Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Why We Fail?

Are you consider yourself as failure? Not at all, don't ever thought we are failure. We guess some time that worst things occurred, we at least prepare the worst will happen against us. Nothing will be take away from you without your permission. Life's is wonderful, though, the challenges are part of essential vital in our life. We can't escape away. I still remembered one weird case had happened to me, I believed that time I was a MLM marketer's who aggressively recruiting as more as agents as my down lines. Thus, I met a potential can be built his own networking base through his powerful leaderships capability and huge friend networking. I asked, "Did you afraid changes? What's in your mind as challenges?" He told me clearly, I have no challenges. That's why I did not afraid changes. If I need to change, I must lost in mind. I was healthy person and mentality control by myself. Why should afraid for?

Here are 7 ideas why are they fail:

1. Lack of Persistence
More people fail not because they lack of knowledge or talent but its because they quit. Winners never quit, failure is quitters. The total secret of success lies in two words, persistence and resistance. Persist in what must be done and resist what ought not to be done. When problems seem insurmountable, quitting seems to be the easiest way out...Winners are struck but not destroyed. We all have had setbacks in life. Failing does not mean we are failures. More elaboration on failures, once a while, the challenges may be beyond your capability if you have put extra efforts to strive to be the best, it doesn't mean you failure. It's just matter of experiences and skills. Think positively, learn it & improve it.

2. Lack of Conviction
People who lack of conviction take the middle of the road; and guess what happens in middle of road? You get run over. The roadblock always is obstacles to stop you go ahead further, when you have lack of confidence, you'll stop eventually without realization you have made decision not being to breakthrough it. People without conviction do not take a stand. They go along to get along because they lack confidence and courage. They conform in order to get accepted even when they know that what they are doing is wrong. They behave like part of herd. For instance, a group of 100 talented & potential guys in racing to be successful, how many of them will be succeed? I guess it is just 5% of the group. Why I said, it is the facts. You believe it or not, you can mingle with those losers, they will influence you by one-by-one.

3. Rationalizing
Winners may analyze but never rationalize. That's a loser's game. Loser always have a book full of excuses to tell you why they could not. Winners indeed do not have this kind useless dictionary in their mind. The reason is why they are positive thinker, things happened always look at different point of views in which they'll figured out the solution, it is not evaluate the problems. Some interesting excuses you can hear from them...
  • I'm unlucky
  • I'm born under the wrong stars
  • I'm not good looking
  • I'm useless
  • I don't have enough money
  • The economy is bad
  • If only I had the opportunity
  • If only I didn't have a family
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