Learn How To Turn Bad Luck Into Good Luck

How many of you trust the luck? Either bad luck or good luck, would you underestimate yourself? or live under your means?

I perhaps do not trust luck most of time but sometime I do. When you have concentrate your luck where you'll face the bad situation, you are only trust luck. Have you ever think that luck almost likes the clues to aspire you? When good things turn to bad, you maybe say "I am very bad luck." The things even from worst turn into out of your expectation, you'll say "I am so lucky. Lucky me."

Let's learn discover how to turn bad luck into good luck. I have discovered one things which I did not realized that it's being out of my expectation. I was thinking maybe it was just luck. I did recall when I was almost awake from my bed, I did receive a message from one of my ex-value customer when I was a real estate agent. I was hardly selling. It's not simple job. I guessed when the thing goes smooth, it doesn't mean nothing will happen. It's surprised me that I can sold a house value worth almost RM500k.

The message addressed a landlord was planning to sell his property with good price. I was convinced her to assign me as exclusive agent. The only agent entitlement to sell her property. She said the condition is sell it within 3 months period. If not, she'll open for to the rest of agents. What's the ridiculous condition. It's very hard to sell in the short period of time during crisis economy in our country. It's more than surprising, I able to sell within 2 1/2 months. Did you think I have luck? You're basically wrong. My luck was truly deeply narrow down after I was turn up with no choice to become real estate agent. I notice that there is no way that you can say,"I have no choice", obviously it's wrong. That period of my worst time, I able to turn bad luck into good luck with my positive thinking, always think you can turn the negative into the positive. You should not ever try you only can work your best out, you must learn how to learn from mistakes and think out of the bigger box.

Winner's thinks a step forward than ordinary people. Let's keep your foot to strive to be the best and overcome all the bad lucks which you keeps think of, You've STOP now. The more bad luck you face, the more lesson you learn. After you've done, we can say," Thank you, you're always grow me up."

Work Hard at Work Smart

Here are 3 quick and easy ways to help you work hard at working smart everyday. If you take the time to make these tips a habit, you’ll find yourself achieving your goals much quicker.

1. Work hard at being more adaptable to changes.

Remember that every change that comes your way gives you an opportunity to move ahead of those that won’t or can’t adapt to sudden change. In life they say the only guarantees are death and taxes. I would like to add a third item and that is CHANGE. Try to be the first to learn and adapt to new changes in your industry, in new technologies and new techniques.

2. Work hard at looking for shortcuts in everything you do.

Always be alert to easier more efficient ways of doing your routine task. Can you cut out, reduce, speed-up or combine steps - without sacrificing effectiveness? Don’t fall in the habit of doing routine task with a routine attitude. Stay alert to the possibility of doing it in a different way. Think outside the box if it can save you time, money or frustration .

3. Work hard at thinking ahead as much as possible.

The best chess players always think one move ahead. You should always try to do the same. Prepare yourself mentally before you act physically. This alone will help you avoid wasting time and making costly mistakes. The best athletes establish the habit of anticipating there next move ahead of time. The best quarterbacks know what they’ll do if they’re primary receiver falls down.

It is my hope that these 3 tips will inspire you to think of more ways you can work hard at working smart. The benefits and satisfaction will be well worth your time and effort.

Blaming Not Learning

As leadership expert, an author of Rich Dad & Poor Dad has addressed this statement on the new publishing book, I found very amazing that this is can be considers the best statement for current employees. Among of our colleagues, we always can listen their blaming and pin-point somebody fault although they think they know and done correctly most of time.

I can still remember a few words from one of local speaker stressed that, "when you use your fingers point somebody because of their fault, the real is you have finger point on yourself with 3 fingers." How do your judge someone you ever do not know? I only noticed that there is no wrong or right, but indeed it is only good or bad. I mean here when someone has made mistakes, it also need to view the pictures either they is a good solution to solve or there is maybe some solution can figure out, it doesn't mean the mistakes can't be overcome. Doesn't it sound logic and clearer pictures?

For me, I can see the problems are the challenges to myself. I'll treat it as learning paths. Nobody can teach you the lesson unless you must admit and learn your mistakes and also you must ensure you are not repeat your mistakes again. Never ever blame somebody while you have not learn at all. The best option is learn from their mistakes, regardless whatever mistakes has been made, it is still a cycle of learning for moving forward to have good undertaking in near future.

Are you still Dreaming?

Have you ever dream to work when it is the weekend? I personally had this kind of experience. It's pretty fun when the person who next to you wake up the bed during the weekend, he or she will tell you, "please wake up. Time to work". And then, he/she will realise that TODAY IS A SUNDAY after their refresh their mind.

Does he/she sound hardworking? We should learn from the good example. Does it sound interesting to know who's the person of this story? I perhaps do not tell you the truth. I wish you can understand my reason. I think many of us have experience some of sort of crazy and funky funny actions while you are lay on the bed. Honestly speaking, it was my first and ever experience. I feel very funny. I even laugh when I still mid of sleep. I guess this is not funny story to you. For me, it does.

After she realized that she had done something out of her expectation, she's keep laughing non-stop. So do I. I know she feel shameful for what she has done. I know she having much pressure of her daily tasks in the office. She share with me that everyday she is tighten with many tasks which reasonable to finish but you must concentrate what you have doing. She used done the mistakes but she indeed learned the value lesson. I have confidence she always can overcome the stress no matter how heavy of the tasks and responsibilities.

Last but not least, she is always my "superwoman".

They think, They Know

When I highlighted this theme, I can guess everyone of us maybe know something and probably not everything. Are you sure you know something that I even don't know? Perhaps it does.

I had the great lesson last weekend when I was visiting an exhibition about the Home Decoration Fair in famous shopping complex in klang Valley. In that event itself, it also organized a seminar for the public awareness. It was such common to me. The seminar indeed was difference especially they were not only create awareness but they used taught and shared the knowledge to public. It was cost free. Anyone can attend.

For me, it pretty sound weird when only a small group of people was sitting at the beginning, after a moment all visitors were attracted by the speaker whom from one of the recognize property mastery firm in the country. He used to be a student of the successful property investor in the market. She calls Renesial Leong. She succeed when the first property has been brought her with nett margin RM70.00 only. But she now own with property worth more than 20 million throughout the world(expected more or less).

The most attractive information caught my attention was the topic called, "They think, They Know"... he has addressed a number of value inputs to us. The summary of the seminar was, they have conducted survey that the investor always thinks they know more than what the other investor does not alert and aware, but they still manage having huge lost with a number of properties without large profit margin at the end. Why does it happen? It's totally unrealistic, isn't it? They failure. Failure with using wrong strategies investment. They Think, They Know....

Great Talent + Good Attitude = Great Team

What I understood about the statement meant the good ability plus good attitude, it will perform GREAT TEAM. Do you agree with the statement? Perhaps it does. In this competitive edge technology nowadays, every single corporation try to stengthen up their employees ability & attitude. Hence, they have conducting external team building training, various of enhancement interpersonal skill for every employee. In order to maintain competitive corporation in this advance market, workshops and trainings are in need and well monitored.

I agree with the statement, there are few things can be discussing here. First, when you bring in great talent person to assign for right position, and then with good attitude as well as well contribution to corporation, I can imagine that the corporation is moving forward to next level. When attitude go up, so does potential of the team or vice verse.

Second, whee we compile with 2 extremely good characters together, I firmly believe the corporation able to yield with good result. Its so called it is mainly objectives of organization. Also when someone has been done silly mistakes, it also can increase their team work spirit to help each other when something goes wrong. Individual must understand none of us as smart as all of us. I meant that everyone of us has difference strengthens and weakness, yet when every team player able to work out their talent, and of course perfect and gorgeous team created.

Walking Your Talk

In my life, I strongly believe myself have been committed a number of things, and then I guess, "how many things had been achieved? I then further with setting many objectives wanna to do it soon. It's all about commitment. I reveal myself, how do you go about this? I must know what I want. Some people can't understand what they need. Leadership expert said, "95% of people do not know what they want, they suffer. And it's only 5% of people achieve their wealth life."

Which one category you desire? I wish myself also one of the 5% people. It's must go through long journey from right now. In order to achieve the commitment which I committed last time, I am sure it could be happen soon. I must breakthrough the obstacles, figure out the innovation direction before end up to the group of 95% people.

I observe nowadays many friend of mine always thinking conservative, negative and so forth. How about myself? Should I become follower? I shouldn't. I am doer's. I have to do what I wanna to do. "No one can make you feel inferior wihtout your permission."

You Stop Learning, You Stop Growing

A leadership expert, ken Blanchard has been addressed this quote when I was reading his book last week ago. It gives me some inputs especially my personal development, learning and self confidence as well. With my strong inputs that can be pushing me move forward before remain my current move. I think I have long time did not plan for my self-development. How long did i? It's really almost 3 years. I have nothing and with only a bulk of my mistakes. It takes me away on the track with no motivation and with full of laziness. I need start from beginning again. It takes me a lot of time to rebound again. Should I give up?

I strongly believe, I would not give up easily. I think currently I am moving very fast to achieve what I have being dream for long time. It' s really help me out. I can use this inspiring quote as motivate me from day to day. You Stop learning, you'll get a piece of shit(mean get nothing at all).
I know current situation with my financial support, it's my strong obstacles, my setbacks. I have to plan carefully before get trapped to financial difficulties.

And next move from what I plan in earlier, I manage to figure out the best solution to overcome my problem. I love myself now. Don't you think we always do not love ourself? I used to hate myself last time. I knew it's truly bad thinking. The reason that I was a negative person last time. How about nowadays? I can tell you now, I am not anymore. I am strong with positive thinking, gorgoues guy and strong inspiration.

The more rejection, the more you learn

When you face the rejection, do you feel upset for all the effort what you have done? Not really. I extremely believe that everyone of us insist different point of view when some of them maybe think rejection is one of learning path, some of them maybe think rejection is a good lesson. Different people, of course consist of difference ideas and comments.

I should consider myself, a person who never ever escape away from the rejection. I love rejection. I love criticism. I understand that every lesson which I learn, there is no way to improve except you must admit your mistakes and using 3 letter words, "I am sorry." Most of time I always do that and never ever deny my mistakes. In uncertain time, you maybe are thinking you are right, indeed you are wrong. When you fight back, there is still remains no change.

I have been criticism and being rejected by my lecturer during my university life. I was shocked. Nobody understand what I felt that time. It was like your confidence scroll down, and again and deeply, no bounce back, no confidence at all. Did i give up? I can tell you now, I never and ever. I told myself, I must improve, I must admit my mistakes, I want to proof him that I am difference person. After 1 year, I was doing my group presentation, he was like so impressed. He looked unbelievable. What's the biggest achievement I have ever done. I know I am not the best, but I can tell you, "I am the right person who you're looking for."

Things not worth doing are not worth doing well

Before we have stepping forward, we need to identify things done it correctly and worth doing well. On the other hand, we ensure once we move back and able can view bigger pictures. It is make sure the important things are not pushed out of the way by urgent needs of the moment.

In addition, we can evaluate everything what it is important or not. For instance, when you think of the things are important to you, you must spend time to do it. And then the things are worth doing. There is a way to check everyday by asking, " Have I done what is really important today?"

Sound pretty interesting? Perhaps each of you have your own idea. It is so called we must understand our priority,our important tasks and responsibilities. If you are aware from day to day, you won't pushed out the way by urgent needs of the moment.

I still remember my guru's taught me one thing, " Prioritize your things, never ever do things are not worth doing." In this lesson, I only learned after realized I have repeated the mistakes. I almost spend everyday to understand that how to prioritize your things.

The happiest things happen in my life

I today find a very interesting things happen in my life. I don't have this kind of feeling since long time ago. This is what makes me very happy today.

I was told by my mum last night on the news for pursuing the post graduate programmes under private institutions can be applying loan from certain of financial institutions. They have allocate portion for the students to encourage them to pursue post-graduate programme. I am quite surprise because of my dreams almost had been come true, If I do really persist. I know I can make it without any distraction. I don't expect the setbacks can turn to failure. I want to breakthrough to my life.

I have long time do not feel so excited when I have planned for a couple years ago. I now have an opportunity right on my way to move forward. I believe if I decided, a lot of pressure and stress will come over to me. It is my expectation. I know if I am stop moving, learning and experiencing, I will feel my life totally not worthwhile at all. I don't want it. Marketing Consultant Bryan lo says " The best to learn, it is not to think, you think JUST DO IT."

Remove the "You" from Failure

Just thinking of yourself you are a regular person - like you & me. We can be achieved to become winner instead of average is that we should refuse to let failure get the better of him. No matter how many times you fail, it doesn't have to make you a failure.

If you've been thinking of yourself as s failure, you can break yourself out of that negative thinking pattern. Look at an area of your life where you have repeatedly failed, and do the following:

• Examine your expectation for that are. Write them down. Are they realistic? Do you expect to do everything perfectly? Do you expect to succeed on the first try? How many mistakes should you expect to make before you succeed? Adjust your expectations.
  

• Find new ways to do your work. Brainstorm at least twenty new approaches, and then try at least half of them.

• Focus on your strengths. How can you use your best skills and personal strengths to maximize your effort?

• Vow to bounce back. No matter how many times you fall down, pcik yourself up and keep going.
  

None of us as smart as all of us...

Basically I understand the statement, "If only a person to work something out from the mind, what if more than a person?" Is it confused you? I am trying to indicate that when you need to brainstorm, why not work in group instead of a person only. None of us as smart as all of us.

I would be prefer to work in group, I hate to work alone. I will out of my mind, get stucked. What I address here, I like an atmosphereto group for brainstorming, upteen of ideas will be work out. In other words, the more ideas we work out, the more value inputs you can't ever ignore it. Neither there is good or bad idea, it considers the best to grow your knowledge & your participation. As I say, none of us as smart as all of us.

I do not think I am smart. I guess that never ever people do stress they are smart. Lifelong Learning is never to the end, unless you have stop learning. When you have participate in brainstorming frequently, a lot inputs will help you to understand the bigger pictures. A better understanding and increase efficicencies to reduce any inconsistently occurred.

To Fail Foward, You've got to Wake Up!

If you stay on the failure freeway long enough, you eventually slow up. It's almost similiar to what happen on the several tasks which you unable to work with and out of your ability. Shall you give up easily? And that's reality when a lot of people simply give up. Personal growth expert Paul J.Meyer says, "Ninety percent of all those who fail are not actually defeated. They simply quit."

There's really only one solution to stay away from failure freeway, and that's to wake up and find the exit. Never ever quit without trial and error. This is truly embarrassing when you realized at the end of the day. Before you are remaining the similiar failure freeway, you should leave the road of continual failure, a person must first utter the three most difficult words to say: "I was wrong."

You must to open your eyes, admit your mistakes, and accept complete responsibility for your current wrong actions and attitudes. Every failure you experience is a fork in the road. It's an opportunity to take the right action, learn from your mistakes, and begin again.

The battle to Act

I read an article last weekend, it basically really make sense for everyone of us in our life. Hopefully it certainly can helps when you are facing any setbacks in near future.

The Battle of Act:
We hear it almost everyday: Sigh, Sigh, Sigh.

I just can't get myself motivated to..{ lose weight, test my blood sugar,etc}. And we hear an equal number of sighs from diabetes educators who can't get their patients motivated to do right things for their health.

We have a news for you. Motivation is not going to strike you like lighting. And motivation is not something that someone else - nurse, doctor, family member - can bestow or force on you. the whole idea of motivation is a trap. Forget motivation. Just do it! Execise, lose weight, test your blood sugar, or whatever. Do it without motivation and then guess what. After you start doing thing, that's when the motivation comes and makes it easy for you to keep on doing it.

Motivation is like love and happiness. It's a by-product. When you're actively engaged in doing something, it sneaks up and zaps you when you least expect it.

As Harvard psychologist Jerome Bruner says," You're more likely to act yourself into feeling than feel yourself into action." So ACT! Whatever it is you know you should do, DO IT!

The key to Bouncing Back

All winners have in common the ability to bounce back after an error, mistake or failure.

"Life is a series of outcomes. Sometimes the outcome is what you want. Great. Figure out what you did right. Sometimes the outcome is what you don't want. Great. Figure out what you did you don't do it right again." - by Psychologist Simone Caruthers.

Winners are able to keep moving forward no matter what happens. And that's made possible bacause they remember that failure does not make them failures. No one should take mistakes personally. That's the way to take yourself out of failure.

Although winners are fail, they see it as a momentary event, not a lifelong wave. It's not personal. Don't let any single incident color your view of yourself.

Marketing the REAL you

I often point out the question to myself, how do marketing myself? Sound awful,doesn't it? For me, marketing yourself can be using differently for instance selling skill, communication skill , convincing and approaching skill. It's only few examples which it possibilites there maybe more than expected.

Perhaps everyone can be dynamics when they are trying to sell themselves. Intuitively, many of us feel as if something is wrong with this way of operating. When we have to sell ourselves, we find it unpleasant, disagreeable, even repulsive. But what if all those negative feelings were simply because we hate the artificiality and manipulation we think must be a part of selling?

How are we being real instead of pretension? Would you be telling the truth when someone else whom you ever never talk with them? I strongly believe our reaction could be acted slightly strange. It feels unconmfortable for a moment. And next, when someone asks your comment about their impression, tell them the truth. You can say, " You are look fresh and charming to me!" You don't need to praise over and over again. Then, the person who is talking to you maybe more comfortable and feel impressive. It rely on the ways of communcation. Have you heard about the statement said " the 1st few sentences when you are start to talk, it can be determines the character what you react."

When mistakes occur, Redirect the Energy

When people make a mistake they usually know it. What they really would like is advice on how they can avoid making the same mistake again. That's what redirection is all about - getting people's energy refocused on the right things. - Ken Blanchard. Whale Done!

Have you made any mistakes before? I perhaps did. People sometimes do not admit their mistakes. I firmly to say myself as well. Why actually most of people do not admit their mistakes? What actual reason in right behind? I realise that everyone does not like the people to point their finger's to you and tell you that, "It's your mistakes."

In my life, I have made the biggest mistake which I finally realised that I did not have appreciation heart for what I have achieved. It was totally embarrasing to what I have done. The value of lesson what I learned to admit my mistake. I also admitted that I was too ego. I am starting to learn how to be humble and willing to help somebody without expect any in return. I truly believe might be I was over confidence to my ability which basically I was reacted wrongly.

After awhile, I began my new life again to start and learn from beginning, it's really tough time. Most of the time, I always say, I have done that before. It is wasting my time. But I observe that a lot of things must start from bottom, where there is nobody can climb to mountain without learning and failure. And the, I am redirect my energy again to improve my certain weaknesses. I can only express to myself, "You always learn the new things everyday. Never ever say you have learned."

Intelligence Plus Character

"Intelligence Plus Character - that is the goal of true education." by Dr Martin Luther King,Jr.

Who is this great man? Don't you recognise his successful stories in 50s'? What has he did? A little bit of story about this greatest guy. Martin experienced racism early in life. He decided to do to something to make the world a better and fairer place.

After graduating from college and getting married, Dr. King became a minister and moved to Alabama.

During the 1950's, Dr. King became active in the movement for civil rights and racial equality. He participated in the Montgomery, Alabama, bus boycott and many other peaceful demonstrations that protested the unfair treatment of African-Americans. He won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1964.

Anyone of you still remembered his achievement? I have read his book quiet sometime ago. When I keen interested on his successful achievements, I'm searching from internet. I recalled his words, "I have a dream!" In this few such powerful words, do you have a dream? What achievement you want to achieve?

Setback is not a failure, as long as you have inspration to achieve whatever you have dream for it. An intelligence is not good enough, you must have good character. For example, in this advance world an education is such important concern for everyone of us, hence a knowledge is a powerful tools to enhance your aptitude & interpersonal skill. Character would be one of behavior how you act when encounter failure. Never, never ever give up easily!

Execellence & Uniqueness Of Service

When you read this topic's, your mind may be think of the commercial business, products and services. However, I want to address this differently from what usually people do not think of, it's all about YOU.

Let's talk about your current job which you are in, have you provided excellence and uniqueness of service to employment in terms of unique ideas, persistence, hardworking attitude and willing to go extra mile? All of these requirements are the main concern of the employment when they are hiring someone whom fresh and new to them. Willing go to the extra mile, for instance I knew a colleague of mine when was working in advertising company. She seldom to reject any offer from whatsoever person surround of her to ask for favor. She never ever say "NO",but sometimes she refused to help also in certain circumstances.

Talk about her chararter, willing go to extra mile - she has been gave me an input of helping the client's to create a number of advertising designs in one night time. She ran the whole process until the customer has been sent a great compliment letter for her to appreciate her effort for being helped him to create fabulous ads and advertised in the media in short period of time. An compliment letter is simple and concise but the value of letter is much meaningful for her to aspire her always keep with this behavior no matter where she works.

To Beat my own records

Usually, how do you work out to beat your new record? I did once when I also not realised I dare to do that. It was seems happened last couple of years. I was assigned by my management when they have embacked one brand new program's which actively running every single department at that time, no matter which department you are in, you must involve to these such benefit program's.

This program basically has higlighted some brilliant ideas when you have across the customer complaints or facing numbers of difficulty to encounter the customer complaints on the services. After that, you have solved it and became successful story for yourself and able to reach level of customer satisfactory. During that time, I was a leader to share every single successful stories among the departmen which I worked for it. I must undergo in front of the group of 30-40 people talked almost half and hour. In beginning, I was recognised but until the end, I was still being recognised by managment where one of the most actively person in this entire programs. It was my new record, in fact I was afraid to speak in front of bigger group last time. But nowadays I can adopt easily.

What do you guess now? Let's break and beat new records. Record doesn't mean should be olympic record's or whatever. It's something new to you where you never done such a way before.

Know Your LIMITS

What does it mean that"Know your limit"? Everyone has varying comfort levels. Everyone of us also has their limits. Everyone does. And of course, we do not underestimate anyone else. This is part of my philosophy. I understand everyone of us has their talent, intellectual, perception and their strengths. Although all of us also had limitations for what is our bottom line, and what can we do, what we are not.

Do you tell any friends of you on your limitation?Some of you do. but not everyone does. The reason could be people always do not want to disclosure their weaknesses, second the disadvantage is people will be thinking you are not good enough. you may certainly to improve some your threatened. By the way, you should understand that we are not perfect person in this world. Did you meet anyone can be considers he or she is perfect person? If you do, kindly to tell us.

My director has been asked me once, what is your limits? In my mind, I choose to be silent because I am not that person who always love to complaint or rise any problems to myself. I just want to work in peace of mind, hence I can chose not to answer. Finally, I told him my limitation. I almost forced to answer. There is no right or wrong, it is just good or bad when you are answering the question. I am very sure with my limits.

I would highly to advice you, let the people know your limits before they have over discovered what they have said about you. It's good or bad, let yourself explore and then get directly answer for yourself.

We are in the same BOAT

How many times have you listened this quote before? It's uncountable. I seem had been used this quote umpteen of time when I was working as marketing or sales personnel. It's the teamwork environment. Nobody worked as alone. Target of sales always fallen under a team. Always in the same boat. If anyone work without a captain who leads to right direction which mean that boat could be floating nowhere.

My ex-sales manager who was that kind of result oriented person. You can't really escaped away from monthly sales productivity. He got it in figure tips. Although I did not prefer the way of his leadership styles but I can learned a lot from him. I was still same boat with him. We should be achieved management sales target together. As long as I always mingle with him, he had lead me to achieve my dreams. He was my examples last time. I've been grown very fast in terms of leadership, managerial skill as well as interpersonal skills. I can says," Fight against challenges when you are think it's worthwhile for you."

Obviously, in the short period of time I might not be grow so fast but at least it's something valuable for myself where learning is costless. When you need someone to guide or teach you in what same ways as mentioned earlier, if maybe cost you money and time. The skill must be develops by practices. I only know, practice is always make perfect. No doubt on that. If you think the boat without the group of team, you can really survive. Please comment.

Stay Curious

What's wrong with asking question? If out of curiosity, would you be asking questions instead of keep your mouth shut? I totally confirm you will put your effort to know more. We are neutral person, we always want to discover more knowledge make our life more worthwhile. It seems umpteen of changes around of us. If you ain't believe my words, try exercise this game.

Someone who really close to you and one day, he says "I lost my first!", "I did felt regret what I have done!" What is your immediate respond? Would you be only treat as normal? or will you out of your curiosity? I ain't meant that you should ask more questions but at least you should care about your friend.

Thus, its because of your curious and then you have build close relationship among your friend. I can address that your networks will be getting huge and building good images. It could be considers one of advantages you have. In addition, the more of your curious, the more valuable feedback you will have. I don't see any disadvantages.

We should keep moving to have this behavior, Life is considers Life-Long Learning cycles. The more you learn, the more you will one step forward than the person who no improvement.

A Pecfect Ambience

A perfect ambience that is soothing to the body & soul. Please close your eyes off! We are going to do one gorgeous exercise.

Just imaging you are in one perfect environment which surrounding full of natural floras & peace of mind, a huge green field and without any disaster voices surround of you. Is that work for you? I guess might not. The reason is being you are not in place of peaceful of environment. In fact, me too.

If you have went to such fabulous environment, why not just share with us? What was you unforgettable experience? I can't feel it. It doesn't make sense to me. The slogan which stated earlier, it was the slogan from one of recognized property developer in east Malaysia. What i understand that slogan is meant "the perfect environment enable to relaxing your body & soul". They are going to developing the 3 story of bungalow houses in distance 10km from k.k town, where with gorgeous ambience houses nearby the seaside. I wish if I can buy that property without any concerns. I can observe my little princess loves so much. I should do whatever to fulfill my princess dreams even though its which quiet challenging to me. I can use following below quote to aspire my inspire to achieve our dreams.

"This one step - choosing a goal and sticking to it - changes everything." Scott Reed.

Do you have, Ummph!

Ummph! What is it mean? Such encouraging words! It meant by recoil. When you feel no strength, no energy, let's practice this now! Let's Ummph! (Rebound)

Rebound now, what are you thinking of? Do not even look at next to you, tell yourself do not wasting time again. I should bounce up! Do you feel more energy and power now? I last time was worked in sales environment, everyday work under pressure and keep on reminding myself, you must hit your target today. Why soon or later I feel de-motivated & even worked with no spirit? It's matter of yourself how to monitor your emotional intelligence (EQ). I then found that the ways of motivating myself to understand my direction towards whatever the goals which I set. Setbacks is not a failure!

Now, I learned a lesson previously. I should let go the pass, it because the past performance is not guarantee for your future result. Let's Go, Ummph!

Other People's Situation Will Serve as Wisdom for Our Reference

Let's me translate to Mandarin quote Version - “别人今日的处境，是我们日后的借镜"

I before get this English quote, in fact I used a lot of ways to get the best quote . But I managed not to give up and I think myself also had been asked a number of person to help me to translate, but finally the person who helped me was the person always guides me from the first day I knew him until today almost closed to 5 years relationship. He is might be one of the person knew how did I went through the toughest or failure stages but he even never to avoid me and passionate listen me. He now is considers my personal "Guru", in other words my marketing guru. Once again, my token of appreciation is to say thank you. I remembered that he told me one sentence which " If you encourage yourself to improve 1% a day, you will learn 365% a year. Huge Improvement!"

After spent sometime of this quote yesterday, I was thinking that all successful entrepreneurs must be gone through the failure stages especially this particular entrepreneurs has been went through 3 times of economy crisis, although it was tougher but he manage to survive, strive to excel to make his business more dynamic and expand nowadays, never end up as Dinosaur!

If there is an opportunity or golden changes in near future for me to discover become entrepreneur's, I use this quote as my inspirational spirit when I will be facing any setbacks or obstacles will turn into as my fertilizer enable myself rebound and strike my goals.

"Other People's Situation Will Serve as Wisdom for Our Reference" - Bryan Lo,An Entrepreneur cum Marketing Consultant

Do you have enough TIME?

My princess had been asked one funny question,"My dear, have you started your goals by next 3 months onwards?" Oh my gosh, I much surprised last 2 days why she asked me this question before I answered her. And then, I responded "my princess, how come you asked me this question, did I ask you to remind me for something?" She said, "yes, my dear. you told me that time (quiet sometiome ago) but until today you have no action at all."

In fact, I wanted to tell her that "my princess, I have no enough time to plan." I was shocked and speechless. I knw Ｉ did embarrassed her. I really did not plan my goals since last 3 months ago. Nw I know my princess concerns when she have being with me sometime.


What shall I do now? Should I submit my goals to her with no action and empty promises? I think I shouldn't do that way disappointed her once again. Yet I have read this quote while thinking of the last 2 days when table talk with my beloved princess.

I will keep in my mind of this quote everytime instead of always give excuses to myself. I should not do it again. Change makes me improve & stay alertness all over the day.

“Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein.” ~H. Jackson Brown

Are you willing to L.E.A.R.N

"At that time when I did my first action film, it was completely a man's world. They took a look at me and said, "Little Malaysian girl, beauty queen, what does she know?" At that moment, I though, I will never let anyone look at me and think, what do you know? I might not know a lot but I am willing to learn."

I believe you are love to watching movie and you have your own beloved actor or actress. Guess who did said such inspiring words before she had become superstar nowadays? I think not many of us can be guess the right person. She is local, origin from Ipoh state, Malaysia. She is Datuk Michelle Yeoh, international actress/celebrity. At first, I can't imagine she is the person who discover his carrer path with such underpressure environment. She won't see setbacks as failure.

Bounce up now! We might not know everything but we will ensure to them, we are willing to learn. I can give permission to myself to failure, but I also can give permission to myself to excel too. Do not stop your foot before you achieve what you have dream for.

Happiness

"For every minutes you are angry, you will lost sixty second of happiness. "

Sound interesting of this quotes, I learned a moment ago when I was reading one article.
I LOVE this m.e.aningful quote. The actual reason is always exercising daily while at the same time we are not realised at all. I am trying to make myself do not anygry with anyone but at the end, I failed. I also observe among friend of mine during our gathering they were "Hoo -Hah" long time until the have released their anger, turn up they have lost half and hour happiness. I think you have cleared pictures, not even one of them can be exercising that.

Let's take few second to recall your life today, did I angry with someone with no reason and made myself unhappy for whole entire day? Does it everyday or only today itself? Sound familiar to you? Hopefully to wish the quote which stated above could be help you in future undertaking....

I have a brilliant idea now, please do tell your friend after they have "hoo-hah", share with them the quote, "For every minutes you are angry, you will lost sixty second of happiness!"

Happiness is not a destination. It is a method of life.

How many of us can have joy and happy like that? You or next to you?
Everyday we strive to the best in our daily life, how many of you can be happy and joy like that?

"The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart."

Happiness is not a station you arrive at, but a manner of traveling.

Smiling is such a powerful inspiration for me when I have gathering with my family. Guess who is he?

Sometimes, Im thinking nowadays babyboomers who are always in advance, they can learn fast, they as copy cat, copy whatever impression in which you can naturally show them in front without any teaching or guiding.


Kids smile always come from their inner heart. No doubt, no expect, no request, no instruction and no curious.

William, thanks for giving me motivation. I was remembered you were looking for me when you were not seen me when we have celebration in your grandmum(my mum) during Dumpling's Festival.

Warmest wishes from your uncle & autie - " Grow up with fully healthy & happiness!"

Life is such a fantastic!

"Fight one more round. When you arms are so tired that you can hardly lift your hands to come on guard, Fight One More Round!

When your nose is bleeding & your eyes are black& you are so tired that you wish your opponent would crack you on that jaw & put youto sleep, Fight one more round - Remember that the man who always fights one more round is never whipped."