Thank You - The Ultimate Tool of Success

With only simple words, "thank you" do you believe it gonna to work no matter what you doing and how you do it? WORDS is means no real value when you are not applying at the right time, at the right place. Isn't sound true? We sometime speak , read and talk can be bring no value when they only treat it as WORDS. I, however do urged you that you are so clear how it is mean to somebody when they use to help you without ask for in return and with their sincere heart, so then where your voice in your head is? It keep in your mind but it doesn't come out from your mouth, it's mean nothing. It's building on the bigger point.

"Thank you for being my fan's." "Thank you for your present time". "Thank you for helping me to overcome these problem. " Why we need to say thank you to someone when they help us out? It can means lots of meaning to everyone. Some expert said, it is a vibration to express your appreciation and good emotion carry beyond the sound of voice. The simple of acts to say "thank you", it is positive vibration that even more than our thoughts. you can thought of no saying "thank you" due to you're believe someone can feels through your eyes contact. What's the wrong perception.

Some said "such a simple acts thank you can be saying it is secret sauce." Personally, it tend to bring up some wonderful value when it is using in the right time. Obviously, it is simple but the deem voice can be makes someone happy. I advice to say a word thank you once a day, it gonna works everything out. It will change your thinking and way to see everything in your life's. It's must practice by your heart. Whether it works or not, the simple words from inner heart can be immediate impact to influence among your networking and build excellent images.

Stop Blaming

A article that I have reading a moment ago, it is sounds good but it also bad as well. Have you experienced among your friend that keep blaming that people how bad it is, the person how idiot it is, indeed this financial master said," Always remember that the word of blame comes from the words Be Lame." When you blame some one of your problems, you give the power of the problems to the person your blame. By being lame, you volunteer yourself to be victim. You are the lame victim, they have power to control you.

To difficult explain in details, the overall is being blame some one else, you are finger point to yourself to be lame victim. You being allow yourself to be volunteer as lame victim. I look at these different point of views. How it is? Let me explain my own perception at blaming some else is indirectly you are telling yourself, some one else should take full responsibility on that they have done and chose in their. NOT THEMSELVES. Why people always react like that? it's commonly to know this behavior generally is human behavior in this world.

They will go through this journey even though they have confidence to tell other people, "They're not". It sounds impossible. On the other hand, making people wrong does not make you right, and do diminishes your personal power. The master said, why not immediately to tell yourself, "It is my fault. I must take responsibility." No one can point finger to others, it is their fault. You're completely wrong if you do that frequently. If you ask me now, do you blame others before? And of course, i will tell you, "YES, I DID." I'm always do that when it begins blaming. I guessed that was during my younger stage.

Indeed, when I feel start blaming, i have a powerful illustration in my mind and heart, why should i blame them? Perhaps it was my angers. I really frustrated as what being done by others to me. I then calm down myself and tell the statement, "the more you blaming, the more problems shall be raised. The less pressure of mine, the less blaming I could." Is it sound logical? It is my reaction when I begins my blaming. Some leader experts said, "Take a deep, deep breath. We can breath positively and negatively to give impact to your emotion. It just a simple action, but not many people do it. I tell you honestly it is works. It does helps lot of people to reduce their anger when you have blaming. Often most people hate making mistakes, yet making mistakes is often how we learn. And often when we are angry, that means we have done a mistake that a wise and valuable lesson is available without paying single of cents for personal growth.

The most important, if we simply blame others or ourselves for our mistakes, rather than take responsibility and strive to learn from others, we fail to find the gem of imbedded in the mistakes. The way to overcome this problem in our daily living, if we able to open up our mind, the GEM surely will be appear, the better is even may change your life.

I'm Coming Back Slowly NOT Hard!!!

Hi all, it is quiet sometime I did not post anything on my blog. Some of friends were commented why long time didn't you update your blog, I perhaps might be too lazy to put up my blog, the main reason is you have to write, you must write something. And of course, the most importantly you have to write certain inputs or insights can be shared with others the knowledge and ideas. You will be thinking that it is easy to upload your blog to saying something you know in daily. Yes, i agree with them. No doubt, the blog itself provides umpteen of tools, friendly usage and so forth. That's nothing special nowadays, everyone is knows about the blog.

The main causes are how are you going to share your inputs and experiences as well as what ideas should you post. Some people may expect their blog in one day has heavy traffics, many people do recognised their blogs, by word-of-mouth, they know each others and communicate through Internet. It is flexible for you to indicate other people recognised your efforts and ideas.

Last week, I was driving with my wife to the most famous shopping to look for somethings that we desired long time. Anyway, it was not important. Obviously we were listening the radio which broadcasting a title "You do not expect what will happen, indeed it is happened without your realisation." That's no right and wrong, but the most funniest part was an audience called up and speaking and telling the truth in his personal blog, her voice is soft-spoken, not so confidence, can be considered no so educate.

That's nothing special, isn't it? She said that her blog initially was nobody to knows what it is and who is she, eventually she is writing excellent in mandarin, the major posts are sharing real experiences in her life and what had happened to her in daily. And nothing much and just add-on some creative graphics such as cartoons , cute pictures and cute animation. Do not know why a day of her blog is being bombarded by audiences all over the world, the blog now is one of the most famous blog in Malaysia. I can't tell you which blog and name of the blog, the reason is "I ALSO DID NOT PLAY MUCH ATTENTION" from the beginning of online-casting. Sorry guys, if i have this blog web-address, please log in to my blog and the things you are looking for.

Although she is writing, posting because of her main interest to share her personal ideas as what she has gained in everyday only. You can imagine how powerful of creativity, inspiration and word-of-mouth. It's linked each others, no doubt. Eventually we have good talented or someone does born with full of creativity and imagination, able think out of the box , though we do not realise that it can do it and apply it if you noticed it. Not bad if you have realized some of good talented in your mind, please explore and discover it until you will notice "THE POWERFUL OF CREATIVITY."

For those who really LOVE to save

Eventually, I have an idea to dedicate this special topics to somebody else who very important in my life. However, this topic has been mention to those not only one person, I should be generally and briefly to the public. There are s number of ways to use effectively to save especially money and time. Major people are always stressed they are not enough time and do not have extra cash money to buy their wants and needs.

Indeed, I am learning. At my age now, could be certainly late instead of back to 10 years from now. I did not regret last time what I had done but realized that most important it is right now and future, not looking backward again. Here are some effective ways to save your time & money;

First, when you get your monthly salary, do remind yourself SAVE 10% from your gross salary instead of nett salary because of deduction from Employee Provident Fund(EPF). Not even try to save your 10% money after expenses. It's usually not going to work it at all.

Second, you should always write a list before you spend. It very useful than you got no lists. Do not know which should spend and shouldn't. This is to reduce unnecessarily stuffs during spending. It is also build gorgeous behavior before end up to work for debts.

Further, you may utilize your daily workbook,personal schedule allocation. To ensure you should allocate your time, to make your schedules early 15 mins before you have appointment. Always plan before the appointment day. Nevertheless, you can certainly work out your own ways if you need to share with us.

Last but not least, I have a number of ways to share with you but not now. Nowadays, saving should be starts anytime before you realized later. You maybe can wirte a message to put on the wall and keep reminding yourself everyday.

Ways to Improving memory

I read an interesting articles which released a report on 2001 by The International Longevity Centre who recommended the ways of keeping the mind in good functionality until advanced age. Some of the recommendations are to stay intellectually active through learning, training or reading and to keep physically active so as to promote blood circulation to the brain.

Memory, like musclar strength, is a "use it or lose it" proposition. The more you work out your brain, the better you'll be able to process and remember information.

Here are some execises to try out:-

• Paired associate learning

Learning to associate one specific word with another. For instance, when your are trying to remember a word such as "evaluation",you must learn to say another specific word, such as "result" to tie in the first word. "Result Evaluation". This is called stimulus response.

• Free Recall

Quite tougher. But it works instead of ain't nothing. Study a list of words and then sometime later, try to recall or write down as many words as you can remember.

• Recognition
  

First, remember a list of words or pictures, then try to identify those words or pictures from among a list of alternatives that were not given in the original list.

• Pay Attention

You can't remember something if you never learned it, and you can't learn something, if you don't pay enough attention to it. So, no multitasking when you need to concentrate.

• Organize Information

Write things down in address books and datebooks and on calendar; take notes on more complex material and recognise the notes into categories later.