Are You Admitting Your Mistakes?

People who never ever admit their mistakes, I strongly to tell you right now, "You're actually being done the biggest mistakes in your life." The most importantly, we can't learn everything in daily living. It's indeed also never happen it. You can proceed with your initiatives to learn those things in which you are not learned before, you may then to learn it from various channels to search for additional new things where you lack of it.

I could be advise you that the mistakes which you have done, incidentally you've have learned somethings never know before. It's consider you have added your knowledge without paying much efforts but the reality is you have done it without anyone taught you. But you have to admit your mistakes. Nobody can escape away their mistakes. When it has caused, the problems should not be disappear as fast as you think, it still deeply to search where it gone wrongly and how to overcome it.

I have a best friend often feels fear to make mistakes, I ask her what the main reasons. She told me that she feared to face someone needed to report her mistakes although the mistakes might be done by someone she knew. She won't be admit her mistakes without certain strong reasons. She probably self-egotism to high. She's nothing wrong with it, she just realised that if she done her jobs completely perfect, she will stay away any mistakes causing her. I have questions in my mind whether the thoughts what she thinking of either correct or not, it does not evaluate as right or wrong. She posses her own characteristics to protect herself. Does she sound not admit her mistakes? I still questioned in my mind.

Let's myself give another good examples. I have been lots of mistakes, sometimes people realized it but certain of time they are not telling where have you done wrongly. A colleague's of mine, he eventually will tell me where did i do wrongly, which areas should i correct it and etc. I initially told myself, this job basically should not done by me, why should i admit it? My thoughts totally is wrong. As we know, we're working in corporation where teamwork must be absorb, you are not working alone. What's consequences would be affect in your jobs if admitting your mistakes? I look at bigger pictures, it's nothing to be gone wrong although you have admitted, additionally, you can overcome all the setbacks and mistakes in the right ways, at right time and extremely at the right cost. The tasks are sometimes can be involved huge capitals or funding to absorb, but it because of your mistakes, the whole operation from beginning until the end can't proceed smoothly and efficiency.

Another kind of person will be blame everyone else when the mistakes have been occurred. They never ever look at other people feeling. They just look at themselves. And of course, you after that done the mistakes, all are basically recognised you that the mistakes you done. Think positively when your thoughts that it's none of their business. The more news you have blasting over, I must admit it instead of telling the difference stories to escape it. You must face it, face the people you know. Dare to admit your mistakes.

Don't Giving on Yourself

What's the bravo comments from my personal mentor. It's true that some people know me that i have my personal mentor neither he or she rich yet or not, they are eventually possess successful thoughts in their life. I noted that he actually not so rich, though, he's consider an intelligent person in terms of financial literally, marketing knowledge and so forth. Some people also realised that they have their own personal mentor in their mind, who are they?

Basically, I can say " you are your personal mentor." How to describe that we can be own mentor, no matter how the tougher situation you having now, you can lead the problems and overcome it. Don't ever giving up on yourself that you blame yourself do not have good mentor. One of the financial literally expert, Robert Kiyosaki, who has 2 mentor in his life's which are RICH DAD & POOR DAD. Rich dad says, "If you stop working today, an asset puts money in your pocket and a liability takes money from your pocket. Too often people call liabilities assets. It's important to know the difference between the two. Probably his poor dad's look at different point of views and vice verse against the rich dad. Therefore, we should become ourself as Rich Dad. And of course, when you thoughts that everyone of us requires good mentor tend to lead in better result, why not go for it. Action is everything. Action is real life of success. Action always starts with AMBITIOUS.

The more challenges and setback you faced, I should tell you right now, "Congratulation to you. Glad to hear you have encounter numerous of problems to bring you to next level in your successful life. When you face a problems in a day, you have learned one new things in your life. As leader expert often said, you tend to know nothing for everyday. You then may thinking that you will going to learn somethings without the push by people next to you. We posses good characters indeed able to develop our certain of skills and experiences. Don't give up without trying till the end. Yes, you're right that certain people always give up when they have facing lots of difficulties in their living, don't ever think of problems where already rose, we should think about the solution. Work as problem solver. Don't ever focus in the same problems.

Think Yourself to Success

People who set big goals and follow their dreams are called successful when they reach their goals. To the individual pursuing a dream or working to accomplish a big goal, they see success staring them back in the mirror, whether they reach their dreams or spend a lifetime trying. Everyone has his or her definition of success and happiness. It could be a high-paying job, a promotion, a fancy car, or achieving work-life balance. Unfortunately, not everyone has big plans for the future. I see it everywhere I go--people in their twenties, thirties, forties; people of all ages just drifting through life disillusioned, and wondering why success has passed them by. Success doesn’t just happen. The common denominator of successful people is that they dream big and then translate those dreams into attainable goals.

Vision alone does not yield greatness. To be successful requires honing the habit of thinking like a winner throughout the journey from nothingness to prominence. In his classic book Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill explains how attaining wealth in any amount you desire happens as a result of your will power. Norman Vincent Peale’s all-time bestseller The Power of Positive Thinking is founded on the principle that positive results start with positive thoughts. Shad Helmstetter and Wayne Dyer are few of the many other well known authors who have also written best-selling books on the power of the mind. Some call it self-talk, others call it positive thinking or intention, and still others use terminology like visualization or manifestation. Call it anything you like, it all means the same thing--success starts in the mind.

What works harder and longer than you do? Your mind does. While you are awake it is consciously buzzing away with thoughts and ideas and while you sleep your subconscious continues to produce thought after thought. What’s your mind working on while you are in the shower, commuting to work, or sitting in a meeting with a client? The words and pictures you feed your mind carve the path to achieving big goals. Almost every Olympic athlete can testify to a time when they visualized themselves winning the Gold or when they told themselves they would set a world record and they did.

Champions are regular people who confidently tell themselves day and night--through their thoughts and mental images--that they can and will reach their goals. As Napoleon Hill says, “What you can conceive, and believe, you can achieve.” Conceiving big things and believing they are possible is the dividing line between the mediocrity of the masses and greatness of champions.

The bigger the goal and the wilder the dream, the more resistance there will be on the journey. Have you ever had someone tell you that you lack the education, money, experience, connections, or [fill in the blank] that is required to reach your goal? This is one of the primary reasons people do not step outside their comfort zone and pursue their dreams--they aren’t thinking like a champion does, their mind cannot withstand the resistance. Champions are determined to reach their goals and their mind is conditioned to see obstacles as well as opportunities on the journey.

Champions are not born, they are not made, and they can be hard to find in any business. Keep an eye out for them, they come in all ages, genders, shapes and sizes, but between their ears they all have something in common--they think like champions.

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Think Like a Champion - Focus on the Top and You'll Get There

by Donald J. Trump

For what is the best choice, for each individual, is the highest it is possible for him to achieve.-- Aristotle

Some champions are born and some champions are made. A champion may be someone who shows marked superiority, someone who always places first in competition. A champion can also be someone who comes out on top, overcoming obstacles and beating the odds. We’ve all seen Olympic champions on television. What comes to mind when I watch these amazing athletes perform at their personal best is the amount of training they have endured, the sacrifices they’ve made, and the focus they had to have to get where they are. Endurance, self-sacrifice, and determination are the qualities of a true champion.

They also wanted to achieve something special. Ordinary wouldn’t be enough for someone who has the mindset of a champion. Champions think big. Champions work toward big goals. Champions are focused. Champions are disciplined. Champions think like champions. As Jack Dempsey said, “A champion is someone who gets up when he can’t.”

Think like a champion.

When I’m having an especially tough day, I often think it’s like a race and I’d better have the endurance to reach the finish line. Somehow the endurance carries me through because I want to win. Billie Jean King said “Champions take responsibility. When the ball is coming over the net, you can be sure I want the ball.” I understand what she was talking about because I’m the same way. I want to play ball.

I have a box at the U.S. Open. Every year I love to watch those champions go at it. You can learn a lot from watching the pros, whether you’re interested in sports, the arts, or whatever. One thing they all have in common is the same mindset--they want to win, they want to be the best, not the runner-up: the best. That’s a very important quality. I’ve seen very talented people fail because deep down they were afraid of winning...they did not think like a champion. Winning comes with responsibility. Champions rise to that responsibility. Search yourself carefully to make sure you’re ready and capable. If you’re not, do something about it. It’s an important element of success.

Most of you know that I’m a golfer, and I own four amazing golf courses in the United States. I’ve always said that golf is a brain game, which it is, but it is a demanding sport technically and it's a game of finesse. You cannot play golf halfheartedly and expect to get anywhere with your game. You have to concentrate and you have to have patience. As the legendary golfer Bobby Jones said, “It is nothing new or original to say that golf is played one stroke at a time. But it took me many years to realize it.” We win in our daily lives by being careful with every day, by having a champion’s view of each moment.

When you think like a champion you prepare yourself for success.

Let’s go back to that quote by Aristotle. That is self scrutiny at its highest. It really is the best choice to go for the highest achievement possible. Why set your goals too low? Did you ever hear a child saying they want to be nothing when they grow up? They are full of dreams and plans and rarely are they mediocre aspirations. They want to be presidents, doctors, astronauts, scientists, and so on. They’re on the right track and have the right mindset. If you need to, bring yourself back to when you had high achievement as a goal. Not everyone can be the world champion at something, but you can strive to be the best you can be. That’s the first step, and a daily responsibility.

Champions go the extra mile. We all know when we’ve done just enough and when we’ve really exerted ourselves. Make an effort to exert yourself--every day. Don’t fail because you never allowed yourself to get started! Don’t avoid success because you think the responsibility might be too much. Just focus and get going! You’d be surprised at what intelligent effort can produce. Alexander Graham Bell said something that I have always remembered: “Concentrate all your thoughts upon the work at hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought to a focus.” Pay attention to these things and you will be on your way to thinking like a champion--and becoming one.

Do intention to stop writing

Some people may be asked why did you suddenly stop writing, what makes you gonna to give up your own personal goals? I have no idea why should I have to give up. In the meantime, I was doing another stupid, idiot and unnecessarily mistakes which created numerous unhappiness among my family members. I know in myself should not do that instead. I, though understand that it is a mistake what I can't repeat again to make my wife worried about me. I can't really go deeply to share my failure story to you.

As well as the day where I have seen inspired to start my personal put up to writing, some people suspected these writing naturally it's not from my pen. I have curious why they are not trusted a man who dare to write and make things happened in his life's. Hence, you can really go for it. To obtain better result, it doesn't require your must succeed in certain areas then you intend to discover that. What i strongly suggest you is try to make more failure, you then realised that you have variety knowledge which you never ever had. A giant tycoons always begin with single steps. This is what I am trying to tell that things can be happen, if you believe in yourself.

Do remember your dreams always monitor by yourself, no one can take away or instruct you must follow their steps. It's useless or else you just dream where no action. You're totally failure. I do imagine one day I can be become a tycoon who can be contributing to various societies, help those entrepreneurs are keen to become successful or doing more celebrity works. All are require certain amount of money. I believe now certain famous and well known tycoons are doing what they thoughts real meaningful to them. They do expect no return. It because they have understand that some people are unlucky to enjoying such gorgeous successful journey. They have tried, but end up they are failure. Some people even always think big, they dream big and they tend to achieve huge result and make huge money. What's cares about you how much money you want to earn?

To gain million dollars, it can't be happen in one day or overnight. If you think there is chances like that, why everyone work next to you, they are still working on day time and stay st home in day night. It's extremely simple. We are all earn for living. You and I must work to survive. We are all need money to survive. Money does not work for us. You think positively ways where all the efforts you plant, it must be turn up to be your dream. It just questioned about the timing where you aiming. So therefore, I believe we need plan forward, we can't fail to plan, plan to become failure. You should begins whatsoever your thoughts have in your minds to make it happening. "DO IT NOW, YOU WON'T REGRET OF WHAT YOU HAVE DONE."

Manage Your Difficult Times

It's easy to understand what the meaning is, though, it firmly believed that it shall be meaningless if you think understand it good enough. Probably you're wrong. There are two either ways whether you have determined to give up and don give up. What would be your reaction next? You can leave it goes, or else you must adapt it. I guessed everyone of us encountered failure in the passed, it's indeed all the things are turn to difficult. Question is how did you manage your difficult times? If you have gone through the toughest stages where you know how to handle it and overcome it.

I welcome any comments from your end. However, different people are facing different problems. Whether there is tough or not, it should be anymore questions. You should be concentrating the solutions and opportunities, it should not back to problems again. In fact, there are numerous brilliant opportunities right in front of you, it's just matter how do you transform your genius ideas into gold. No one can be similar especially their intuitions, clinches and so forth.

What if you have solutions to overcome the problems but you must sacrifice certain things to obtain that result, are you willing to do that? Alternatively, you should go for it. Being positive is part of journey to succeed in your life. You choose not to be succeed, but you must understand that all of us are born to succeed, we born to be champion. No losers gonna to become our mentor and coaches.

I still remembered that there was quoted," You can choose to do it or not, you're always right." The truth is the meaning of these quote maybe sound weird to certain people, but to me that the meaning could be a little bit of demotivate. Hence, you're being positive can give you tremendously resiliency. I would be prefer to stay focus on the solutions, not the problems. The most importantly you do whatsoever you think there are your passion and enthusiasm. Don't be ever concerned that you will be failure and yet not start any movement to step forward to achieve it.

As of now, I'm telling myself that I refused to give in or give up. I knew I wasn’t finished, and in fact I came back to be more successful than I was before. I refused to become negative and saw the situation as a ‘blip’ and not a catastrophe.

Some WORDS are consider Meaningless, Useless keep in your heart!

Positive Thinking

Making lifestyle changes through positive thinking is an incredibly powerful concept, and you can actively make an enormous difference to your life through a positive mental attitude.

Things that seemed impossible to do suddenly don`t seem so difficult, you feel you can achieve almost anything once you use a positive mindset to tackle every situation that presents itself.

It may be that you are stuck in a dead end job that you can see no way out of, and you feel yourself drowning in misery at the thought of travelling into work each day.

So let us see if we can apply some positive thinking to this situation.

Firstly you tell yourself that you need to take control of the situation, and drag yourself up from where you are.

You affirm to yourself that you are far too good for this job, you are not paid enough, and you ARE going to make a change.

So, thinking positively, you look at the options. It may be that you can approach your boss at work, be proactive and tell him of your feelings, and that you want a promotion to a different job within the business. He can only say no, but you are thinking positively so the chances are he will be able to help you in some way. Be firm and assertive with him, control the situation, and put him in a situation where he will find it very difficult for him to say no to you.

If you really do not want to work in that business any longer, look at your options. Again be proactive, write down all your qualities and qualifications and achievements, and then look to see if you can match them to a job you would like to do.

You then search the internet, the library, the job centre, the media, and anywhere else you can think of, for any posts available, and you send an application off immediately to them. Be positive, make your enthusiasm for the job jump off the page.

Chances are you will find yourself the job of your dreams if you stay positive and are persistent. This is how making lifestyle changes through positive thinking works.

No New Topics For A Day

As you can see today topic, there is no new topic. The reason why I put it no new topic because of my personal problems yet not settled until i have an idea to write certain topics which I can find do really interesting me. And then it's also all the interesting topics come from my personal experiences or else, I have learn from someone else do inspiring me after reading their articles. Thus so far, I should put down my words with daily basis. Although it is my personal goals in when I have set up in earlier started to write down all my personal ideas. Some times it is simple to write anything, but the value of lesson to share with anyone must provides some insights, real experiences as well as information can be obtained to enhance their perspectives in their living.

Nevertheless, this couple of weeks where I have been tighten up with numbers of cases which coincidences trouble in my mind at the same time. Bad things indeed could be happen anytime, anywhere without you are expectation. More so, it beyond your control especially things are usually common and should not be repeat your mistakes. I thoughts suppose can be overcome it, time can be passed really fast such as rocket to sky. As old often said, "If you need live in peace of minds, you should solve your problems before it has happen." It's extremely truth. I did experience that the bad things always not as good as your think. Whatever will come across to you, it could be one after one, I encountered one time happens few things that you can't immediately overcome unless it's simple and not important.

I, last time always think I was smart enough, as where it was my mistakes being thoughts you're smart for every problems. Thus, I thought that "I was genius". It's such big mistake in which I have done. I learned from my all good "teachers" (mistakes). No matter how smart am I now, I still to learn anyone else in my life. They all are my personal mentors in my heart. You may thinking that why are you need more mentors? I could be say that the more mentors you have, they will guide you with right ways and right attitudes, furthermore, they are expect nothing from you as long as you are appreciate their advices and ideas. Even though, I don't see any disadvantages unless I am still thinking I am smart enough between each of them. I now look at problems where I can view my frustration in the mirror. A frustration that I have, I really feared to failure. I have no more chances to myself at least you must change. I've been long time did not review my pass performances, though, I have recently update my performances, mistakes and actions to understand more about myself. Right now, I require myself to understand all the mistakes that I have made, I must change & I must retrieve my right attitude to attempt in this competitive edges. I must carry with this inspiring 4 P every daily practise:
Be PASSION, PATIENCE, PERSISTENCE, PERSEVERANCE.

Suicide is not Solution, it's a Problems

A relative of mine committed suicide the other day and I am compelled to write about this issue in the hope that maybe I could help stop someone from doing the same. I am against this seemingly easy exit strategy as it causes more problems than solutions and there are better ways to deal with issues.

The incident involving this relative happened out of the blue and I noticed the following:

Suicide leaves a lot of unanswered questions

One might think that it is best to take one's life than try to face the world but this becomes the beginning of a huge puzzle for family and friends. Even if one leaves a suicide note, it hardly answers all the questions that people will have. For instance people might ask: why did someone take this route, was there no other route? Did we not provide enough support to this person? Did we not show enough love and care? Is something or someone else the real cause of this decision? Did the victim exhaust all channels to deal with problems? Could we have done better to stop this decision? Etc.

It leaves unresolved issues behind

Taking one's life does not solve the problem that caused it. If someone decides to end their life in one way or the other because of an issue they have failed to solve, the issue still remains unresolved. If however, someone decides to live, face or tackle the issue it could get resolved somehow. The solution could be something unfavourable to the victim or members of family or relatives but it is still a solution. For instance, one could decide to separate from a spouse where their marriage is causing anguish rather than end their life.

It causes pain and suffering to family and friends

This relative of mine did not stop to think about the pain her suicide would cause us and the child that she left behind. It was a selfish act because it seeks to end one's misery at the expense of other people's happiness. The child left behind will always be haunted by this event and will grow up with a distorted view of life. It will also grow up lacking that motherly love and care. The other relatives will always have that burden of living with a guilty conscience that perhaps they could have prevented this. They will also have a burden of raising the child knowing fully well that they can not take the place of a natural mother.

It is therefore necessary that people look at the above negative consequences of suicide and take into account the following alternative ways of dealing with issues:

Talk to someone when you feel suicidal

Talking is therapeutic. In psychology they use what is called-Free Association. This is when a depressed person is asked to talk about all and sundry and through this method, real issues will begin to emerge and hopefully the problem is identified and resolved. Therefore, it is believed that letting it out will help other people assess your situation and be able to identify how they can help. It also becomes apparent that bottling everything up in the hope that a magic solution will pop up only eats at the heart and soul and leaves one with nothing to live for.

Seek professional help or any help

Any help will do at a time of desperation but professional help will solve the problems more effectively. Say for instance that one is battling with relationship issues; it is prudent to seek out others who have insight or experience in that area. Having their input may help bring light where there was total darkness. Also if someone is depressed, it is wise to consult a therapist, counsellor or anyone experienced in dealing with such issues. There is always a way but finding the way might require an expert.

I am therefore still convinced that there is a way out of any difficult situation and that committing suicide is not the solution to problems.

No shortcut Will Allowed if You have Begin

How do i address my feeling today? Partial disability or lost my leg & hand? Heartless on what I have done previously. Could I begin from ZERO again? If possible, there is no more backward. Time is passed. The reality is truth. You can't ignore and avoid it. It's all happened on what number of mistakes which you did. It's all can be considered non-sense, bullshit and idiot action as well as something action was beyond your capability. How can you afford it without understand your own personal strengths?

You pay peanut, then you will get monkeys. How many of us understand it really mean to us in our daily behavior and patterns? It's pretty hurt although you think everything can be calm down and deep breath to make thing easily. It's damn hard and difficult, indeed. What can you imagine is when you have prepared & planned carefully for your travel trip, and coincidence that you're out of your expectation, things ran unsmooth & worst happened on you. You must lost track, you must missed concentration. Lost focus, can't awake up & of course you can't rebound yourself as faster as possible.

Last time, I thought there was a shortcut to go through for your life's. Now I realise that there is no such gorgeous story will be happen if you do not put any concentration, efforts and energy in the matter where you think it usually there is simple phenomenon in our life. Simple tasks require simple step, no shortcut allowed. If you think there is a possible, you are killing yourself slowly. Bad habit can't hiding too long, it'll telling everyone that you are not the better one that they'll think.

My life almost pissed off. Thinking being messed up. Terrible things happened too fast, you can't control or monitor their perception about you. Only few words can say, "you must accept your responsible will be happen to you in next undertaking."

Changing Before End Up Become A Dinasour

What if I say, "Changing the way we change?" Some of you may question in your minds, what am i trying to address here? It could be matter of changing the way where can find yourself how effect of change. In this turbulent times, we of course alert that dealing with much pressure to change. Change does causing us to be better and improve as well as we survive to grow. Nobody will disagree what my statement is. The main reason is the changes will foresee uncertainty happens to us especially in this economy downturn.

It strongly believe that everyone does not used to adapt as fast as they have changed the way of living and life's. Each individual constantly delivered on what they have adopt in their living such as the way of communication, thoughts, belief, behaviors and so forth. Indeed, it's reality. These are where represents their status of behaviors how they are dealing difference kind of people daily.

In regards of management, the leaders must understand that change is inevitable and must comes from within. It's so important to hear the voices of surrounding of them. For instance, in the competitive edges, as leader should listening their customer voices, it must takes into their account to evaluate how to give more advance customer services to maintain their satisfaction. Change is continuous, not an "event" and thus so far there is no innovation and paradigm shift has been implemented overnight.

Do you expect anything change in next few days? Surprisingly we should thought likely, however, we must know the next cycle of change. Assuming that you have realized that your current employment has been having difficulty in their financial work flow, and it must implemented VSS to cutting their cost and employees, what next you would like to do? It because of fear, they must change their minds and before committed to it. It is important to understand that people tend to go through stages in their attempt to cope with change. Knowing the next cycle of change allows the preparation of the change mindset.

Quick fix or change paradigm may not be appropriate. When changing mindsets, management leaders must understand that quick fixes may not be appropriate. Here is a case for your consideration: There is a leak in the ceiling of one of the offices and instead of fixing it, someone puts a pail under it to collect the water. He uses the simplest method to address the problem, not fix the cause of the leak. This illustrates the need to have a maintenance mindset and culture to fix a root problem in the organisation. On personal aspect, you also must understand whether which changes can be adopt it and which you are not. Don't even simply to change your minded without your own realization. It causing you will wasting your time, the worst thing is you'll lost your concentration and track.

Why We Fail? (Part Two)

4. Not Learning from past Mistakes
Some people live and learn, and some only live. Wise people learn from their mistakes. People who do not learn lessons form history are doomed. Failure is a teacher if we have the right attitude. Failure is a detour, not a dead end. it is a delay, not a defeat. Experience is the name we give to our mistakes. As quoted, "the past performance is not guarantee for future result." Although it may sound inspired, but you must consistently your perseverance to maintain the best performances. Learn whatever you think it is new to you, new things bring you new experiences.

5. Lack of Discipline
Anyone who has accomplished anything worthwhile has never done so without discipline. Discipline takes self-control, sacrifice, and avoiding distractions and temptations. It means staying focused. Steam does not move the engine unless it is confined. Niagara Falls would not generate power unless it were harnessed. You whether can be thinking the discipline does important to everyone of us, indeed, it extremely important. Look at your daily practising on your financial planning, if without any discipline, you sure will lost control. Nobody can be guided you unless yourself. Monitoring well financial education is to ensure that you can allocate your expenses more wisely, despite that you may also to learn with some financial experts to generate how shall we obtain financial freedom.

6. Poor Self-Esteem
It is a lack of self-respect and self-worth. As I mentioned in earlier, self confidence is required for us to step one further to aim our mission. It links with each other. It tend to understand that it could be caused you to succeed in your paths living. It leads to abuse of one's self and others. People with low self-esteem are constantly looking for identity. They are trying to find themselves. One's self is not to be found but to be created.Idleness and laziness are consequences of poor self esteem and so is making excuses. Idleness is like rust that eats into the most brilliant metal.

7. Fatalistic Attitude
A fatalistic attitude prevents people from accepting responsibility for their position in life. They attribute success and failure to luck. They resign/escape themselves to their fate. They believed and accept the predestined future written in their effort whatever has to happen will happen. Hence, they never put in any effort and complacency becomes a way of life. They wait for things to happen rather than make them happen.

God Bless You. All to Your Best!

Why We Fail?

Are you consider yourself as failure? Not at all, don't ever thought we are failure. We guess some time that worst things occurred, we at least prepare the worst will happen against us. Nothing will be take away from you without your permission. Life's is wonderful, though, the challenges are part of essential vital in our life. We can't escape away. I still remembered one weird case had happened to me, I believed that time I was a MLM marketer's who aggressively recruiting as more as agents as my down lines. Thus, I met a potential can be built his own networking base through his powerful leaderships capability and huge friend networking. I asked, "Did you afraid changes? What's in your mind as challenges?" He told me clearly, I have no challenges. That's why I did not afraid changes. If I need to change, I must lost in mind. I was healthy person and mentality control by myself. Why should afraid for?

Here are 7 ideas why are they fail:

1. Lack of Persistence
More people fail not because they lack of knowledge or talent but its because they quit. Winners never quit, failure is quitters. The total secret of success lies in two words, persistence and resistance. Persist in what must be done and resist what ought not to be done. When problems seem insurmountable, quitting seems to be the easiest way out...Winners are struck but not destroyed. We all have had setbacks in life. Failing does not mean we are failures. More elaboration on failures, once a while, the challenges may be beyond your capability if you have put extra efforts to strive to be the best, it doesn't mean you failure. It's just matter of experiences and skills. Think positively, learn it & improve it.

2. Lack of Conviction
People who lack of conviction take the middle of the road; and guess what happens in middle of road? You get run over. The roadblock always is obstacles to stop you go ahead further, when you have lack of confidence, you'll stop eventually without realization you have made decision not being to breakthrough it. People without conviction do not take a stand. They go along to get along because they lack confidence and courage. They conform in order to get accepted even when they know that what they are doing is wrong. They behave like part of herd. For instance, a group of 100 talented & potential guys in racing to be successful, how many of them will be succeed? I guess it is just 5% of the group. Why I said, it is the facts. You believe it or not, you can mingle with those losers, they will influence you by one-by-one.

3. Rationalizing
Winners may analyze but never rationalize. That's a loser's game. Loser always have a book full of excuses to tell you why they could not. Winners indeed do not have this kind useless dictionary in their mind. The reason is why they are positive thinker, things happened always look at different point of views in which they'll figured out the solution, it is not evaluate the problems. Some interesting excuses you can hear from them...

• I'm unlucky
• I'm born under the wrong stars
• I'm not good looking
• I'm useless
• I don't have enough money
• The economy is bad
• If only I had the opportunity
• If only I didn't have a family

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Think it. Learn it. Do it

You have probably heard this before from leader experts said,"Think it. Learn it. Do it." How many of us with implement this without forcing and pushing? Can you effort to wait until everything in order right after in front of you and then you realized that it extremely important to your life? You whether to wait the time is coming or you just ignore it, it's all about determination.

And of course, I have numerous brilliant to create business opportunities for myself in current economy. Did I dare to challenge every brilliant business idea that I had? It whether should or should not. It looks at your current capabilities on what your strengths or business intelligences. How do you evaluate your own business talents?

View your passed performances. Evaluate it where you have done right and where you have faced the obstacles. Next, take action to implement your great ideas in your minds. Share with your positive groups. Stay away the losers. They will slowly discourage you to give up your ideas with certain unrealistic information. The fact is every idea in your mind, it comes upon you have greater experiences in the industry, you have some inputs which it caused you bring this into the competitive edges. Here is the good example for personal inspiration.

I picked up your book Rich Dad, Poor Dad in August last year. It didn’t take me long to realize that this was exactly what I was looking for at this mid-point in my life journey (I was 47 years old at the time). I had come to a desperate longing to be free from the rat race and to provide a way for my three young sons to become financially literate and independently free in their adulthood. Your vision provided the path.

I would never have believed it, but I am now the owner of three businesses: the painting company I owned prior to entering the Rich Dad Coaching program (my S quadrant business where I work for money), a real estate investment business (I’m about to make my third offer on a piece of property, this one on a multi-family apartment complex), and a family owned investment business.

It’s hard to believe it has been only a bit over 4 months that I have been a part of the Rich Dad family. So much has changed. Most importantly, my way of thinking about the world and money is completely different. It’s very difficult to express in mere words the impact my coach, has had upon me as I’ve ventured into this journey.

We yet have personal mentors to improve the areas which we do not realized so far, however, the time is running, energy still maintained, that should be makes more encouraging and exploring it. Start now, "think it. Learn it. Do it."

Preparing For The Worst

Some people may be not really alert what is happening in the current market now, do you take any initiatives to understand what type of disease we are having now? Indeed, I should let you know that we are in the economy crisis stage. Don't you believe it or not, you must accept it. You look at surrounding atmosphere especially economy extent and country development are getting less and slow. What I am trying to stress here, it basically no development, no growth, it means no cash flow in market as well as no demand and supply. Whatever you have now, it caused of all the rules of thumb on demand and supply.

Take it very good example, you're one of the employee who contributed lot of efforts in your current responsibilities, you pay for contribution, that's what your employers demand and employees are contributed. It is the reality. You do not believe me, just use another pretty brilliant example, for instance, the hypermarket nowadays in our country is so demanding, although the standard of living each people also vary and income wise differences, why they still intend to develop more hypermarket in housing areas or developed areas such as bigger city and state.

This is so simple where you understand the people are high demand, as business which trying to fulfill their demand and supplying more outlets and branches. Those are well known giant corporation, they will always conducts number of researches in order to create more opportunities to tap into market and capture more market share. It's sounds challenging during this crisis economy, but those are positive minded businessmen never ever quit before that they have succeeded on their mission has been planned. They, though even preparing for the worst where their planning is failures. Its probably certain circumstances such as market segmentation, market strategy wrongly implemented.

Eventually they have alternatively planning on what they have evaluated to be things across in the middle of the ways as it might be facing numerous challenges. Some leader experts said, " The opportunities is created by human being." I can say, "Never try, Never Know what you implemented. Always remember that, "all of us must get ready to be worst thing occurred, things would not be changes with positive minded."

Get The Loser Out of You

In our daily challenges, we of course will be facing a number of obstacles in various aspects. How could we look at challenges and get those loser out of us? Whether you lovechallenges , but those are always influences you end up with the loser. The loser is likely "virus" surrounding us, infected and influences us. It's really worst once you've get infected. Some critical issues might be happened where you can expect something that beyond your control. And it's makes totally difference, if you can escape from those losers.

No doubt, our friends among us must be are loser but not at all. Certainly, whether they are or not we do not want them to be loser. Just assume that when you have gathering with them, they're usually give you various negative perspectives which you actually speechless. The main reason you respect your friends. They might be chosen to be loser. Are you in their group? One important thing where you can do is we can try to advice them do not always putting negative minded in yourself. We try not ever do that. You whether choose to mingle with them or you can choose to escape, it's your own choices. I am just thinking that how you evaluate those are winners and losers? Winners do get away from those losers. No one wanted to be loser.

Some people said, "don't ever to get involved in "minor" matters unless you can sure you can win. Pretty awesome, it's truth if you can build such powerful confidence on yourself whatever tasks and responsibility assigned. What am I trying to stress here, please don't underestimated opponents just next to you, you may be not alert, though, we must always prepare to battle against your challenges. Be prepared before the rainy day even though itapply in finance planning, it could be wrong anytime. Just think out of the box and trying to work something expect than you aimed. With this behaviors, you managed whatsoever opponents or loser out of you. You are in control, you must manage your emotional against those negative influences.

"Well, first, you try to get something out of it. Sometimes there is an opening to get a good thing or two out of a bad package. Get that and brag about it. Work hard. Don't pull the rug out from those are helping you, and thank them over and over again And keep cool. Don't whine. And do not get personal with those who beat you. Don't give them the satisfaction." Do you understand that how it gonna works?

Going Back to Our Fundamentals

Everyone of us maybe expected more than we have planned. It's commonly truth where each of us has different expectation on what we have aimed in earlier. Though, we have thought that shall we going back to our fundamentals of every single achievement that we have done. Our foundations are much important rather than we thoughts that we are smart in certain areas where other people do not possess with this kind of strengths. I still remembered that when I have a goal to improve my communication, I persist and perseverance. Every toughest challenges never ever break me down. I looked at the challenges maybe not as hard as I thoughts. If pretty good if we have challenging, we know where we have done good, which evaluate every single setbacks how to overcome it and maintained the peak performances.

For example, I have been criticism by my ex-respected lecturers during face-to-face conversation. He strongly meant my English should be improved, if not the way where I communicate with him, he got headaches. Pretty upset, right? If you were me, how did you react that time with small group of people where their mind thoughts you're weak. I believed my foundations were weak. I should start with my foundation and fundamentals are important before you end up yourself do not understand how to start. I began with communication, whatever people I have seen, met and I used to communicate with them in English.

A good or poor doesn't pull me down caused I have aimed to be improved and proven them are wrong. It's truly tougher on what the beginning many people did not accept when talked with them in English. I have many choices to polish up my languages, I often met those lecturers are speaking in English, as the result, I met my respected mentor, Mr. Bryan Lo. He did encourage me to speak with him, write to him, and involved in numerous activities to improving my language. At the end, I still received some negative feedback by surrounding people of mine. But I only posses with this attitude, the fundamental is to make more practises until you make perfect.

Furthermore, I have went to corporate stages very fast, even I expected and then the result out of my expectation. But old people often said, "the faster you go up, the faster you will fall down." Due to my fundamentals still not strong enough, I worked beyond my management capabilities. It's really embarrassed me those action and worst behaviors implemented. I knew every fundamental movement is essential to bring yourself next stages. Why I did not realized in earlier stage? it caused me until I have end up by some worst mistakes I had have done. Last but not least, the world is changing rapidly as out of our expectation, though, the fundamentals are essential for us to obtain better achievement, instead of applying the wrong strategy caused us to start with bottom stages again.

Prediction is very difficult, especially if it's all the Future!

Look at the current development in our country, we usually find certain changes from day-to-day instead changes in daytime or overnight. It definitely some changes can be done in a day, such as your attitudes, behaviors and characters. What I am addressing here that we able to make our life's more interesting where to explore one things beyond our capability, before it makes our lives so boring.

And of course, changes is difficult but you don change it , you will be losing the track and unable to core with current market development. I believe everyone of us alert the climate changes nowadays, it fast moving and heading to journey where we should change it before we will at the end tend to be old folks whom lacking information, lack of skills as well as improvement. It pretty upset some of them among our networking, you can observed that they are moving faster rather than someone does remained the same foot.

The most awareness you have, the faster movement you can ahead on the new journey and new discovery. You may not understand me what you should change? Let's go deep into the topic in which you have stressed today. Prediction is something where you have foresee something will be happened, the upcoming new trends and new improvement. Everything are changing so fast. Let's take it good example, the corporate ladders like those top management people, they are improving in terms of corporate communication, interpersonal skills, new knowledge and so forth.

Why they alert of these? Well, you may seem number of top ladder white collars will be taking numerous of courses to enhance their capabilities, they also even never underestimate. Successful people never ever feared to change. They predict something will be going to change, they assume better than they yet not awake from their comfort zone itself. Furthermore, they forecast themselves in near future, the corporation maybe required those are skillful & knowledgeable to adopt the economy growth which changing onwards with internal and external sources enforcement to be improving yourself.

It's truth, prediction is much difficult, what you guessed the prediction is tend will be happening in near future, would be worthwhile to change your current position rather than those are sleeping cats never improved themselves, staying in comfort zone and feared of changed. I urge you that the questions in your mind right now, what and where should I change and improve, it doesn't matter what are you, who are you, now you just thinking of we change for future, good preparation is for future adoption, if we plan to fail, you indeed fail to plan. War is begins, if you stop to learn, you'll stop to grow.

Celebration Party

I believe myself do not joining any party since it was couple of months ago. If you're thinking whether I love this type of occasion, i would say myself cordially to join the event with joyous one. Would not you instead of me? I think someone maybe not interested that to joining this kind of event caused of the atmosphere where you find not comfortable.

Indeed, among my small group of colleagues do not intend involved themselves with these event. With certain extent, the characters of human being totally vary on the pattern of behaviors. everyone could be thoughts differently when they are invited to attend this kind of events. Party basically is as simple as we think, no difficult to plan for gorgeous party, it just process of arranging how makes the party can be make our memory everlasting. The simple ways to make one gorgeous party as follows:

1. Prepare a list of guest of honors
In order to wasting our time to think of who should be invited, we must prepare a list of invitation names for separately categorised every single of group people. That's why the reason of the party must be have VVIP,VIP and etc.

2. Party Decorations
Lot of decoration must in place where to make that particularly place more fabulous and exciting. An atmosphere where it able to create excellent impression, it will be worth to sacrifice your sources and energy. Time is most concern for everyone when having party. We must allocate some portions of expenses to prepare the in-house party.

3. Invitation cards
To express your deeper appreciation to attending your party's, your express words would be important tools to impress our sincere to invite them to come over your memorable party. With such powerful invitation words, "you are cordially invited to make the occasion to joyous one." You're thinking it sounds complicated, indeed it strongly important to create 1st impression for your guest that you're really sincere to invite them to your joyous party.

4. Budget allocation
Some hidden costs may be incurred where you have planned in earlier stage. Due to some courses, you must thoughts what's the bottom line expenses you can spend, the budget which you allocate under your control, you must in control every expenses. You must spend within your budgets. All officially receipts expenses must file in place where you can calculating full details and creates the work sheet to be use in upcoming event.

HOME....

How to definite such term in your own dictionary? In fact, it will have billions of difference definition in our thoughts. In my mind, I defined it as the place where I can found comfortable, warm, stressful reduced and happiness. Without home, I only find my life is not worth living and boring life.

Like such definition, "Home is the one place in all this world where hearts are sure of each other. It is the place of confidence. It is the place where we tear off that mask of guarded and suspicious coldness which the world forces us to wear in self-defense, and where we pour out the unreserved communications of full and confiding hearts. It is the spot where expressions of tenderness gush out without any sensation of awkwardness and without any dread of ridicule."~Frederick W. Robertson

"One's home is like a delicious piece of pie you order in a restaurant on a country road one cozy evening - the best piece of pie you have ever eaten in your life - and can never find again. After you leave home, you may find yourself feeling homesick, even if you have a new home that has nicer wallpaper and a more efficient dishwasher than the home in which you grew up. ~Lemony Snicket

As you read through those are experts often have their difference point of views. How about you? I'm thinking how should I look at home as place where can allow us to find our happiness and joyful as well as cheerful. When I was aged 10, I recalled some wonderful events had been underwent. I can recalled the exactly where the happiness can be found again. I am indeed trying thoughts some greatest experiences I had been gone through. Until now, have no idea at all. What this occurred to me? Would be possible you were the same situation as me? Try your level of best never ever demotivate yourself, you should proud of yourself to grow with full of healthy and happiness. A person who also addressed, "there is nothing staying at home for real comfort." Questions in your mind now, is it the only place I can find my comfort zone? Hopefully it's not totally ruined your mind when you also have similar feeling with me instead.

Have you how long did you go back to home monthly? The above on what you have indicated it doesn't matter you should understand the definition, the most important is all about your thoughts in your inner heart.

Argument Always Comes with Clear Understanding

Traditionally many people said,' how to win more arguments' or 'how to fight with effectively argument', but to me that the better argument always comes with more understanding. The more you understand, you may know your opponents before attack more valuable information to fact that your arguments are giving better advices and ideas. There could be helpful for each of the problem occurred. For instance, recently I have encountered a weird case which related to my jobs. I am handling various type of patterns customer currently especially they are from China. Every customer has their business pattern to running thir business with us.

Some successful business people always urged us that we should putting 10x times effort to manage the China customer before your business get into the drain. What happened with this value customer for being complaint us that we have mismanaged the products. To what certain extent, I usually will get rectify the problems before to handle up over it to top management to finalised the decision. Due to miscommunication between me & customer, I can't really blame myself and my colleagues. The main reason is we didn't proof any with business letter and agreement.

We have keep nothing. And we expected initially it started smooth from production to shipment, you are actually fighting against the argument which has been rose by customer end of the day. We have done mistakes where we keep nothing to show it both parties have agreed. We, however, are mismanaged the information. This is on what initially we should expected happened after things have in order. I was not bad too, I was trying to figure out the statement which the customer's has been agreed. Nothing extra and proven the statement end up to argument. Do you think it is my fault? Something did and something did not. I found the problem was the communication between me & my colleague's. Nevertheless, she also alert that the problem had raised where we must look at the solution instead of the problems.

Marketing terms, "the customer is always right." What else in your mind now? I don't mean I am correct and customer's given misused information. I of course was arguing with customer on the information provided has not accurate on what we received. I just wish more understand what actually happened on this problem. To solve the problem, we must understand the whole exact problem that we faced.

Are You A loser?

Would you want to be a loser ever in your entire life? I assume you are totally not. Who wanted to become a loser? Take a very short break, ask anyone does next to you,"Are you a loser?" What actually the answer you are looking for, it really sounds ridiculous. I would strongly say the person who you have asked they will immediately revert their reply to you and said, "What the Fxxking idiot ask such question, what do you expect the answer from me, Bast xxx!" Nobody will give you the answer in your mind.

I can predict that every single person will refused to giving the exact answer in their mind or heart. It's sounds common sense, anyone of you wanted to be loser? I can look into this statement aggressively, the reason will be caused of the person who actually does not wanted to become a loser although they have staying in tough living and challenging life. They feared to change. Through certain research conducted, there is measurement between a loser and a winner, one of the factor was fear. Loser can't managed their fear. Winners do. Losers understand that no one choose to be failure. Perhaps they are not as strong as you think. In particularly their behaviors and attitudes maybe in negativity perspectives in their life, especially their career paths, they usually have difference point of views.

What do you do next? Try to start with positive thinking. We must posses with powerful positive minded to obtain our achievements which it seen has been organized. Our thoughts extremely are essential to look every challenges and obstacles in positive ways. Its, though, they are considered setback for you to grow and pull you down most of time. Don't hang with these toxic people. Stay far away from them before you're end up one of the member in their failure clubs.

We sometimes will think of giving up when faced number of setbacks, it's basically truth for everyone. Losers do giving up easily, but winners are not. They have feared no matter small or big problems, they're looking at problems but it's not solution. Winners find solution, not find problems in problems instead.

A winner is never idle so keep that in mind and forget boredom. Losers always use bored as their excuses. Breakthrough your bad behaviors. The worst thing is the excuses are your failures. Hence, the beginning you may not realized until it has came across in your mind, it slowly will change your behaviors. Losers do not organized their problems, but winner does. They will find some interesting things in their life to escape their boredom.

Now, you are determined by yourself. Who are you, a loser or a winner?

Isn't Real Estate Is A Bad Investment?

Let's share with you and wish has no obligation on it, this is a stupid question!!! What can you feel if someone does says to you likely? My opinion is that is not right or wrong, you can choose to be wrong as well as you can choose it is extremely correct. It's part of criticism. Whether you like it or not, we live in real estate business. Look at your surrounding house areas, it basically full of properties, huge lands, luxury business commercial, and number of properties in your home living. You're indirectly involved in real estate.

Everyone does understand what is real estate. But the main question is how we can invest real estate? If you don't know all about real estate, it must be you are still staying in dinosaur century, no technology and absolutely lack of informative interest on certain areas especially in real estate, though, the money is actually flowing in the market or somewhere. Where is your money is flowing somewhere? You might find somewhere that more secure, save and stable ways to ensure your hard money should not be lost easily and the money have gone nowhere.

With current tough situation, we should learn how to reorganize your financial question by well managed before we have lost. Thus so far, we of course seldom accepted their criticism. I do believe it maybe of fear to change. What would you do with your large money of cash? How do you plan forward? Buy real estate or start investing to real estate? The information here is basically it's not to discourage you, criticism you or underestimate your capability, it mainly share how does someone able to generate luxury income without taking high risk and good profit return. And we alert there are numerous channels to generate passive incomes and provide secure financial monitoring in sense of they are protecting your money with professional advices to venture it right channels of low risk and high margins. It sounds possible, it may works.

To match these entire topic for a day, I love these statement in which, "God gave us two eyes, two ears and one mouth. That's because God designed us to learn by listening and obseving instead of talking. Rather than use your moutn speak in statments, use your mouth to ask question, the shut up, watch and listen. You will become smarter, brilliant, richer and more in control if you adopt the habit of asking questions rather than talking."

When You're Out of Curiousity

Some people do want to know more when things turn out curiously, why not you? Do you have high degree of curiosity? I wish you do. When you do not have, I believe you definitely shall missing out on the most important to fulfilling your dreams and goals. Many things turn out with faster speed, without further realization on what it is happening, you will leave behind the track. What I am trying to say that things can be anything such as career, couple relationships, dreams, goals and many things in our living.

It does a difference by just out of curiosity. Furthermore, you lack this interest, you stay no M.E.A.Ningful in your life's. You may not agreed with me that what I am trying to highlight we should curiosity in what happening to us, it's difficult to build this interest but it's truly essential to feeling good. When things are totally new to us, we expect everyday must be learned something new. New learning, new improvement. That's mainly purpose why everyone of us must posses curiosity behavior.

On the other hand, lack of curiosity may caused us the information gained should be less, inaccurate and the worst can killing your joys. When we can understanding more than we expected, this is particularly enhance our knowledge especially the information has collected. These could be more valuable. Some people reluctant to being possess of curiosity behavior, they usually will know nothing rather than others are possess with their right attitude of curiosity. It just being to understand more, you can't foresee and expecting.

Start building your curiosity muscle and bring it back from the atrophy of neglect. We all have the ability to be curious, just watch any small child. We were that child once. Like any new habit it takes consistency to build it up. So, start with 5 minutes a day and take the curious approach to something.

"Women Hold Up Half The Sky"

I just recently read an article, which attracted my intention to put up my post here. Traditionally, we think most women lack of certain skills, knowledge's and intelligent. We indeed are getting wrong perception on them. Time is moving, and of course women will also be developed more skillful and knowledgeable. it's could be out of your expectation. You just open your eyes and look at those are women are working in workforce, certain of them may hold up to the top ladder in corporation.

As leader experts said,Chinese communist leader Mao Zedong once remarked that “women hold up half the sky”. Whether it was an ancient proverb or his own quotation, having women in the workforce has certainly brought about a host of benefits.

The survey has proven that yet in Malaysia, only 37% of the 10.8million workforce is women. The remaining balance will occupy by the men which 77% of the available of roles. Therefore, we shouldn't expect the numbers as shown it will not be going up, it may going up in upcoming day especially in the corporate ladders. As often said, "Never ever estimated anyone else next to you."

"Why, when you have two hands, you only use one?" as professional OL addressed in this articles. They as women, they are not trying to compete with the men, it's not about being as best as men. They are just recognizing fro their own strengths and capabilities. Apart from that, women are hold the higher education rather than men. This is caused them to understand the men world always in high ladder, this is one of the way to stay in same level with men. Hence so far, I also understand that there are number of social communities to widen their networking, develop their skills, share their resources and representing themselves to government of their point of views. In workforce, it occurred gender bias basically where women always reluctant speak for themselves and achievements. Like such pattern, they used not to create norms among the social norms nor are they encouraging other women to succeed. It's difficult their efforts speak from themselves, they must able to create the intention for men to understand they are not weak likely last time.

Women measure success differently from men, “Success to men, generally speaking, is about making profits and beating your opponents. Women tend to measure success by fulfilling passions and benefiting all around them,” despite that, corporate culture must recognise female traits as a strength and not a disadvantage simply because it differs from male traits.

Fear Factor of Entrepreneurs

In recent climate change, there are lot of potential young entrepreneurs to start off their own business to invest more opportunity in their lives. And no doubt, to create a new business idea, it may cost your time and energy to figure out whether it could be possible to venture and approach investors to look at this ideas positively. It is not simple as you think if you out yourself into their shoes. Therefore, I can foresee they have facing a number of obstacles to block their own dream in order to them to heading forward to the destiny as they desired. Have you ever thought of what are the best strategy to overcome your nightmare and make your ideas successful in business? I may dropped my few solution to lead away your biggest nightmare.

1. Fear of rejection
When you thought certain brilliant and gorgeous ideas, did you fear to share with anyone else? What actual obstacles can ever stopped your dreams? it could be few main reason, but the main one is your fear of rejection. Some people will say your ideas can't ever worked it. Many good rejection examples can shared with you, "it's gonna to cost very high, profit margin is too low, consumers may not accepted new changes, it too much money to start off, the risk too high and so forth." And it's truth that it gonna to stop your movement. You start to think negatively, you feared. You should not stop because it is small roadblocks but it can breakthrough.

Solution: Be remember, kick your butt now and tell the world, you're dare to challenge and go against the grain to see the opportunities. Yet you must struggle until to strive your jackpots.

2. Fear of losing your time
Being successful entrepreneur never worked with anyone else. You work for yourself. You are the one to determine whether you wanted to work 24/7 a day nor 366 days ahead(work extra 1 day created differences). You will definitely have no spare time with your family and your holidays. You need to sacrifice most of time to make your business succeed. Whenever you have started new business, you will be concentrating the business strategies, how do you can step forward to next level to gain market advantages. Solution: No sacrifice, no result will pay out. You make it happen, if you think your business stable and good enough, you are wrong.

Solution: You must alert all time, balance with your working time and leisure time and ultimately to understand on what your competitors doing and implement whatsoever marketing strategy to capture more market share. Some expert said" Life is short, set aside of fear."

3. Fear of being all alone
You will guide without bosses. No one will tell how to do and how to start. You alone to work and solve every single problems when you've facing. You make your own decision. You perhaps may decided wrong decision, you have worked no framework. The worst scenario you may spend more time to figure out the problems and solve it over. Self- independent can strengthen your minds and decision making. Work alone apparently can be the best where you able to monitor every tasks you know which is main priority and which is not.

Solution: Work out a sheet of daily tasks, which able to allocate your tasks naturally and smartly. You save much time and allocating the tasks based on the deadlines as you set. No matter important nor unimportant, you must diversify your priority and specific measurable goals help you to feel good on your achievements.

Admitting Your Stupid Mistakes

Just recalled some mistakes which you have done, did you realized that it was your mistakes where it basically did not accepted by someone you ever loved? You might be ask yourself, did you honest enough to someone you really loved? What if you have not, what are the main reasons caused you have not tell the truths? I can expected some questions in your mind now. Tell the truths may or may not easy but it as hard as you think of. To admit mistakes, it is not as easy as you just speak to anyone else. I feel some feared when you have done mistakes, it's not evaluate small or big, it just such your pattern being honestly. I feared indeed. I really pissed off.

I don't know how should I start to tell your beloved person. I certainly have done some mistakes will cause myself suffering daily where you even have trouble to keep yourself moving forward. I also understand that it might be caused your beloved suffering as well. You sometimes might not seen and feel how such ridiculous mistakes can caused someone next to you. It created uncomfortable zone, it will. You may thinking how to convince her/him listen to you, the most important part you ask for forgiveness. What you expect, the result may vary. You can even expect the worst scenarios what happening soon, you breathless. Apart from that, you may sucked in thinking of what is the best solution after admitted your mistakes.

Therefore, you may lost focused. You can't even stayed on track. The worst situation I can foresee may it caused them heart breaking. I can dared not do that actually but indeed you have done it. It can considers you're too self-fish. You don't care how they feel when you intially started to do it, after it happened, you will totally feel regret. What am I in this situation now. I can't manage my feeling now. You know why? I couldn't really stressed what type of regret feeling now. But now, it strongly hurt. Not only you, it is caused surrounding people. I regret, is it too late? I wish it is not.

In a RUSH

Rush things happened when time is moving. And of course it is totally hard, we can adjust rush things all the time, things may be easily to handle but the deadline is not allowed you to do so. How do you monitor all the rush things happening in once time? I wish myself can handle it, though, I honest to tell you I can but with certain condition allowed.

For instance, I recently do assisting my colleagues when they are out of country to visit our valued customers. It's really sucked in the rushing tasks where I couldn't be adopted as fast as possible. It looks simple but the mountain of works right in front of, you may rush without thinking how things can be done well. You just remained focus on your tasks, neither important nor not, I must complete before the deadline. It's killing you without strong reasons. Rush things can make you do certain mistakes which you do not realised. After a second, you found something has been missing. If you just put yourself into my shoe, I truly hope you can feel what did I feel.

When I think positively, things must be done on time, rush things must done well, no mistakes allowed. Would you be think that you are superhero or whatever? I praised myself no gift. I only can understand my sacrifice is worthwhile when I have completed all tasks with no silly mistakes at all. I know I can do it no matter how rush the tasks given, you just work with relaxing minded and keep track on your responsibility. Some people often said, "Pressure is created by yourself." I do agree with this statement, no pressure how to develop yourself and sharpen your minded. It's pretty awesome. I love this feel after rushed things have been covered up.

An good experience which I have never had that one time I was also assigned to assist my respective superior who away for country 3 weeks. It was tougher period, I made lots mistakes until involved other colleagues in this particular stupid mistakes. I had properly lost my tracks where I can't handle number of things in same time. Hence, I had wasted lots of resources which it was not necessarily and shouldn't happened. I learned from my mistakes. It's all about time management and stress management. I was telling myself after review by my respective superior, "I MUST STAYED FOCUSED" on whatever rushed things to play deep attention to finish it. Try to overcome each tasks, one-by-one to monitor closely. Although it was painful experiences, I used to adapt in short period of time, I understand "SETBACK IS NOT FAILURE."

This applies to all of us, let's not be quick in everything we do. We have to pause for a while to be able to observe and analyze or maybe even read between the lines. Take into consideration all the things that matter and set aside all that don't. Prior to things end up, we have to set our priorities which it is important and not.

Simple Ways to Relax At Work When Stress Strive

We all indeed will be facing much pressure in workplae everyday. We sometimes have done our jobs but our management does not appreciated especially bosses too demanding, unhappy customer, frustration buyers, colleagues desperated, the deadline is due and etc. It could be lots of unhappy cases happened to you in the past or recent, we however should know to overcome it and maintain the best performances. Neither we face stress nor enjoy our works, we do know that how to relax our mind and physically to obtain well healthy work environment for ourself. Here are some tips can relax your minds when hitting by stress:

-Think positive! A negative mentality will only induce a state of tension and frustration. Try to think of work in positive terms. And not to load the negative energy, avoid sources of negativism that could influence you. No matter how positive feel at the beginning of the day some people will manage to have a strong impact on your mind and spirit. Try to ignore them. You have the right, and power, to be happy at work.

-Get involved! You have to detach from what happens at work. Try to be all the time aware of what is happening in the company, obtain information about your department, projects that are in progress, office colleagues, superiors and others employees.

-Stay focused! Whenever you have assigned to complete some tasks which youthink your capability can be finished according to deadline given, you must stay focus on what you have committed. You don't get wrong that Im not stress your should avoid other tasks although both tasks have been given at the same time. You may know how to allocate your precise time and energy whether it does allow to work both tasks together.

The Biggest Roadblocks to Success in Life is SELF_DOUBT

Have you ever doubt on your capability and strengths on the tasks have been given? I note that some of you might came across this kind of circumstances where you have put much efforts to obtain your best to have done the task successfully, though, you have at the end no one else appreciated your hard work. It is not matter of work hard as you can, it could be all about how smart you have work.

Whenever you think you have doubt on your capability, it is not regards on what you have done, you only must understand how to improve your best to make things happened. And of course, it is hard when you have fallen, you can't bounce back, you will ever recognised that person who has expected you have not work as hard as you can. Self doubt, however, is virtually not a solution to solve your problems when have failure somethings which you have personally stressed you have done ever your best. Or else, you will keep moving down deeply. You should understand that I couldn't do the best, you can forced yourself to do it one step further, work extra one more day and so forth.

Doubtful pattern only makes to be failure. You couldn't on your track faster when you have realized. Otherwise, those are with courage and good behaviors always treats their problems as challenges, they won't allow other people take away their dreams. As some experts said, "the biggest roadblock to success is self doubt, when you can breakthrough, the journey to success just right behind of you." We internally created the roadblocks, it is because of the failures in your mind. It is because of you dare not to failure. If you dare to failure, you deserve to success. You have doubt because you have feared. You feared to pain, when you think of pain, you quit. You will try to get as far as possible, you choose to safe route and walking other ways.

Persistence & Self-determination

Throughout this 2 weeks, I have been stopped for writing almost more than 10 days. I really wanted to update my post, however my recent tasks do not allow me to spend time for blogging. I actually tighten up with heavy tasks where my respective colleagues have been away 2 weeks for business trip in China. That's reason I can't update my post. Right here, I feel glad can takes about 15 minutes to post my 1st article in this week.

Many people often say if you need to achieve your dreams or goals, you must have persistence behavior to make your dreams come true. Persistence is an essential for journey to success. How do you look at persistence? Some people stressed that we can work hard and putting all effort, the lucky will come right behind but persistent does not required. There is no right or wrong, it is just whether good or bad. Sound familiar to you? I urged you that maintaining and creating a positive mindset is one of the important attributes that has contributed to every successful person. I alert that when you need to success, persistent is one of the ultimate way reaching your goals. Self determination could be play significant role as well. Everyone has different living styles, but self-determination comes in place. There is no doubt among our group of friends might be have negative attitudes, it cannot be avoided. It's just matter of your thoughts how you view your perspective in your life's.

"No gain, no pain" as quoted. have you heard this quote before? I wish you do. The reason why someone can achieved their dreams is all caused by their hard work and effort. Without these 2 essential attitudes, it could not fulfill of their dreams. I wish you should encourage yourself to putting as much as effort you can, to obtain your successful lives. I personally am guiding myself
dedication, focus, persistent, positive attitude, self-determination throughout any and all circumstances and curve balls life throws at us.

My 1st 100 Posts

Happy birthday to me! Happy birthday to me! Happy birthday to me! Happy birthday to me....

Extremely incredible. Look at the journey where I have posted all my articles in my blog's, it's pretty amazing my courage to start blogging non-stop from the beginning until now. If you ask me what else can makes you to blogging and never start writing? I have an answer in my mind indeed, it's just about your persistence and committed to your goals.

I manage to post my 1st 100 posts by today. I should reward myself a small token appreciation successfully to write my blog's until 100 posts. I initially do not expect such incredible result when i begin to post up my 1st ever blog. At that time, I was only setting a goals to encourage myself unless 1 post a day. Sometimes, I indeed write more than one. It could be my passionate to push me move forward. Hence, the beginning when I begun started to post my 1st blog, I expected it was difficult to me. I, however it was not as hard as to post your blog by a day. I got a fear at first. Fear is a challenge to me. I know my writing's not as good as others. Moreover, I have came from poor and small village boy's who never undergone the intensive grammar writing skills. I'm very poor in writing an English. I feel no ashamed. I know if i keep on writing, I foresee maybe one day can become a writer. (used to my ambitious last time)

When I was 20s, I learned no about the grammar. I has improved my writing during my studies in university. I learned with someone really passionate taught me how to improve my writing as well as communication in professional ways. There have numerous of options to improve, I chosen one which comfortable it. I started to write in short, simple and concise paragraphs. I made more practises since I knew my writing was weak. What I discover that I have learned countless words, it's really priceless. And then I have realized that the more practise you are, the more improvement you have.

I tell myself everyday, I must learn something which I have ever learned before. It's the way to encourage myself never stop learning. Remember that my mentor's often told me that, if you stop learning, you stop growing. It's really inspired me to learn at least one new thing everyday. "If you just improve 1% for a day, can you imagine what if for a year, you almost improve more 365%. Rather than those are always saying that I wanted to improve but no action. Action is a journey to success. Without begins with single move, you learn nothing at all. At the end, those are enthusiasm to learn more, they are move faster than those are putting off their action aside.