I had encountered very bad situation before, it caused me wanted to give up in my life. However, at that time I only focused on what have done wrongly and do not concentrate on the solutions. When the problem is happened, it meant that was happened, nowhere to improve unless we should think of the solution. I would strongly to advice if you meet some setbacks , refusing to give up and also we should ensure think-out-of-box on what best solution we can implementing where it may be your best strategy.
And of course, we often are facing a number of problem in one day, basically it is common and give you more challenges. Many people look at the problem negatively, they will consider problem always break their emotional down, giving up and never ever absorb what actual problem happens to them. Some people will think the only way we can overcome the problem is to pray with our inner heart in order to overcome all the problems. If I were you, I do not do that at first. The reality is the bigger problem your have, the bigger lesson in your life, try do not ever escape the problem before it solved. We should become problem solving instead of become a coward.
I usually do not trust the problem can not be overcome, it's matter of thoughts in our mind. Thus , I used to solve difference type of problems happened to me, shall I giving up? I don't indeed. I knew I could prove them wrong by giving stubborn, being tenacious , and giving in or giving up. I will definitely become a stronger person very quickly during the time. I should bounce up and somethings are more important rather than this problems.
Leadership expert Peter Drucker says,"The better a man is, the more mistakes he will make, for the more new things he will try. I would never promote to a top-level job a man who was not making mistakes...otherwise he is sure to be mediocre." Mistakes really do pave the road to achievement.
The well famous leadership expert John Maxwell created an acronym of MISTAKES in perspective. Mistakes are..
Messages that give us feedback about life.
Interruptions that should cause us to reflect and think.
Signposts that direct us to the right path.
Tests that push is toward greater maturity.
Awakenings that keeps us in the game mentally.
Keys that we can use to unlock the next door of opportunity.
Explorations that let us journey where we've never been before.
Statements about our development and progress.
You after read this meaningful explanation, I guess no one is never done the mistakes before. I did a lot of big mistakes last time, I realized that every single mistakes which I did, it should gave me a great lesson to myself and i should realised this is what I should not repeat again. Always keep reminder to myself where i kept a lesson file in my memory in order for me to move forward when I am facing any obstacles in upcoming day. Anyway, I should appreciate all the mistakes which I have done.
How to be special & unique? I should do something different as where others don't do it. The moment when I have decided to write this blog, I always ask myself such ways, "What are the purposes of writing this blog?", "Why to do it so?" It is non-profit and wasting your time. Old saying goes, time is precious. Aren't you serious utilize your capacity to maximum your capability? I believe you have hear this quote often, think out of the box. Don't ever limit yourself. The sky is limit.
Here some are the technique I incorporate to allow me generate brilliant ideas.
1. Think of yourself
Always think differently wherever you are in. Feel free to come out with your own conclusion about ideas, process, strategy, achieve the best in the world. Let's the people value of your present. This is when you are ready to be done it differently. Always visualize yourself at the top.
2. Questions Everything
Sometime I ask myself how to become the top in recent position? How am i do it uniquely?Other people don't willing to do it, can't i? For instance, a good example of when you are taking with 2 years boy, is he often ask why? why?why like that? why? Get the picture. It surely out of their curiosity, that's why they are continuing ask some questions. Ask why something is done in a specific way with brilliant plans. Always plan in advance and go extra mile.
3. Everything is a part of solution to something
Am you believe that when yourself given excuses I can't complete it in short period of time? Actual facts is you are not willing to do it. An out of the box thinker, however, sees pieces to different puzzles. When one thing is could not work, how about 2nd try? Failed again, how about 3rd hit? Failed again. Try to think 10 different ways to obtain better result. Don't break the blocks with similar tools, try others to break through it. One thing must remember, Don't be discouraged if you can't think of ten for each. The simple facts that you try is the entire purpose for the exercise. "You do it or you don't, you are always right.
To Be continue....
In your mind, you'll think that how to evaluate between ordinary people with extraordinary people. Don't get me wrong, I just give one good example. The ordinary people who usually are neutral person, no high expectation in their current living, always thoughts setback is their failure, never ever discover the risk, and the most important that they are work for living. At the end of the day, they make sure their pay check is credited to cover all expenses. On the other hand, an extraordinary people who considers dare to take high risk to discover something they think it is worth, to show someone must value their present, treat failure as their great motivator, expect more than they have now, and always searching for golden opportunities to be successful person. I believe that the explanation will be giving more bigger pictures.
I don't mean that the extraordinary people should be either richest person or the millionaire and billionaires. I am trying to stress that their thoughts maybe one step ahead, old saying goes "Prepare an umbrella before raining day"where the ordinary is having neutral thoughts. Thus so far, what are the different between ordinary and extraordinary people? An ordinary people can say they have a great ordinary dad, they learn from their dad through traditionally financial education and perspective of career paths. Ordinary dad advises their children during their school time must study hard when graduated must be get one stable job. He does not encourages to discover for start off the business. Extraordinary dad often said, during school time, they taught you with basic and general education, you must always think out of the box. Setback is not failure, you must make more mistakes to learn the lesson until you can be succeed. Never giving up when you had yet only encountered a few times of failure. Impossible means " I'M POSSIBLE.", rich tycoon quoted.
Could be sounds very familiar to you? I read a brief intro on the Donald trump books, "The trump 101, ways for success..", I deeply love this book very much. Can you just imagine that a guy who read this book in bookstore for whole entire great afternoon, hence he's not even put down this book until finished it. That was Me! How gorgeous of the content to implicate the 101 ways of success in our live. The statement above only one of the topic in the book to stress that we are must set the goal high, we should expect more than we aim for it. We can make people "ooh" &"aah", it's incredible and amazing contents inside to highlight the belief of successful entrepreneur to create miracles when he thinks his has own dreams. Let's makes something never ever happened.
Focus yourself on what you should thinking now. If you are thinking something your interest and enjoy, you are on right track for success. I would consider when we are doing something with 
our own interest, I firmly to say we are happy on what we are doing. Every people may not be understand the rules of life that we should achieve our living on what we are enjoy to do it instead we do it because of we do it. As leadership expert said, don't even pursue a career that others suggest or insist in right for you. At the end of the day, we achieve nothing worth for living. You should set your bars high...let's create unbelievable action against your negative thoughts.
