you, either you don't see it and let it go, at the of the day, you realized that the dreams has been blow over into the sky!

Additionally, my rich mentor often says, you should become an entrepreneur in order to achieve your millionaire dreams. There is no free lunch in the earth. Every footsteps you must think a step in advance rather than moving the same footstep as everyone around is doing the same. When you work with people, you're trying very hard to save as much as you can. You maybe living under your means. Struggling living, earning hard, and life neutral. I asked my rich mentor, what should I do to pursue my dreams and achieving living with above my means. He told me clearly, you must learn how to sell. Sell maybe is a vulgar words. I guess "sell" could be no one like the words. No everyone can sell with good result.

You believe your thoughts, your should dare to achieve your dreams no matter how difficult is! You can earn your respect, praise and never ever give up.

Focus On Solution, Not The Problem

I had encountered very bad situation before, it caused me wanted to give up in my life. However, at that time I only focused on what have done wrongly and do not concentrate on the solutions. When the problem is happened, it meant that was happened, nowhere to improve unless we should think of the solution. I would strongly to advice if you meet some setbacks , refusing to give up and also we should ensure think-out-of-box on what best solution we can implementing where it may be your best strategy.
 
And of course, we often are facing a number of problem in one day, basically it is common and give you more challenges. Many people look at the problem negatively, they will consider problem always break their emotional down, giving up and never ever absorb what actual problem happens to them. Some people will think the only way we can overcome the problem is to pray with our inner heart in order to overcome all the problems. If I were you, I do not do that at first. The reality is the bigger problem your have, the bigger lesson in your life, try do not ever escape the problem before it solved. We should become problem solving instead of become a coward.

I usually do not trust the problem can not be overcome, it's matter of thoughts in our mind. Thus , I used to solve difference type of problems happened to me, shall I giving up? I don't indeed. I knew I could prove them wrong by giving stubborn, being tenacious , and giving in or giving up. I will definitely become a stronger person very quickly during the time. I should bounce up and somethings are more important rather than this problems.

How to elaborate M.I.S.T.A.K.E.S

Leadership expert Peter Drucker says,"The better a man is, the more mistakes he will make, for the more new things he will try. I would never promote to a top-level job a man who was not making mistakes...otherwise he is sure to be mediocre." Mistakes really do pave the road to achievement.

The well famous leadership expert John Maxwell created an acronym of MISTAKES in perspective. Mistakes are..

Messages that give us feedback about life.
Interruptions that should cause us to reflect and think.
Signposts that direct us to the right path.
Tests that push is toward greater maturity.
Awakenings that keeps us in the game mentally.
Keys that we can use to unlock the next door of opportunity.
Explorations that let us journey where we've never been before.
Statements about our development and progress.

You after read this meaningful explanation, I guess no one is never done the mistakes before. I did a lot of big mistakes last time, I realized that every single mistakes which I did, it should gave me a great lesson to myself and i should realised this is what I should not repeat again. Always keep reminder to myself where i kept a lesson file in my memory in order for me to move forward when I am facing any obstacles in upcoming day. Anyway, I should appreciate all the mistakes which I have done.

Think Out of The Box :P

How to be special & unique? I should do something different as where others don't do it. The moment when I have decided to write this blog, I always ask myself such ways, "What are the purposes of writing this blog?", "Why to do it so?" It is non-profit and wasting your time. Old saying goes, time is precious. Aren't you serious utilize your capacity to maximum your capability? I believe you have hear this quote often, think out of the box. Don't ever limit yourself. The sky is limit.  
Here some are the technique I incorporate to allow me generate brilliant ideas. 

1. Think of yourself
Always think differently wherever you are in. Feel free to come out with your own conclusion about ideas, process, strategy, achieve the best in the world. Let's the people value of your present. This is when you are ready to be done it differently. Always visualize yourself at the top. 

2. Questions Everything
Sometime I ask myself how to become the top in recent position? How am i do it uniquely?Other people don't willing to do it, can't i? For instance, a good example of when you are taking with 2 years boy, is he often ask why? why?why like that? why? Get the picture. It surely out of their curiosity, that's why they are continuing ask some questions. Ask why something is done in a specific way with brilliant plans. Always plan in advance and go extra mile. 

3. Everything is a part of solution to something
Am you believe that when yourself given excuses I can't complete it in short period of time? Actual facts is you are not willing to do it. An out of the box thinker, however, sees pieces to different puzzles. When one thing is could not work, how about 2nd try? Failed again, how about 3rd hit? Failed again. Try to think 10 different ways to obtain better result. Don't break the blocks with similar tools, try others to break through it. One thing must remember, Don't be discouraged if you can't think of ten for each. The simple facts that you try is the entire purpose for the exercise. "You do it or you don't, you are always right.

To Be continue....