Why We Fail? (Part Two)

4. Not Learning from past Mistakes
Some people live and learn, and some only live. Wise people learn from their mistakes. People who do not learn lessons form history are doomed. Failure is a teacher if we have the right attitude. Failure is a detour, not a dead end. it is a delay, not a defeat. Experience is the name we give to our mistakes. As quoted, "the past performance is not guarantee for future result." Although it may sound inspired, but you must consistently your perseverance to maintain the best performances. Learn whatever you think it is new to you, new things bring you new experiences.

5. Lack of Discipline
Anyone who has accomplished anything worthwhile has never done so without discipline. Discipline takes self-control, sacrifice, and avoiding distractions and temptations. It means staying focused. Steam does not move the engine unless it is confined. Niagara Falls would not generate power unless it were harnessed. You whether can be thinking the discipline does important to everyone of us, indeed, it extremely important. Look at your daily practising on your financial planning, if without any discipline, you sure will lost control. Nobody can be guided you unless yourself. Monitoring well financial education is to ensure that you can allocate your expenses more wisely, despite that you may also to learn with some financial experts to generate how shall we obtain financial freedom.

6. Poor Self-Esteem
It is a lack of self-respect and self-worth. As I mentioned in earlier, self confidence is required for us to step one further to aim our mission. It links with each other. It tend to understand that it could be caused you to succeed in your paths living. It leads to abuse of one's self and others. People with low self-esteem are constantly looking for identity. They are trying to find themselves. One's self is not to be found but to be created.Idleness and laziness are consequences of poor self esteem and so is making excuses. Idleness is like rust that eats into the most brilliant metal.

7. Fatalistic Attitude
A fatalistic attitude prevents people from accepting responsibility for their position in life. They attribute success and failure to luck. They resign/escape themselves to their fate. They believed and accept the predestined future written in their effort whatever has to happen will happen. Hence, they never put in any effort and complacency becomes a way of life. They wait for things to happen rather than make them happen.

God Bless You. All to Your Best!

Why We Fail?

Are you consider yourself as failure? Not at all, don't ever thought we are failure. We guess some time that worst things occurred, we at least prepare the worst will happen against us. Nothing will be take away from you without your permission. Life's is wonderful, though, the challenges are part of essential vital in our life. We can't escape away. I still remembered one weird case had happened to me, I believed that time I was a MLM marketer's who aggressively recruiting as more as agents as my down lines. Thus, I met a potential can be built his own networking base through his powerful leaderships capability and huge friend networking. I asked, "Did you afraid changes? What's in your mind as challenges?" He told me clearly, I have no challenges. That's why I did not afraid changes. If I need to change, I must lost in mind. I was healthy person and mentality control by myself. Why should afraid for?

Here are 7 ideas why are they fail:

1. Lack of Persistence
More people fail not because they lack of knowledge or talent but its because they quit. Winners never quit, failure is quitters. The total secret of success lies in two words, persistence and resistance. Persist in what must be done and resist what ought not to be done. When problems seem insurmountable, quitting seems to be the easiest way out...Winners are struck but not destroyed. We all have had setbacks in life. Failing does not mean we are failures. More elaboration on failures, once a while, the challenges may be beyond your capability if you have put extra efforts to strive to be the best, it doesn't mean you failure. It's just matter of experiences and skills. Think positively, learn it & improve it.

2. Lack of Conviction
People who lack of conviction take the middle of the road; and guess what happens in middle of road? You get run over. The roadblock always is obstacles to stop you go ahead further, when you have lack of confidence, you'll stop eventually without realization you have made decision not being to breakthrough it. People without conviction do not take a stand. They go along to get along because they lack confidence and courage. They conform in order to get accepted even when they know that what they are doing is wrong. They behave like part of herd. For instance, a group of 100 talented & potential guys in racing to be successful, how many of them will be succeed? I guess it is just 5% of the group. Why I said, it is the facts. You believe it or not, you can mingle with those losers, they will influence you by one-by-one.

3. Rationalizing
Winners may analyze but never rationalize. That's a loser's game. Loser always have a book full of excuses to tell you why they could not. Winners indeed do not have this kind useless dictionary in their mind. The reason is why they are positive thinker, things happened always look at different point of views in which they'll figured out the solution, it is not evaluate the problems. Some interesting excuses you can hear from them...

• I'm unlucky
• I'm born under the wrong stars
• I'm not good looking
• I'm useless
• I don't have enough money
• The economy is bad
• If only I had the opportunity
• If only I didn't have a family

Don't miss out, to be continue...

Think it. Learn it. Do it

You have probably heard this before from leader experts said,"Think it. Learn it. Do it." How many of us with implement this without forcing and pushing? Can you effort to wait until everything in order right after in front of you and then you realized that it extremely important to your life? You whether to wait the time is coming or you just ignore it, it's all about determination.

And of course, I have numerous brilliant to create business opportunities for myself in current economy. Did I dare to challenge every brilliant business idea that I had? It whether should or should not. It looks at your current capabilities on what your strengths or business intelligences. How do you evaluate your own business talents?

View your passed performances. Evaluate it where you have done right and where you have faced the obstacles. Next, take action to implement your great ideas in your minds. Share with your positive groups. Stay away the losers. They will slowly discourage you to give up your ideas with certain unrealistic information. The fact is every idea in your mind, it comes upon you have greater experiences in the industry, you have some inputs which it caused you bring this into the competitive edges. Here is the good example for personal inspiration.

I picked up your book Rich Dad, Poor Dad in August last year. It didn’t take me long to realize that this was exactly what I was looking for at this mid-point in my life journey (I was 47 years old at the time). I had come to a desperate longing to be free from the rat race and to provide a way for my three young sons to become financially literate and independently free in their adulthood. Your vision provided the path.

I would never have believed it, but I am now the owner of three businesses: the painting company I owned prior to entering the Rich Dad Coaching program (my S quadrant business where I work for money), a real estate investment business (I’m about to make my third offer on a piece of property, this one on a multi-family apartment complex), and a family owned investment business.

It’s hard to believe it has been only a bit over 4 months that I have been a part of the Rich Dad family. So much has changed. Most importantly, my way of thinking about the world and money is completely different. It’s very difficult to express in mere words the impact my coach, has had upon me as I’ve ventured into this journey.

We yet have personal mentors to improve the areas which we do not realized so far, however, the time is running, energy still maintained, that should be makes more encouraging and exploring it. Start now, "think it. Learn it. Do it."

Preparing For The Worst

Some people may be not really alert what is happening in the current market now, do you take any initiatives to understand what type of disease we are having now? Indeed, I should let you know that we are in the economy crisis stage. Don't you believe it or not, you must accept it. You look at surrounding atmosphere especially economy extent and country development are getting less and slow. What I am trying to stress here, it basically no development, no growth, it means no cash flow in market as well as no demand and supply. Whatever you have now, it caused of all the rules of thumb on demand and supply.

Take it very good example, you're one of the employee who contributed lot of efforts in your current responsibilities, you pay for contribution, that's what your employers demand and employees are contributed. It is the reality. You do not believe me, just use another pretty brilliant example, for instance, the hypermarket nowadays in our country is so demanding, although the standard of living each people also vary and income wise differences, why they still intend to develop more hypermarket in housing areas or developed areas such as bigger city and state.

This is so simple where you understand the people are high demand, as business which trying to fulfill their demand and supplying more outlets and branches. Those are well known giant corporation, they will always conducts number of researches in order to create more opportunities to tap into market and capture more market share. It's sounds challenging during this crisis economy, but those are positive minded businessmen never ever quit before that they have succeeded on their mission has been planned. They, though even preparing for the worst where their planning is failures. Its probably certain circumstances such as market segmentation, market strategy wrongly implemented.

Eventually they have alternatively planning on what they have evaluated to be things across in the middle of the ways as it might be facing numerous challenges. Some leader experts said, " The opportunities is created by human being." I can say, "Never try, Never Know what you implemented. Always remember that, "all of us must get ready to be worst thing occurred, things would not be changes with positive minded."

Get The Loser Out of You

In our daily challenges, we of course will be facing a number of obstacles in various aspects. How could we look at challenges and get those loser out of us? Whether you lovechallenges , but those are always influences you end up with the loser. The loser is likely "virus" surrounding us, infected and influences us. It's really worst once you've get infected. Some critical issues might be happened where you can expect something that beyond your control. And it's makes totally difference, if you can escape from those losers.

No doubt, our friends among us must be are loser but not at all. Certainly, whether they are or not we do not want them to be loser. Just assume that when you have gathering with them, they're usually give you various negative perspectives which you actually speechless. The main reason you respect your friends. They might be chosen to be loser. Are you in their group? One important thing where you can do is we can try to advice them do not always putting negative minded in yourself. We try not ever do that. You whether choose to mingle with them or you can choose to escape, it's your own choices. I am just thinking that how you evaluate those are winners and losers? Winners do get away from those losers. No one wanted to be loser.

Some people said, "don't ever to get involved in "minor" matters unless you can sure you can win. Pretty awesome, it's truth if you can build such powerful confidence on yourself whatever tasks and responsibility assigned. What am I trying to stress here, please don't underestimated opponents just next to you, you may be not alert, though, we must always prepare to battle against your challenges. Be prepared before the rainy day even though itapply in finance planning, it could be wrong anytime. Just think out of the box and trying to work something expect than you aimed. With this behaviors, you managed whatsoever opponents or loser out of you. You are in control, you must manage your emotional against those negative influences.

"Well, first, you try to get something out of it. Sometimes there is an opening to get a good thing or two out of a bad package. Get that and brag about it. Work hard. Don't pull the rug out from those are helping you, and thank them over and over again And keep cool. Don't whine. And do not get personal with those who beat you. Don't give them the satisfaction." Do you understand that how it gonna works?

Going Back to Our Fundamentals

Everyone of us maybe expected more than we have planned. It's commonly truth where each of us has different expectation on what we have aimed in earlier. Though, we have thought that shall we going back to our fundamentals of every single achievement that we have done. Our foundations are much important rather than we thoughts that we are smart in certain areas where other people do not possess with this kind of strengths. I still remembered that when I have a goal to improve my communication, I persist and perseverance. Every toughest challenges never ever break me down. I looked at the challenges maybe not as hard as I thoughts. If pretty good if we have challenging, we know where we have done good, which evaluate every single setbacks how to overcome it and maintained the peak performances.

For example, I have been criticism by my ex-respected lecturers during face-to-face conversation. He strongly meant my English should be improved, if not the way where I communicate with him, he got headaches. Pretty upset, right? If you were me, how did you react that time with small group of people where their mind thoughts you're weak. I believed my foundations were weak. I should start with my foundation and fundamentals are important before you end up yourself do not understand how to start. I began with communication, whatever people I have seen, met and I used to communicate with them in English.

A good or poor doesn't pull me down caused I have aimed to be improved and proven them are wrong. It's truly tougher on what the beginning many people did not accept when talked with them in English. I have many choices to polish up my languages, I often met those lecturers are speaking in English, as the result, I met my respected mentor, Mr. Bryan Lo. He did encourage me to speak with him, write to him, and involved in numerous activities to improving my language. At the end, I still received some negative feedback by surrounding people of mine. But I only posses with this attitude, the fundamental is to make more practises until you make perfect.

Furthermore, I have went to corporate stages very fast, even I expected and then the result out of my expectation. But old people often said, "the faster you go up, the faster you will fall down." Due to my fundamentals still not strong enough, I worked beyond my management capabilities. It's really embarrassed me those action and worst behaviors implemented. I knew every fundamental movement is essential to bring yourself next stages. Why I did not realized in earlier stage? it caused me until I have end up by some worst mistakes I had have done. Last but not least, the world is changing rapidly as out of our expectation, though, the fundamentals are essential for us to obtain better achievement, instead of applying the wrong strategy caused us to start with bottom stages again.

Prediction is very difficult, especially if it's all the Future!

Look at the current development in our country, we usually find certain changes from day-to-day instead changes in daytime or overnight. It definitely some changes can be done in a day, such as your attitudes, behaviors and characters. What I am addressing here that we able to make our life's more interesting where to explore one things beyond our capability, before it makes our lives so boring.

And of course, changes is difficult but you don change it , you will be losing the track and unable to core with current market development. I believe everyone of us alert the climate changes nowadays, it fast moving and heading to journey where we should change it before we will at the end tend to be old folks whom lacking information, lack of skills as well as improvement. It pretty upset some of them among our networking, you can observed that they are moving faster rather than someone does remained the same foot.

The most awareness you have, the faster movement you can ahead on the new journey and new discovery. You may not understand me what you should change? Let's go deep into the topic in which you have stressed today. Prediction is something where you have foresee something will be happened, the upcoming new trends and new improvement. Everything are changing so fast. Let's take it good example, the corporate ladders like those top management people, they are improving in terms of corporate communication, interpersonal skills, new knowledge and so forth.

Why they alert of these? Well, you may seem number of top ladder white collars will be taking numerous of courses to enhance their capabilities, they also even never underestimate. Successful people never ever feared to change. They predict something will be going to change, they assume better than they yet not awake from their comfort zone itself. Furthermore, they forecast themselves in near future, the corporation maybe required those are skillful & knowledgeable to adopt the economy growth which changing onwards with internal and external sources enforcement to be improving yourself.

It's truth, prediction is much difficult, what you guessed the prediction is tend will be happening in near future, would be worthwhile to change your current position rather than those are sleeping cats never improved themselves, staying in comfort zone and feared of changed. I urge you that the questions in your mind right now, what and where should I change and improve, it doesn't matter what are you, who are you, now you just thinking of we change for future, good preparation is for future adoption, if we plan to fail, you indeed fail to plan. War is begins, if you stop to learn, you'll stop to grow.

Celebration Party

I believe myself do not joining any party since it was couple of months ago. If you're thinking whether I love this type of occasion, i would say myself cordially to join the event with joyous one. Would not you instead of me? I think someone maybe not interested that to joining this kind of event caused of the atmosphere where you find not comfortable.

Indeed, among my small group of colleagues do not intend involved themselves with these event. With certain extent, the characters of human being totally vary on the pattern of behaviors. everyone could be thoughts differently when they are invited to attend this kind of events. Party basically is as simple as we think, no difficult to plan for gorgeous party, it just process of arranging how makes the party can be make our memory everlasting. The simple ways to make one gorgeous party as follows:

1. Prepare a list of guest of honors
In order to wasting our time to think of who should be invited, we must prepare a list of invitation names for separately categorised every single of group people. That's why the reason of the party must be have VVIP,VIP and etc.

2. Party Decorations
Lot of decoration must in place where to make that particularly place more fabulous and exciting. An atmosphere where it able to create excellent impression, it will be worth to sacrifice your sources and energy. Time is most concern for everyone when having party. We must allocate some portions of expenses to prepare the in-house party.

3. Invitation cards
To express your deeper appreciation to attending your party's, your express words would be important tools to impress our sincere to invite them to come over your memorable party. With such powerful invitation words, "you are cordially invited to make the occasion to joyous one." You're thinking it sounds complicated, indeed it strongly important to create 1st impression for your guest that you're really sincere to invite them to your joyous party.

4. Budget allocation
Some hidden costs may be incurred where you have planned in earlier stage. Due to some courses, you must thoughts what's the bottom line expenses you can spend, the budget which you allocate under your control, you must in control every expenses. You must spend within your budgets. All officially receipts expenses must file in place where you can calculating full details and creates the work sheet to be use in upcoming event.

HOME....

How to definite such term in your own dictionary? In fact, it will have billions of difference definition in our thoughts. In my mind, I defined it as the place where I can found comfortable, warm, stressful reduced and happiness. Without home, I only find my life is not worth living and boring life.

Like such definition, "Home is the one place in all this world where hearts are sure of each other. It is the place of confidence. It is the place where we tear off that mask of guarded and suspicious coldness which the world forces us to wear in self-defense, and where we pour out the unreserved communications of full and confiding hearts. It is the spot where expressions of tenderness gush out without any sensation of awkwardness and without any dread of ridicule."~Frederick W. Robertson

"One's home is like a delicious piece of pie you order in a restaurant on a country road one cozy evening - the best piece of pie you have ever eaten in your life - and can never find again. After you leave home, you may find yourself feeling homesick, even if you have a new home that has nicer wallpaper and a more efficient dishwasher than the home in which you grew up. ~Lemony Snicket

As you read through those are experts often have their difference point of views. How about you? I'm thinking how should I look at home as place where can allow us to find our happiness and joyful as well as cheerful. When I was aged 10, I recalled some wonderful events had been underwent. I can recalled the exactly where the happiness can be found again. I am indeed trying thoughts some greatest experiences I had been gone through. Until now, have no idea at all. What this occurred to me? Would be possible you were the same situation as me? Try your level of best never ever demotivate yourself, you should proud of yourself to grow with full of healthy and happiness. A person who also addressed, "there is nothing staying at home for real comfort." Questions in your mind now, is it the only place I can find my comfort zone? Hopefully it's not totally ruined your mind when you also have similar feeling with me instead.

Have you how long did you go back to home monthly? The above on what you have indicated it doesn't matter you should understand the definition, the most important is all about your thoughts in your inner heart.

Argument Always Comes with Clear Understanding

Traditionally many people said,' how to win more arguments' or 'how to fight with effectively argument', but to me that the better argument always comes with more understanding. The more you understand, you may know your opponents before attack more valuable information to fact that your arguments are giving better advices and ideas. There could be helpful for each of the problem occurred. For instance, recently I have encountered a weird case which related to my jobs. I am handling various type of patterns customer currently especially they are from China. Every customer has their business pattern to running thir business with us.

Some successful business people always urged us that we should putting 10x times effort to manage the China customer before your business get into the drain. What happened with this value customer for being complaint us that we have mismanaged the products. To what certain extent, I usually will get rectify the problems before to handle up over it to top management to finalised the decision. Due to miscommunication between me & customer, I can't really blame myself and my colleagues. The main reason is we didn't proof any with business letter and agreement.

We have keep nothing. And we expected initially it started smooth from production to shipment, you are actually fighting against the argument which has been rose by customer end of the day. We have done mistakes where we keep nothing to show it both parties have agreed. We, however, are mismanaged the information. This is on what initially we should expected happened after things have in order. I was not bad too, I was trying to figure out the statement which the customer's has been agreed. Nothing extra and proven the statement end up to argument. Do you think it is my fault? Something did and something did not. I found the problem was the communication between me & my colleague's. Nevertheless, she also alert that the problem had raised where we must look at the solution instead of the problems.

Marketing terms, "the customer is always right." What else in your mind now? I don't mean I am correct and customer's given misused information. I of course was arguing with customer on the information provided has not accurate on what we received. I just wish more understand what actually happened on this problem. To solve the problem, we must understand the whole exact problem that we faced.

Are You A loser?

Would you want to be a loser ever in your entire life? I assume you are totally not. Who wanted to become a loser? Take a very short break, ask anyone does next to you,"Are you a loser?" What actually the answer you are looking for, it really sounds ridiculous. I would strongly say the person who you have asked they will immediately revert their reply to you and said, "What the Fxxking idiot ask such question, what do you expect the answer from me, Bast xxx!" Nobody will give you the answer in your mind.

I can predict that every single person will refused to giving the exact answer in their mind or heart. It's sounds common sense, anyone of you wanted to be loser? I can look into this statement aggressively, the reason will be caused of the person who actually does not wanted to become a loser although they have staying in tough living and challenging life. They feared to change. Through certain research conducted, there is measurement between a loser and a winner, one of the factor was fear. Loser can't managed their fear. Winners do. Losers understand that no one choose to be failure. Perhaps they are not as strong as you think. In particularly their behaviors and attitudes maybe in negativity perspectives in their life, especially their career paths, they usually have difference point of views.

What do you do next? Try to start with positive thinking. We must posses with powerful positive minded to obtain our achievements which it seen has been organized. Our thoughts extremely are essential to look every challenges and obstacles in positive ways. Its, though, they are considered setback for you to grow and pull you down most of time. Don't hang with these toxic people. Stay far away from them before you're end up one of the member in their failure clubs.

We sometimes will think of giving up when faced number of setbacks, it's basically truth for everyone. Losers do giving up easily, but winners are not. They have feared no matter small or big problems, they're looking at problems but it's not solution. Winners find solution, not find problems in problems instead.

A winner is never idle so keep that in mind and forget boredom. Losers always use bored as their excuses. Breakthrough your bad behaviors. The worst thing is the excuses are your failures. Hence, the beginning you may not realized until it has came across in your mind, it slowly will change your behaviors. Losers do not organized their problems, but winner does. They will find some interesting things in their life to escape their boredom.

Now, you are determined by yourself. Who are you, a loser or a winner?

Isn't Real Estate Is A Bad Investment?

Let's share with you and wish has no obligation on it, this is a stupid question!!! What can you feel if someone does says to you likely? My opinion is that is not right or wrong, you can choose to be wrong as well as you can choose it is extremely correct. It's part of criticism. Whether you like it or not, we live in real estate business. Look at your surrounding house areas, it basically full of properties, huge lands, luxury business commercial, and number of properties in your home living. You're indirectly involved in real estate.

Everyone does understand what is real estate. But the main question is how we can invest real estate? If you don't know all about real estate, it must be you are still staying in dinosaur century, no technology and absolutely lack of informative interest on certain areas especially in real estate, though, the money is actually flowing in the market or somewhere. Where is your money is flowing somewhere? You might find somewhere that more secure, save and stable ways to ensure your hard money should not be lost easily and the money have gone nowhere.

With current tough situation, we should learn how to reorganize your financial question by well managed before we have lost. Thus so far, we of course seldom accepted their criticism. I do believe it maybe of fear to change. What would you do with your large money of cash? How do you plan forward? Buy real estate or start investing to real estate? The information here is basically it's not to discourage you, criticism you or underestimate your capability, it mainly share how does someone able to generate luxury income without taking high risk and good profit return. And we alert there are numerous channels to generate passive incomes and provide secure financial monitoring in sense of they are protecting your money with professional advices to venture it right channels of low risk and high margins. It sounds possible, it may works.

To match these entire topic for a day, I love these statement in which, "God gave us two eyes, two ears and one mouth. That's because God designed us to learn by listening and obseving instead of talking. Rather than use your moutn speak in statments, use your mouth to ask question, the shut up, watch and listen. You will become smarter, brilliant, richer and more in control if you adopt the habit of asking questions rather than talking."

When You're Out of Curiousity

Some people do want to know more when things turn out curiously, why not you? Do you have high degree of curiosity? I wish you do. When you do not have, I believe you definitely shall missing out on the most important to fulfilling your dreams and goals. Many things turn out with faster speed, without further realization on what it is happening, you will leave behind the track. What I am trying to say that things can be anything such as career, couple relationships, dreams, goals and many things in our living.

It does a difference by just out of curiosity. Furthermore, you lack this interest, you stay no M.E.A.Ningful in your life's. You may not agreed with me that what I am trying to highlight we should curiosity in what happening to us, it's difficult to build this interest but it's truly essential to feeling good. When things are totally new to us, we expect everyday must be learned something new. New learning, new improvement. That's mainly purpose why everyone of us must posses curiosity behavior.

On the other hand, lack of curiosity may caused us the information gained should be less, inaccurate and the worst can killing your joys. When we can understanding more than we expected, this is particularly enhance our knowledge especially the information has collected. These could be more valuable. Some people reluctant to being possess of curiosity behavior, they usually will know nothing rather than others are possess with their right attitude of curiosity. It just being to understand more, you can't foresee and expecting.

Start building your curiosity muscle and bring it back from the atrophy of neglect. We all have the ability to be curious, just watch any small child. We were that child once. Like any new habit it takes consistency to build it up. So, start with 5 minutes a day and take the curious approach to something.