There are only few words to address here in order to improve your writing skills, "keep on writing, Beat the fear of criticism and rejection. Nobody ever can stopped me." I strongly believe many of us have brilliant ideas , value information, greatest learning lesson, inspiring stories and number of articles yet to be awakened.
If anyone does said your writing is poor, i will strongly urged you should not stop writing. Either they are good writer nor not, you should appreciate their value comments. One of the best lesson in the earth, there is some are giving priceless comments. I used to be poor writer before, shall i quit? I did not. I know to breakthrough the block of fear, the best key improving ways is to accept your shortcomings and start to change. Changes will be make us difference.
Some expert leader said," treat it as one of life's most generous gifts." I initially did not understand what actual highlighted by the leader. When I keep on writing, I certainly feel very enjoying in writing, I also noticed the more you write, the more information will come out from your brain, and of course it never ever stopped. You can't really stopped whatever some information appear inside your brain. Some are said, "It's all about intuition!" Obviously, we are ordinary person but in our thoughts can be difference with others. We're not require to be Bill Gates or Thomas Edison the ways of their thoughts.
Here are some useful tips to improve your writing skills:
1. Dare to write
Don't get me wrong, I mean you should start to write those stories, information, whatever in your mind. You may understand there is no wrong or right for those are information put in writing.
2. Always get comment on what you have written.
Find someone to give you constructive, yet positive, feedback on your writing. Positive reinforcement is always the best cure for fear of rejection. Steer clear of harsh criticism at this stage. Practise always makes perfect. If you do not practise well, you may act like go for war without any well preparation. Start hard, get live easily later.
3. Join a group or association
The best way to improve is to learn from others. People in assoication can be consider friendly and helpful. They can sharpen your writing as well as communication. Hence, they usually will provide you lots of resources and tools, competition writing and much more. They are also a person who never stop learning.
4. Do read more
Reading articles or any resources can improve our writing, one of efficient way to read books. Try to build dood habit in reading, read as much as you can. We should not care what books you specifically based on your interest. Some authors are educated and well trained in writing, they are sharing their ideas, their interest, knowledge which converted into writing a book.
Change can be make you difference. Do you believe or not? How many of you always change when you are thinking it is my time to change before we are stepping on the same feet itself. We always dislike people to criticism us, look down on us and so forth. We have self-esteem. I am that kind of person who always love people to criticism , I used to hate it but love it every time they are encouraging me to change. Change doesn't happen overnight. I understood so well. Those change takes time.
When you are able to change, you can see the greatest differences which you have. Furthermore, you may not be realized after you have bravely done something new. For instance, I have been seen on of friend, she rarely to dealing with other stranger whom she doesn't know. She could be considers stay alive with alone herself. She never ever to mingle with big group of people such as social function, ballroom night and etc. However, there was a day I met her, you are not even recognized who she is, it's basically the impression has been changed from the day when I knew her. It's was only 2 years ago. She is quiet outstanding in terms of the entire dressing, good communication and on top of that character is talkative and humorous. She's changed. Totally out of my mind, I guessed.
Think forward before you are staying in the same track without any improvement and changes.
Character is higher than intellect... A great soul will be strong to live, as well as to think. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
The difference between my rich & poor mentor is where they have illustrate different meaning of pursuing our dreams. My rich mentor often says, "Just go ahead, if you think it is right, why you have so much concerns." On the other hand, my poor mentor will says," Little boy, you must understand the risk of pursing dreams is not consider as easy as you think, you have to think deeply, twice before you have to take action."
According to difference perspectives, they both have difference matters of pursing our dreams. If you think the dream is important to you, you must dare to pursue your dreams. If you let people take away your dreams, your life doesn't meaning anything to you. Because of fear and failure, they are always the setback for us to blocked our dreams. Don't ever let the setback turn into failure to you. I think when there is an opportunity comes to you, either you don't see it and let it go, at the of the day, you realized that the dreams has been blow over into the sky!
Additionally, my rich mentor often says, you should become an entrepreneur in order to achieve your millionaire dreams. There is no free lunch in the earth. Every footsteps you must think a step in advance rather than moving the same footstep as everyone around is doing the same. When you work with people, you're trying very hard to save as much as you can. You maybe living under your means. Struggling living, earning hard, and life neutral. I asked my rich mentor, what should I do to pursue my dreams and achieving living with above my means. He told me clearly, you must learn how to sell. Sell maybe is a vulgar words. I guess "sell" could be no one like the words. No everyone can sell with good result.
You believe your thoughts, your should dare to achieve your dreams no matter how difficult is! You can earn your respect, praise and never ever give up.
I had encountered very bad situation before, it caused me wanted to give up in my life. However, at that time I only focused on what have done wrongly and do not concentrate on the solutions. When the problem is happened, it meant that was happened, nowhere to improve unless we should think of the solution. I would strongly to advice if you meet some setbacks , refusing to give up and also we should ensure think-out-of-box on what best solution we can implementing where it may be your best strategy.
And of course, we often are facing a number of problem in one day, basically it is common and give you more challenges. Many people look at the problem negatively, they will consider problem always break their emotional down, giving up and never ever absorb what actual problem happens to them. Some people will think the only way we can overcome the problem is to pray with our inner heart in order to overcome all the problems. If I were you, I do not do that at first. The reality is the bigger problem your have, the bigger lesson in your life, try do not ever escape the problem before it solved. We should become problem solving instead of become a coward.
I usually do not trust the problem can not be overcome, it's matter of thoughts in our mind. Thus , I used to solve difference type of problems happened to me, shall I giving up? I don't indeed. I knew I could prove them wrong by giving stubborn, being tenacious , and giving in or giving up. I will definitely become a stronger person very quickly during the time. I should bounce up and somethings are more important rather than this problems.
Leadership expert Peter Drucker says,"The better a man is, the more mistakes he will make, for the more new things he will try. I would never promote to a top-level job a man who was not making mistakes...otherwise he is sure to be mediocre." Mistakes really do pave the road to achievement.
The well famous leadership expert John Maxwell created an acronym of MISTAKES in perspective. Mistakes are..
Messages that give us feedback about life.
Interruptions that should cause us to reflect and think.
Signposts that direct us to the right path.
Tests that push is toward greater maturity.
Awakenings that keeps us in the game mentally.
Keys that we can use to unlock the next door of opportunity.
Explorations that let us journey where we've never been before.
Statements about our development and progress.
You after read this meaningful explanation, I guess no one is never done the mistakes before. I did a lot of big mistakes last time, I realized that every single mistakes which I did, it should gave me a great lesson to myself and i should realised this is what I should not repeat again. Always keep reminder to myself where i kept a lesson file in my memory in order for me to move forward when I am facing any obstacles in upcoming day. Anyway, I should appreciate all the mistakes which I have done.
