I know you're tired, I know you're physically and emotionally drained. But it means you have to keep going.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Why We Fail? (Part Two)
Some people live and learn, and some only live. Wise people learn from their mistakes. People who do not learn lessons form history are doomed. Failure is a teacher if we have the right attitude. Failure is a detour, not a dead end. it is a delay, not a defeat. Experience is the name we give to our mistakes. As quoted, "the past performance is not guarantee for future result." Although it may sound inspired, but you must consistently your perseverance to maintain the best performances. Learn whatever you think it is new to you, new things bring you new experiences.
5. Lack of Discipline
Anyone who has accomplished anything worthwhile has never done so without discipline. Discipline takes self-control, sacrifice, and avoiding distractions and temptations. It means staying focused. Steam does not move the engine unless it is confined. Niagara Falls would not generate power unless it were harnessed. You whether can be thinking the discipline does important to everyone of us, indeed, it extremely important. Look at your daily practising on your financial planning, if without any discipline, you sure will lost control. Nobody can be guided you unless yourself. Monitoring well financial education is to ensure that you can allocate your expenses more wisely, despite that you may also to learn with some financial experts to generate how shall we obtain financial freedom.
6. Poor Self-Esteem
It is a lack of self-respect and self-worth. As I mentioned in earlier, self confidence is required for us to step one further to aim our mission. It links with each other. It tend to understand that it could be caused you to succeed in your paths living. It leads to abuse of one's self and others. People with low self-esteem are constantly looking for identity. They are trying to find themselves. One's self is not to be found but to be created.Idleness and laziness are consequences of poor self esteem and so is making excuses. Idleness is like rust that eats into the most brilliant metal.
7. Fatalistic Attitude
A fatalistic attitude prevents people from accepting responsibility for their position in life. They attribute success and failure to luck. They resign/escape themselves to their fate. They believed and accept the predestined future written in their effort whatever has to happen will happen. Hence, they never put in any effort and complacency becomes a way of life. They wait for things to happen rather than make them happen.
God Bless You. All to Your Best!
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Why We Fail?
Here are 7 ideas why are they fail:
1. Lack of Persistence
More people fail not because they lack of knowledge or talent but its because they quit. Winners never quit, failure is quitters. The total secret of success lies in two words, persistence and resistance. Persist in what must be done and resist what ought not to be done. When problems seem insurmountable, quitting seems to be the easiest way out...Winners are struck but not destroyed. We all have had setbacks in life. Failing does not mean we are failures. More elaboration on failures, once a while, the challenges may be beyond your capability if you have put extra efforts to strive to be the best, it doesn't mean you failure. It's just matter of experiences and skills. Think positively, learn it & improve it.
2. Lack of Conviction
People who lack of conviction take the middle of the road; and guess what happens in middle of road? You get run over. The roadblock always is obstacles to stop you go ahead further, when you have lack of confidence, you'll stop eventually without realization you have made decision not being to breakthrough it. People without conviction do not take a stand. They go along to get along because they lack confidence and courage. They conform in order to get accepted even when they know that what they are doing is wrong. They behave like part of herd. For instance, a group of 100 talented & potential guys in racing to be successful, how many of them will be succeed? I guess it is just 5% of the group. Why I said, it is the facts. You believe it or not, you can mingle with those losers, they will influence you by one-by-one.
3. Rationalizing
Winners may analyze but never rationalize. That's a loser's game. Loser always have a book full of excuses to tell you why they could not. Winners indeed do not have this kind useless dictionary in their mind. The reason is why they are positive thinker, things happened always look at different point of views in which they'll figured out the solution, it is not evaluate the problems. Some interesting excuses you can hear from them...
- I'm unlucky
- I'm born under the wrong stars
- I'm not good looking
- I'm useless
- I don't have enough money
- The economy is bad
- If only I had the opportunity
- If only I didn't have a family
Monday, September 28, 2009
Think it. Learn it. Do it
You have probably heard this before from leader experts said,"Think it. Learn it. Do it." How many of us with implement this without forcing and pushing? Can you effort to wait until everything in order right after in front of you and then you realized that it extremely important to your life? You whether to wait the time is coming or you just ignore it, it's all about determination.
And of course, I have numerous brilliant to create business opportunities for myself in current economy. Did I dare to challenge every brilliant business idea that I had? It whether should or should not. It looks at your current capabilities on what your strengths or business intelligences. How do you evaluate your own business talents?
View your passed performances. Evaluate it where you have done right and where you have faced the obstacles. Next, take action to implement your great ideas in your minds. Share with your positive groups. Stay away the losers. They will slowly discourage you to give up your ideas with certain unrealistic information. The fact is every idea in your mind, it comes upon you have greater experiences in the industry, you have some inputs which it caused you bring this into the competitive edges. Here is the good example for personal inspiration.
I picked up your book Rich Dad, Poor Dad in August last year. It didn’t take me long to realize that this was exactly what I was looking for at this mid-point in my life journey (I was 47 years old at the time). I had come to a desperate longing to be free from the rat race and to provide a way for my three young sons to become financially literate and independently free in their adulthood. Your vision provided the path.
I would never have believed it, but I am now the owner of three businesses: the painting company I owned prior to entering the Rich Dad Coaching program (my S quadrant business where I work for money), a real estate investment business (I’m about to make my third offer on a piece of property, this one on a multi-family apartment complex), and a family owned investment business.
It’s hard to believe it has been only a bit over 4 months that I have been a part of the Rich Dad family. So much has changed. Most importantly, my way of thinking about the world and money is completely different. It’s very difficult to express in mere words the impact my coach, has had upon me as I’ve ventured into this journey.
We yet have personal mentors to improve the areas which we do not realized so far, however, the time is running, energy still maintained, that should be makes more encouraging and exploring it. Start now, "think it. Learn it. Do it."
Friday, September 25, 2009
Preparing For The Worst
Take it very good example, you're one of the employee who contributed lot of efforts in your current responsibilities, you pay for contribution, that's what your employers demand and employees are contributed. It is the reality. You do not believe me, just use another pretty brilliant example, for instance, the hypermarket nowadays in our country is so demanding, although the standard of living each people also vary and income wise differences, why they still intend to develop more hypermarket in housing areas or developed areas such as bigger city and state.
This is so simple where you understand the people are high demand, as business which trying to fulfill their demand and supplying more outlets and branches. Those are well known giant corporation, they will always conducts number of researches in order to create more opportunities to tap into market and capture more market share. It's sounds challenging during this crisis economy, but those are positive minded businessmen never ever quit before that they have succeeded on their mission has been planned. They, though even preparing for the worst where their planning is failures. Its probably certain circumstances such as market segmentation, market strategy wrongly implemented.
Eventually they have alternatively planning on what they have evaluated to be things across in the middle of the ways as it might be facing numerous challenges. Some leader experts said, " The opportunities is created by human being." I can say, "Never try, Never Know what you implemented. Always remember that, "all of us must get ready to be worst thing occurred, things would not be changes with positive minded."
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Get The Loser Out of You
In our daily challenges, we of course will be facing a number of obstacles in various aspects. How could we look at challenges and get those loser out of us? Whether you lovechallenges , but those are always influences you end up with the loser. The loser is likely "virus" surrounding us, infected and influences us. It's really worst once you've get infected. Some critical issues might be happened where you can expect something that beyond your control. And it's makes totally difference, if you can escape from those losers.
No doubt, our friends among us must be are loser but not at all. Certainly, whether they are or not we do not want them to be loser. Just assume that when you have gathering with them, they're usually give you various negative perspectives which you actually speechless. The main reason you respect your friends. They might be chosen to be loser. Are you in their group? One important thing where you can do is we can try to advice them do not always putting negative minded in yourself. We try not ever do that. You whether choose to mingle with them or you can choose to escape, it's your own choices. I am just thinking that how you evaluate those are winners and losers? Winners do get away from those losers. No one wanted to be loser.
Some people said, "don't ever to get involved in "minor" matters unless you can sure you can win. Pretty awesome, it's truth if you can build such powerful confidence on yourself whatever tasks and responsibility assigned. What am I trying to stress here, please don't underestimated opponents just next to you, you may be not alert, though, we must always prepare to battle against your challenges. Be prepared before the rainy day even though itapply in finance planning, it could be wrong anytime. Just think out of the box and trying to work something expect than you aimed. With this behaviors, you managed whatsoever opponents or loser out of you. You are in control, you must manage your emotional against those negative influences.
"Well, first, you try to get something out of it. Sometimes there is an opening to get a good thing or two out of a bad package. Get that and brag about it. Work hard. Don't pull the rug out from those are helping you, and thank them over and over again And keep cool. Don't whine. And do not get personal with those who beat you. Don't give them the satisfaction." Do you understand that how it gonna works?